Hiding Your Interest of Mixed And Female Wrestling

[LicensetoKill]

I have no urge to do that what so ever. If anyone asks me, I'll tell them everything, if they care to listen that long, but telling everyone? A world of why bother?

I don't have a job that I'd lose but I respect privacy. I don't want to hear about my friends sex lives, certainly not the male ones. Why would I tell them about mine. A woman I worked with once told me about sex she had with someone I knew - it was really something I felt better off not knowing.

I have nothing against people who want to share this fetish and I have 3 session wrestlers as facebook friends, so it's not like I'm hiding anything, but I really don't want to come out and tell everyone "hey I'm into this".

[enigma]

Yeah this topic comes up every so often and I never get it. I understand wanting to tell your gf/wife but your friends, kids, and your job? Instead of asking us why we don't want to share this information I'd be more curious to know why you'd want to tell everybody in your life about this.

This is a sexual thing for me as a I assume it is for most here. Do you randomly tell your friends, kids, and co-workers what sex positions you enjoy? Or what your favorite porn videos are? or what your sexual fantasies are?

I could maybe see people discussing these things with really close friends but I think with anyone else most people would just be creeped out. And not even necessarily by the wrestling kink/fetish itself but by the fact that someone would just decide to share this information unprompted.

[james]

I’ve always kept it secret, except when I was a child I had a friend who was also into facesitting and we used to talk about it, and engineer situations to get sat on by girls.
Interesting when I was in University I shared a house with a guy who openly loved facesitting, but for some reason I never told him I was too.

[schatten_PhD]

Originally Posted by ClckwrkOra [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

Going public with a fetish is death in the vanilla business world.

If you're an executive or partner in a professional services firm, you stand to lose your job.

Men with the fetish gain nothing by others knowing, and risk public humiliation and/or loss of their earning ability.

100% agreed

[Braddogg4345]

I agree with a lot of the posts here. I don't think too many people would really want to know about our fetish. I think it is better off only being shared with people we are intimate with. Wives, girlfriends, and I think someone mentioned a fuck buddy.

I know if I had a friend, even if it were my best friend, and he was into Cleveland Steamers...I wouldn't want to hear about it! I wouldn't judge him if that was his thing, but I definitely wouldnt want to hear about it.

[rennurliart]

Originally Posted by Braddogg4345 [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

I agree with a lot of the posts here. I don't think too many people would really want to know about our fetish. I think it is better off only being shared with people we are intimate with. Wives, girlfriends, and I think someone mentioned a fuck buddy.

I know if I had a friend, even if it were my best friend, and he was into Cleveland Steamers...I wouldn't want to hear about it! I wouldn't judge him if that was his thing, but I definitely wouldnt want to hear about it.

I'm the one who shared my desire with a fuck buddy.

And, I agree. I'm not sharing my desire to wrestle females with my male friends. That would just be too weird.

[Royh]

There is absolutely nothing for me to gain by telling this to my friends/family/colleagues.

Usually after a very successful session I feel the need to tell everybody how much fun i had, but I fulfill this need to by participating in online conversations and by posting session reviews.

[ClckwrkOra]

Originally Posted by Royh [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

There is absolutely nothing for me to gain by telling this to my friends/family/colleagues.

Usually after a very successful session I feel the need to tell everybody how much fun i had, but I fulfill this need to by participating in online conversations and by posting session reviews.

Yes, and that's the key.

Zero to gain from disclosure, everything to lose.

[Stirlingbloomingdale]

On the one hand it does feel good to be able to finally admit what I like to dommes and session wrestlers, but I’m in the camp that agrees it’s no benefit to my professional and/or family life. If I was single or worked in the industry then absolutely I’d have nothing to lose.

I’ve carefully discussed it with the Missus and she’s not into it at all, which is okay with me. She represents the Husband/Father majority of my life and my fetish is the small minority. I’m just glad I get to enjoy the fetish rather than permanently repress it. That would be terrible and quite possibly self destructive.

[wgonzo64]

I just recently told this lady friend of mine (of 30 years ) that I always wanted her to scissor me and I could not believer her reaction . amazing