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Old 08-Jan-18, 19:16
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Post What can i do, if i can't afford to book a session

Question is clear, for me i am a student and i have no income but want to experience it during my youngdom also there are poor people that never can afford the sessions while decide to live this and want to feel dominated! If there is anyway to make it please let me know.

Also if there is any girl here with a golden heart, please help me out.. i would love to meet.
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Old 08-Jan-18, 20:30
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Default Re: What can i do, if i can't afford to book a session

Depends on how bad your financial situation is. I've been in this situation in the past where I didn't have a job, or much finances. Session wrestling was too expensive at the time. Thought of asking female acquaintances of putting me in holds, but was too afraid to really do it in fear of being labeled a weirdo. Because I was attracted to them as well, it made me even more nervous. Looking back, I would have done things different and am confident I could have found some way to convince them to do it. Without paying the going $300 for session wrestling.

Anyway, you have a few options in my viewpoint.

1. Could put up an ad for places like craigslist or w/e. Say that for one hour, you'll pay them $100-$200 to purely wrestle or put wrestling holds on you. nothing more. Where it happens is a different story. could probably get a cheap room, or cheap place at a hotel. if you live with parents, would certainly be hard. if you live by yourself or something, then it wouldn't be too difficult. For safety reasons, you might be able to first meet at a public place just to help get rid of any fear that they may initially have of you.

2. Could convince a friend or acquaintance of wrestling you or putting moves on you. Offering something in return may help the best .Can convince them with either money, or offering to do their homework or a paper they owe.

If you ask a random girl or even an acquaintance "wanna wrestle me for an hour", you'll probably going to get weird ass looks or an awkward response. But offering something that may benefit them, may decrease the weirdness or motivate them to do it.


that's all i got for now. someone may have better advice

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any chance you could move this to the main section for wrestling discussion? I think this is an interesting thread, and can help other people whom can't afford to do regular sessions

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Old 08-Jan-18, 20:57
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Default Re: What can i do, if i can't afford to book a session

Not sure where you live, but if you are in UK you could go to, for example, one of the Manchester Wrestling Factory shows (admission ~£40), where you can have a private 15min session for ~£40.
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I believe similar deals are offered by Monicas & the Submission rooms etc in London.


Also some of the girl wrestlers/video companies in the UK often advertise for male 'jobbers' to appear as 'victim' in wrestling/domination videos. Sometimes they charge a small free, but I've often seen requests on twitter where no fee is required.

Anyway have a look at, for example, smothervixens run by Thunder & Scorpion

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If you are not in UK, you could just try emailing some of the producers seen in producers section on this board who are fairly close to you.

Best of luck!
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Default Re: What can i do, if i can't afford to book a session

Here again, you didn`t seem to mention a location, but you could keep you eyes open for advance notice of one of the wrestling parties that get held in different locations. You probably need to go over and hangout at fetlife.com and sit on the right groups to find out. You definitely have the NYC based one's as an option and maybe something in New Jersey.
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Default Re: What can i do, if i can't afford to book a session

Some houses of domination have wrestlers and take credit cards, if that's easier for you. You still pay for it but you can pay for it over time. (Low interest rate is best).

People mentioned wrestling parties, also look at local dungeons/S&M Parties.

I had my first session after I got my late student loan payment. I paid off my tuition and I had enough left to have a session. (I was living with my parents at the time so covering tuition was my main expense).

But if none of that is an option, look up local ladies or traveling ladies who shoot videos. You might get a discount for shooting a video. If your face showing up is a problem you could wear a mask and maybe a wig, but you'll get more responses if you'll show your face.

Now, that's not exactly easy. A total stranger asking to be in videos, you'll get turned down a lot, but it's possible. The trick is to make a good impression. Be honest, say why you're doing it, but also, try to follow instructions and be a good subject.

You could also try fetlife and take out a classified ad as a wrestling slave. See if ladies are looking for slaves. I've never done that so I'm not sure what being a slave entails. The lady might want you to clean her apt or cook for her or drive them places in exhange for a chokehold now and again. I'm not the slave type, so I have no experience there. Dungeons sometimes have house-slaves too, who presumably clean up the rooms and other menial tasks for the occasional reward.

You could also try meetup.com, set up a "mixed-wrestling/Scissor" party. Set a date (you'll also need a location), see what responses you get. $20 for guys, girls attend free/can make some cash if there's overflow. Work out a few words to say at the start of the event, print an itinerary, discuss with the ladies, offer to show them some moves beforehand if they want. It's kind of time-intensive but you might get lucky. There's also a good chance you'll get zero responses from ladies and need to cancel your event.

Make your own video company, place an add in one-model-place and/or Craigslist. "Looking for models with wrestling/fitness experience for wrestling videos". The first session can be an interview, no filming, gym or street clothes, ask them if they have any injuries, get them to sign a waiver and check ID to be sure they're over 18, then you can show them some basics, choke hold, head scissor etc. When you get down to shooting videos you'll need a camera and a clips4sale account which probably requires a credit-card, so that's not a great idea. At least, it's not really cheap but if you make good videos you might make some of your money back.
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Default Re: What can i do, if i can't afford to book a session

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Here again, you didn`t seem to mention a location, but you could keep you eyes open for advance notice of one of the wrestling parties that get held in different locations. You probably need to go over and hangout at fetlife.com and sit on the right groups to find out. You definitely have the NYC based one's as an option and maybe something in New Jersey.
I agree with this. But regular, good grappling parties are few and far between. I've attended those in DC/Baltimore/Frederick, MD area, and they were great, but they haven't been active in a while. The NYC ones are more regular.

