Re: Where does this fetish come from?
I think, at least with me, it comes from feeeliing as a child that others were superrior to you and therefore that you were due to be dominated, punished or humiliated by others. Yet if you had to suffer that way, at least let it be done by a female so that you at least could feel excitement or get some enjoyment from the contact and presence with the other sex. As we grew and matured, the feeling of being inferior may well have dissapeared, but the desire to be humilated or punished by a woman remained.
Tad
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