Bondage positions

[rcress232]

I wasn't sure how to start a poll, but I wanted to discuss different bondage positions because I think how a male is tied up has an enormous impact on how he perceives his own helplessness.

Personally, I like being hogtied by a woman the best because it compresses my body into the smallest space possible. I'm not a big guy, but there's a powerful impact that comes when a woman ties my hands behind my back, then my ankles, then folds my legs behind my back and tied them to my hands so my feet are brushing against my hands. There's nothing I can do in this position at all other than lie there and experience my own helplessness. I've had one woman force me to kiss her feet while I was hogtied, which added the humiliation of obeying such a command to the shame of having been conquered and "forced" into the position itself. I remember one time a woman put me in a hogtie position and then put a mirror in front of me, and the image I saw of myself, naked and tied up, with my feet touching my back and her feet next to me made a profound impact on me. It was nearly 20 years ago but I remember it clearly.

In a future post I may discuss other positions, such as spread-eagle, but I would love to hear anyone else's thoughts on bondage positions.

[Naji]

That must have been a wonderful feeling, to see yourself like that in the mirror. Imagination she had!
I personally have never experienced a hogtie position, but now after reading your post that might be the first thing I'll try come the opportunity.
My hands and feet have been tied. I have been tied to bed and forced to perform oral sex and rimming. It is a genuinely wonderful feeling. I love being immobilized and used.

[sillver]

I enjoy bondage as I love having the guy's body immobilised and at my mercy. My preference is securing to a bed, chair or other piece of furniture so he can be sat on.

[sprog]

Originally Posted by sillver [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

I enjoy bondage as I love having the guy's body immobilised and at my mercy. My preference is securing to a bed, chair or other piece of furniture so he can be sat on.

Oh thats my first fetish..bondage tied to a bed, arms and legs bound, gagged only she desires, and then sat on.
From then on ,the woman can decide what happens next

Any ideas

[sillver]

Originally Posted by sprog [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

Oh thats my first fetish..bondage tied to a bed, arms and legs bound, gagged only she desires, and then sat on.
From then on ,the woman can decide what happens next

Any ideas

As long as it involves sitting on someone it works for me

[sprog]

Originally Posted by sillver [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

As long as it involves sitting on someone it works for me

I envy your boyfriend/husband/one night stand..its a pity I live miles away from you

[sillver]

Originally Posted by sprog [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

I envy your boyfriend/husband/one night stand..its a pity I live miles away from you

I imagine it wouldn't apply to you but for some it has been "be careful what you wish for......"

Some can only handle it in fantasy.

[rcress232]

I appreciate your input on that. Being tied to a chair is interesting, and having the woman's weight added to the helpless feeling of being bound greatly enhances the feeling of total surrender. It's the same being bound to a bed if the woman sits on me.

[bob.earl]

I've been tied up a few times, in all cases it involved wrestling. Just being tied up without a stuggle doesn't ring my bell. Speadeagle tied to a bed, stripped or clothed sends shivers of ecstacy running up and down my spine.

[sillver]

Originally Posted by bob.earl [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

I've been tied up a few times, in all cases it involved wrestling. Just being tied up without a stuggle doesn't ring my bell. Speadeagle tied to a bed, stripped or clothed sends shivers of ecstacy running up and down my spine.

The guys I've tied up wouldn't have been tied if they had struggled. They were stronger than me. Once they're tied however it doesn't matter how strong they are. I'm in control.