Toronto and Madison, Wisconsin have them too. Not sure about other areas. They are hard to sustain for various reasons (hard to find venue, liability issues, 'creepiness' factor...)

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Depends on how bad your financial situation is. I've been in this situation in the past where I didn't have a job, or much finances. Session wrestling was too expensive at the time. Thought of asking female acquaintances of putting me in holds, but was too afraid to really do it in fear of being labeled a weirdo. Because I was attracted to them as well, it made me even more nervous. Looking back, I would have done things different and am confident I could have found some way to convince them to do it. Without paying the going $300 for session wrestling.

Anyway, you have a few options in my viewpoint.

1. Could put up an ad for places like craigslist or w/e. Say that for one hour, you'll pay them $100-$200 to purely wrestle or put wrestling holds on you. nothing more. Where it happens is a different story. could probably get a cheap room, or cheap place at a hotel. if you live with parents, would certainly be hard. if you live by yourself or something, then it wouldn't be too difficult. For safety reasons, you might be able to first meet at a public place just to help get rid of any fear that they may initially have of you.

2. Could convince a friend or acquaintance of wrestling you or putting moves on you. Offering something in return may help the best .Can convince them with either money, or offering to do their homework or a paper they owe.

If you ask a random girl or even an acquaintance "wanna wrestle me for an hour", you'll probably going to get weird ass looks or an awkward response. But offering something that may benefit them, may decrease the weirdness or motivate them to do it.


that's all i got for now. someone may have better advice

Also, @[Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

any chance you could move this to the main section for wrestling discussion? I think this is an interesting thread, and can help other people whom can't afford to do regular sessions
good advice. however, it's worth noting that:

1) Asking a female friend to wrestle you can be really delicate. May harm or ruin the friendship, or may lead to tons of other ladies thinking you're a creep. Tread lightly there.

2) Even if you end up getting either "free" wrestling or a cheaper "session" for $100-200, I'd wager many session wrestlers would give you a better experience. Someone like Robin or Tyler Dare (who I've both sessioned with) will be knowledgeable about holds, attractive, won't hurt you (unless you ask for it), won't be creeped out by most normal requests (within reason), will have good stamina, and will make you feel comfortable. Most untrained ladies who don't do this for a living won't be able to do all of those things.

The closest I've personally gotten to something like the session "experience" was with a few women at grappling parties. But it was still different; remember that in a session, you're the client, and they know there's a bit of a sexual element to it, and they will play off of that. These ladies aren't dumb. They may not get you off, explicitly, but they won't be weirded out by a boner. No guarantees when talking about wrestling a friend, jiu-jitsu class, etc.

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Default Re: What can i do, if i can't afford to book a session

Yeah, session wrestlers who have been in the scene for a good while and whom make an effort(instead of trying to make a quick buck) will usually be the best . For wrestling and fulfilling a lot of requests .Unfortunately, it depends on where you live, how active the scene is in the area , and a barrage of other factors. A long with their specified schedule. where I live, the session scene is quite dead. rarely any girl travels here, the locals are inactive, and even dominatrix's are practically nonexistent. For me to even see a remotely good session wrestler, I have to drive several hours by car, get a hotel, etc just to see them. Not to mention fill up my car tank on the way to and back many times . Or travel by plane, and doing that can get costly along with rental cars . I've sessioned with Tyler twice, good person though unfortunately she moved out of my area years ago(used to be local) and doesn't tour as much here.


I only remember one situation a few years ago where it's the closest to
happening outside of regular session wrestling. She was a woman on youtube who'd upload videos of her KO'ing some guys. Seemed to like it. We surprisingly lived in the same state and she invited me to be choked out by her. She seemed proficient in the Rear Naked Choke Hold and knew how to put guys out in a couple of secs, with not much of a struggle. Sadly it never came to pass(terrible communication from my part) . If my communication was better at the time, I'm sure it would have happened. And probably free. Though the benefit for them, is that they make money from youtube

I think if I could go back in time(or were more motivated these days ), I'd try it with friends or take bigger risks. Depending on how close we were. If it's someone I barely talk too, just have a one sided crush on and barely know. It'd be a huge risk and if they found me physically disgusting, then it could lead to a pretty bad rejection.

If it's someone I talk to, who I know, who I can have good conversations with, then the risk lessens as long as I can bring it up well. I wouldn't bring up a headscissors(yet?), but I'd talk to them of standard moves like rear naked chokes, arm bars, etc and set something up where they apply those moves on me, even if for self defense. If the urge was even greater, I'd put up an incentive on the line($$$ or doing something for them) that would help convince them.

That or just get a GF/Wife who is into this stuff like @[Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register] Easier said than done though, as you'll have people who are into it, people who aren't, and people who just don't care.
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Default Re: What can i do, if i can't afford to book a session

maybe if you have a close friend just kind of start a playfight and let them pin you down, not exactly what you want but if you dont have any other option it may help your craving, then in also seems impromptu and you dont get the awkwardness or weird looks.

Also maybe use chatrooms you may find someone prepared to do it, and again you dont have the rejection embarrasment. Let me know how you get on
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Default Re: What can i do, if i can't afford to book a session

I was very impoverished when I got my start, but I always found a way to hoard $5 here, $10 there, that's how addicted to this I was originally. Then after a few months, I'd have a wad of cash... and off to Boston I'd go, to get "squished," as a friend of mine used to put it! You'll find a way! (By the way, it only cost $100 prox back then... might take a few more weeks now)
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Default Re: What can i do, if i can't afford to book a session

Why not wait until you finish school, then you'll have income to afford one?
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