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Old 27-Jan-23, 08:21
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I have noticed that a lot of wrestlers, not just the ones who are travelling, require deposits nowdays. The number is constantly increasing, so I think about the mistresses: I am not into bdsm, but I lurk some boards and the deposit issue, at least in my country, is not even considered, since the mistresses who require deposits are seen as black sheeps and immediately put into a black list. Nobody searches them. Even when they are in tour, they don't require deposits. So, why this difference? It seems that deposits became mandatory nowdays in the session scene. Is the percentage of mixed wrestling guys who are scam so higher compared to the bdsm scene? Or they just follow different rules? If someone here is into bdsm and sessions with mistresses too, did he notice the difference?
Since I don't send deposits, my chances of sessioning are becoming lower and lower...
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Old 27-Jan-23, 10:44
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Default Re: Mandatory deposits, mixed wrestling VS BDSM

I don’t know where you are, but mistresses in my area also require deposits.

And fetish wrestling is absolutely part of BDSM
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Old 27-Jan-23, 13:56
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I don’t know where you are, but mistresses in my area also require deposits.

And fetish wrestling is absolutely part of BDSM

I am from italy. Here in the Bdsm scene fetish wrestling and bdsm are considered 2 separate things from the majority of both mistresses and wrestlers
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Old 27-Jan-23, 14:33
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In my experience, some bdsm ladies are willing to put you in a head scissor or choke-hold. It's not an hour of wrestling, but I've seen mistresses who had a mean head-scissor.
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Old 27-Jan-23, 17:23
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In my experience, some bdsm ladies are willing to put you in a head scissor or choke-hold. It's not an hour of wrestling, but I've seen mistresses who had a mean head-scissor.

Yes, true...but not competitive or semi-competitive wrestling
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It does seem like deposits have become the norm now with most session wrestlers asking for venmo or cashapp. I kind of wonder if it also serves as a way to weed out people who are not really serious about the session.
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Don’t get me started on deposits. I understand why they require them. However, most ladies won’t even reply to a second email without a deposit, so guys send them even before a date is confirmed.
Plus, I don’t know of one lady that has ever refunded a deposit even if she cancels.
As a result, I try to stick to ladies that know me. First time, yeah I send a deposit.
Yes, there are guys who book and cancel. Shame on them.
If you can’t commit to a date 100%, don’t book. You’re ruining it for the rest.
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I don't much mind deposits, I never try booking with someone I'm not sure I want to see anyway so it's not really an issue, and I've had good luck so far as a couple of delays were resolved pretty nicely and professionally.
The immediate tribute shit though, which has migrated to the scene from findom, I don't abide in the least, and I haven't regretted missing out on anyone because of my feelings about it. I'm not going to pay someone merely to reply to two emails no matter how hot I think she is.
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Since I don't send deposits, my chances of sessioning are becoming lower and lower...
Time is money. Everything else is bullshit. BUT, I do agree with NOT paying money just to email/text/chat about setting up an appointment. THAT is also (mostly) bullshit.

If you're not a wrestling session client, you're not a wrestling session client. You haven't done a wrestling session, therefore you are not a client. You have never put any money into that economy, so the session wrestling economy has not lost anything by you choosing not to participate.

I have never sent a deposit to anyone with whom I've already sessioned or to anyone who's checked my references before meeting me.
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Default Re: Mandatory deposits, mixed wrestling VS BDSM

There is a subset to this with guys who send deposits and then ghost the girl within a day of the session. I have heard this from several different girls. One girl got a deposit from the same guy three visits in a row and he pulled the same stunt every time. When in casual conversation I said free money she got upset and said lost income from if he had followed through. That may be why some girls are now upping deposits from 50 or 100 dollars to 50 percent.
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