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Old 11-Sep-18, 16:35
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Yes, gymnastics had helped you a lot at karate training. So you became really a superwoman.
Yes... and the training gives us so much discipline too. All boys my age were rather immature in comparison
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Yes... and the training gives us so much discipline too. All boys my age were rather immature in comparison
and in that age boys are usually arrogant so when they challenge a girl and lose later , it would be really humiliating because they totally underestimate the girl's skill and flexibility
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Hi Stymie,

I just meant that, in comparison to big-muscled FBBs-- of whom one might expect feats of super-strength-- Ms. Steele has a more average build.
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Just found this thread! Interesting to see everyones experiences.

Although I doubt this was the trigger point, one event that stands out to me is many many years ago, playing a fighting game at a cousins house. There were lots of other kids in the house and a small group of us were taking turns playing some old fighting game on the tv in the corner. I was playing against one of the other kids, a girl my age. We both kept picking the generic big beefy muscle guys as our characters, and we had been playing for awhile, with me winning all of the matches against her so far. After I teased her about yet another loss, she switched characters to a slim, agile-looking woman fighter. As we started again, she slowly gained the lead and I found that for some reason, my little kid brain just couldn’t focus on winning. Watching her smaller female avatar confidently manhandle my big muscle guy was for some reason kicking my mind into overdrive. Eventually she won decidedly and cheered happily in celebration. Of course, the little kid that I was, I angrily tried to smack the controller out of her hands, but she held it out of my reach easily. Then she laughed again, informing me very matter-of-factly that “girls beat boys in the videogame and in real life.”

I now have a girlfriend who loves to be dominant. From my later (some more recent) encounters with the girl in this story (we’re family friends, so we see each other every few years), I can see that she still carries the same mindset with her all these years later, as do I. She always had a very playfully dominant personality which only grew with time, and over the years she seemed to sense my weakness to her natural dominant quirks, which motivated her to push the boundaries harder on several big occasions. We are both in happy relationships now, but I feel that she had a big part in molding my current love for femdom and wrestling.

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I was beat up and bullied by various girls in middle school and high school, which I think triggered it in early adulthood. Anyone feel free to pm me if you're interested in hearing more.

