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Could the fantasy of an older woman dominating a younger guy involve the realization that at some time during their lives the woman was (and maybe still is) able to overpower the guy and therefore really force him into submission. I assume that most domination fantasies have the woman stronger than and able to beat up the guy, at least mine do, and the older woman younger guy scenario fits right in to that fantasy. The stronger older woman could throw the poor smaller younger guy down, sit on his face and keep him there helpless beneath her ass until she is good and ready to let him up. What do you think? Am I right as to the reason for fantasizing of older women dominating younger guys?
Tad
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When I wrestle guys and win I'm aware it's because they want me to win. I'm dominating them but I'm not forcing them. Wrestling someone I can physically overpower is very different and adds a lot to the enjoyment. That's the main reason I enjoy wrestling women, especially younger, smaller women. I get the chance to have the height, weight and strength advantage for a change.
I think some guys want to be overpowered and forced. They want to be helpless and physically as well as mentally dominated. I expect that's why some wrestle professional wrestlers and 'amazons'. Now they've grown up only women like that could really force them against their will and I think they look back to a time when they were smaller and any adult woman could have forced them.
So yes, I think you're right.
I think the desire of the guy to be helpless and of the woman to genuinely be in control is also why bondage is so popular. He may agree to be tied up but once he is bound his agreement is no longer necessary. He really is helpless and at her mercy.