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Default Re: A little advice please?

Should I give up? And just leave this

Good luck with that. i am 3x your age
and have found it a life long struggle:
hide it, destroy, even copt to it to
someone you trust (or not), it's got
a grasp as tight as any body scissor
you will soon experience.

I live in South Africa and I'm sure lol so damn sure that
I'm the only one that has this fetish here!

i am quite sure you are not the only one
who feels the way you feel; and there are
a lot more who, while not into what it is
we are into, are neither offended nor likely
to pass judgment. (what about a massage
parlour - you got to have them somewhere in SA)

Am I wrong and weird for being into this?

No and Yes
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Hehe well I guess I should be more patient then? There are a lot of massage parlours in South Africa. What am I supposed to do? I mean I can't just tell the lady to start headscissoring me lol, what do you recommend I do?
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what do you recommend I do?
i'm sure you'll figure it (eventually). there are several other strings
throughout this board touching on the issue(s) you present - which
i believe are very important. (use the 'search' function to help you find them.)


btw: Holly Holm, is a preacher's daughter ....

(i'm thinkin she'll need some devine intervention against RR)
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I mean I can't just tell the lady to start headscissoring me lol, what do you recommend I do?
Actually, I bet many of them would be open to it.

I've noticed browsing Backpage bodyrub ads that many are "fetish friendly"

I would take that to mean that many massage girls will headscissor you if asked nicely and after they've gotten to know you a bit.
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i'm sure you'll figure it (eventually). there are several other strings
throughout this board touching on the issue(s) you present - which
i believe are very important. (use the 'search' function to help you find them.)


btw: Holly Holm, is a preacher's daughter ....

(i'm thinkin she'll need some devine intervention against RR)
Thank you, I will definitely search around. And that's really interesting, never knew she was a preachers daughter, your right she will really need that divine intervention hmmm if I find a girl to headscissor me I probably will need it too
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Actually, I bet many of them would be open to it.

I've noticed browsing Backpage bodyrub ads that many are "fetish friendly"

I would take that to mean that many massage girls will headscissor you if asked nicely and after they've gotten to know you a bit.
Hmmm I see what your saying and your right I just checked. Problem is how do I tell if an ad is fake or real because here in South Africa there's way too make fake ads, it's bad! Don't even get me started with this lol.
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Ok, well my number one piece of advice to you would be to get yourself a girlfriend. Then you get her to start scissoring you. But DONT ask her right away, or she will get freaked out. After u have been dating for a while, then you bring it up. If she is worth leeping around, she will scissor you in order to make u happy. I know this from experience because i opened up to my girlfriend (now my wife), and it was the best thing i could have done.
If you dont want a girlfriend, then your best bet is to start pinching pennies and eventually pay a pro to do it. You can try asking your female friends to do it, but it will probably freak them out, especially if they know it is sexual for u.
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Ok, well my number one piece of advice to you would be to get yourself a girlfriend. Then you get her to start scissoring you. But DONT ask her right away, or she will get freaked out. After u have been dating for a while, then you bring it up. If she is worth leeping around, she will scissor you in order to make u happy. I know this from experience because i opened up to my girlfriend (now my wife), and it was the best thing i could have done.
If you dont want a girlfriend, then your best bet is to start pinching pennies and eventually pay a pro to do it. You can try asking your female friends to do it, but it will probably freak them out, especially if they know it is sexual for u.
Wow that's amazing, I hope the girlfriend I get will also accept it. I will get a gf soon but I won't tell her immediately as you said(or even at all depending on what kind of person she is).I also won't risk losing my female friends so I won't be telling them either. The only thing that I see feasible is paying but I don't have the money for that now because I'm still in college studying. Maybe I just have to be patient? I don't know.
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Ok, well my number one piece of advice to you would be to get yourself a girlfriend...I know this from experience because i opened up to my girlfriend (now my wife), and it was the best thing i could have done.
If you dont want a girlfriend, then your best bet is to start pinching pennies and eventually pay a pro to do it.
I'm glad it worked out for you, but I think it is unrealistic to get this from a girlfriend or wife.

More than a few dommes have told me that most of their clients are married.

And since most women are submissive, the chances of a gf/wife being into this fetish are pretty slim.

And even if they will do it, there's no way they will be as good as a session wrestler or dominatrix who does it for a living.

Sessions are cheaper over the long haul than being married. For most men, getting married means maintaining a lifestyle you would not bother with if you were single.

No matter how attractive or kinky a girl is, at some point you will probably want something different if only for some variety.

And let's not forget that once a girlfriend/wife knows of your fetish, you open yourself up to blackmail or having your reputation ruined esp. if the relationship fails. How many people stay married for life anymore?

The sad but realistic fact is that for most people with this fetish, staying single and paying for sessions will probably provide the most gratification for the time and money spent. And the dommes deserve every penny - they're providing a service most women cannot and will not do.

If you really want a permanent relationship, well, dommes are women too. If you earn enough money and they like you enough, i'm sure at least one would settle down with you. I've had less than 10 sessions in my life and I already had one domme want to get involved with me personally.

But whether through a relationship or sessions, you've got to make at least an average income (while keeping your other expenses extremely low) or above average income to enjoy fetishes. So I hope you're studying something STEM or business related. Stay the hell away from the liberal arts.

College sucks when you are kinky as you are finding out now. Get into business or technology though, and I'm sure you'll find a way to afford this hobby either with paid sessions or a relationship.

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