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Old 12-Jan-18, 05:56
Alexios Alexios is offline
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Default Re: Wise to ask for no safeword and ignore taps?

I have to go with the majority and concur that this is an unwise idea. It sounds hot in theory but reality may well turn out to be much nastier than expected.

Have you sessioned with her before? Because I have in a session told one wrestler that she could ignore my taps. But I had sessioned with her multiple times before so I knew I could trust her not to go crazy, whilst she had a good idea of my limits. It was a lot of fun and I never felt unsafe even though she was in total control, but I'd never give anyone that kind of power until I'd built up a good rapport with them.

One compromise you might go with is say that she can keep the hold on for another 3 seconds after you tap, or that when you tap she has to loosen the hold for a bit but then can reapply it or transition into another hold without letting you go. That way you get the 'she's in total control' bit without the 'no way to make it stop' bit.
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