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Old 19-Jun-13, 04:06
fanman72
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Default Why we have this fetish

There is absolutely nothing wrong with mixed wrestling and enjoying losing competitively to a woman in a very physical way. That being said, it certainly is outside the norm and lately I've been doing a lot of psychological reading online as to why we're wired the way we are. I'm 30 now, but it wasn't even until I was 20ish or so that i found out most men like to dominate and throw around their woman in bed rather than vice versa


I love my current girlfriend and I've enjoyed the good times I've had with my ex-girlfriends. That being said, on a strictly, purely physical/sexual/lust way, sadly, they will never be able to compare to what a session wrestler or escort who is willing to act very dominate (ride on top, control my cumming, slap me) can do to me.


Some of the information I found online (i do not have a link, sorry) consider heterosexual male masochism to be on the spectrum of heterosexuality to homosexuality. Obviously, we are hetero but still considered slightly gayer than the typical person (if that makes sense?)


Growing up, how many of you had a combination of an absent, distant, or passive father and a mother who "wore the pants", so to speak who could also be harsh, overbearing, and disapproving at times? How many of you later in life seeked out male role models, whether it was a supervisor or a friend you looked up to? How many ended up getting some form of depression or anxiety in their teens or twenties? Earlier in life, were you the passive type who let others take the lead? My theory is that the power dynamics of your parents early in life, as well as their inability to control their emotions and being stressed out largely has contributed to our love of mixed wrestling. I also suspect that this would cause other psychological issues as well, such as depression or anxiety in your 20s

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