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In general I think it feels empowering when you can get someone's body to react to you in a way thats beyond their control. I've heard many people say they enjoy the noises and physical reactions their partner makes when they are struggling to hold back their orgasms because of something being done to them.

One thing thats always stood out to me is that not only do men usually get aroused far more easily than women do but its far more obvious when they do. When a woman is aroused the signs are often subtle whereas a man's manhood will literally stand at attention for a woman.