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Old 20-Jun-18, 15:04
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Default Re: Accidental humiliation

You did the right thing if you're the protagonist in a porn story but not if you're a person who cares about other's psychological well-being. Sometimes someone can agree to something, and then find out that when they're put in the situation, that it's frightening and upsetting and not in the way they thought it would be. Being bound and controlled like that can be very exciting and erotic, but it can also bring up some really bad/repressed memories or be extremely traumatic, especially when the person that does it keeps antagonizing you over it. Which, even if you say you weren't, you were. Demanding an apology from someone you have handcuffed IS antagonizing them.

Yeah, she may have been being a poor sport, but you can never know how you'll react to a situation and she may have agreed thinking it would be okay. Or maybe she was just a jerk. But in my mind, 'Being a poor sport' is not as big a problem as continuing to play out a scene with someone who wants to stop. Unless you'd agreed to a safeword and she didn't use it (in which case she was just going along with it too) it sounds like she wanted out.

Probably wouldn't want to wrestle her again if she wouldn't go along with the terms, but still.
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