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At a strip club. I remembered watching scissor videos and was curious to have one tried on me. The girl had never done one before and she got hooked when she saw how quickly she knocked me out. She did more holds and did not stop until I was ko'd. She knew I wouldn't shout for help. She made sure after the first ko to keep me out of breath enough to stay weak. Then she started rubbing my penis through my pants to soothe me. The way she overpowered me and then comforted me tapped into something deep down. Finally, she gave me one more ko, tied my hands and feet to the chair while I was out, woke me up, and told me she would be back when the night was done. She told the bouncer i had drank too much and passed out and that i was a friend and she would take care of me when she got off. When she got off, she offered to drive me to my hotel and said she wanted to talk to me. I invited her over. She asked me how i felt and apologized for getting carried away. I told her i think i actually enjoyed it. After that she visited the rest of the week i was in town to practice more holds on me and said she wanted to become a session wrestler and quit stripping because sessions would make her feel more empowered. Kinda a long story but that is how I got curious. Haven't had anything like it since but I want to so badly.
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I was always kinda into femdom but it was really just fantasy because of porn. I indulged in many different fetishes. My greatest was satin, heels, and CFNM.
I was always a decent looking cat that was in good shape. Always thin but was tone and in shape. Well I ended up basically getting with a beautiful platinum blonde Rock n Roll chick. She kinda reminded me of a Lita Ford type of look. Well she basically noticed my weaknesses, and would wear whatever I wanted her to as long as I bought the clothes. Well I was single and about 35 and she was was 30 with two daughters. She had recently broke up with the father of the girls and he was a bad boy long hair loser. Basically to make the story short. She had me buying multiple pairs of stiletto Heels, satin everything, and short dresses and skirts that showed of her time calves and beautiful legs. I think she knew what she was doing from the start and needed a man around to fix things and help pay bills. She had me eating from the palm of her hand and realized if she wore the right outfit I couldn’t say no. She knew I lived her satin panties and would climb on top of my face and basically use it as she liked and that was the start of my real submission to women. The wrestling aspect and being physically dominated came from her daughters. The oldest was 12 when I first moved in with her mother and the youngest was like 8. I did not have any sexual attraction to these girls at all. I’m not into that kinda thing. We shared a home for years while the mother made all my fetish fantasy’s come true.
I ended up being her loyal lapdog because of it. We lived in a small two bedroom house outside of town. I could go into details and crazy true scenarios that you only read about but will cut to the chase. The oldest daughter matured into the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. Naturally blonde with D cups by 15and tanned with just a short glimpse of Sun on her skin. I ended up on opiates for awhile and after getting off of them realized I was a shell of a man. As the Mother realized who I became she abused me more and more and stared to lose interest in me at all. One thing about girls is when they are about 16 or get breasts the start to resent their mother and a battle for “alpha female” ensues. The daughter was very in tune with how her mother kept me in check purely by what she wore and my weakness for a great pair of legs in heels, stockings, and my weakness for certain garments. I had seen evidence of her snooping in her moms things early. Her mother had no problem telling her I bought her certain shoes, satin items, and seemed to study her mother and how to make me weak. In turn she played those cards and still does to this day. As her mother gained weight and worked a different Job she gave most of the cloths and shoes which she wears as a banker to this day. Well basically after the older daughter then had me around her finger by wearing thigh high socks,spandex shorts, and tanned outside regularly the younger daughter took notice of how her sister and mother had me trained. This girl was different though. When the oldest daughter moved away to a bank job in another city, the youngest had seemed to take control of the house. She had been in Gymnastics since 14 and by the time she took over at 16 she was ripped and muscular. I really tried to not notice but couldn’t. I really was happy just being around these gorgeous females. The pills had ruined my body. I was skinny and soft. I could barely even get an erection and would never go over the line by doing anything with these girls. They knew this. Especially the mother. I think she watched and somewhat enjoyed the daily teasing by first the oldest and then the youngest.
This girl could care less about dresses, heels, or being “lady like”. She was a tough gymnast tomboy that was just a gifted natural athlete. She had a six Pac basically her whole life. She was also lifting weights in high school and would tell me how much stronger she was than most boys. Well one day I found out she was right. I smoked cigarettes and she told me she wanted me to stop. She basically was trying to take my lighter from my hands and when she could t get It got behind me, grabbed me by the neck, pulled me backward to the foot of my bed, and jumped up , wrapped her muscular legs around my waist and fell to the bed with me on my back on top of her. I couldn’t do anything. I guess if I started elbowing her or swing my head back hard enough I might of been able to get out of the hold. She then wrapped her leg over the other leg and scissored my waist until I couldn’t breath. I tried to get up and couldn’t. She was in total control. I couldn’t give up and let her beat me. She was trying to grab my hand with the lighter in it and I kept it away from her because she couldn’t reach it.
I soon felt her bcuo breads harden in my back and felt so dirty noticing and knowing I was somewhat enjoying her thick legs wrapped around me.
I felt so bad yet excited that this small but ripped girl was out wrestling me and was stronger than me. I knew for a fact her legs were thicker than mine, stronger than mine. I used to take her to Gumanstics practice and lime most girls these days wore tight leggings. Sometimes spandex,sometimes, cotton, and sometimes a combo of them that always seemed to form tightly to the curves of her muscular legs. Throughout the struggle of trying to get out her bare feet would brush up against my now rock hard cock. I felt so ashamed. I had to stop this from continuing. I couldn’t let her feel I had a hard on and it was her that was giving it to me. Why she was reaching for my hands with the lighter in it I noticed her leg grip loosen enough to move. I tried getting out of this and at least away from her feet being able to reach my manhood. She clearly saw what I was doing and figured she could reach my hands by letting me lower myself. As a scouted downword she could teach my hand with the lighter, and grabbed it in a wrist lock, and repositioned her legs around my neck, crossed them, and locked them back down. Here I was, my 15 yr old stepdaughter on her back in my bed with her legging covered legs wrapped around my head and I couldn’t go or do anything. What I saw and felt changed my life. Her thighs around my face, looking down at a pair of curvy legs and could feel the back of my head buried in her crotch. I was frozen. She now had perfect control of me. She squeezed hard, op ed my hand and took the lighter, tossed it and kept the wrist lock and my head feeling like it was in a vice. She laughed and teased how she had beat me. I was so ashamed. She told me how much stronger she was and would. Squeeze hard, let go a little , then squeeze again until I’d bed beg to stop. I swear I felt her grinding her crotch into the back of my head. She made me admit how strong she was, how she beat me fair and square. I had to admit defeat.
She ended up letting me go and would end up telling all her friends that would come over and even her big sister. She still reminds me to this day and still wears leggings or short shorts regularly around the house bragging about how strong her legs are. Since then dominated and wrestled down by a muscular female is my weakness. I read about it and think about being in that position regularly. She has broke me and has me doing things for her and I can’t tell her no.
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Fascinating stuff!

One thing I find very interesting is how often a guy will be exposed to something - see something, read something, watch something - and "realize" he is into this. It's as if the wiring is all there, ready to go - either because of something innate, or shaped by some experiences - and then when the guy is exposed to something, BAM.... the switch is flipped and he "realizes" this is a thing for him. Time after time, the description isn't so much that "the trigger" is the CAUSE, more like being exposed to the trigger makes him realize he has these appetites.

I do wonder if the Internet, and all it...er... offers is making more guys have these realizations (in many areas)?

Sorry for the semi-cerebral side trip (and "cerebral" is giving myself way too much credit!). Just something that occured to me, browsing this great thread.
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My story from a magazine article I wrote for a fetish mag...
I now realise that ever since I can remember I have been attracted to dominant/assertive females. My mother was domineering as were her friends and my aunties so from a very early age I was used to strident opinionated women, I just thought it was normal the natural way of things. At primary school all the teachers were women and either totally domineering or gently and kindly assertive. At secondary there were fewer women teachers at an all-boys school but the women teachers or my favourite ones tended to be assertive and sassy. At university it was the 80s and the height of feminism which actually believe it or not increased my femdom feelings as all women were opinionated strident and therefore all the more sexy to me. Fast forward to my working life and I find myself working in a mainly female environment and all my female friends there are all assertive. My wife is natural bossy. So in all aspects of life I am and have been surrounded by dominant women. I have found many of them sexually attractive but not all however I have liked every assertive woman I have met and have sexual fantasies about many of them. I am a natural submissive to assertive women but not in an obvious way I enjoy challenging them and then being bested by their skill and ability. To me women are superior and I am very happy to accept this. So how did I come to be a Femdom fan and a submissive?
My domineering-mother was a stay at home mum so she disciplined me and told me what to do as did her circle of stay at home mum friends. I loved being in adult female company and I loved pleasing them. I am certain this is where my fetish for femdom and assertive women must have started. When I got a little older it was off to primary school, another female dominated environment as most teachers at first school were women. I absolutely loved the place all those mature women telling me what to do and if you were naughty you got slapped legs just like I got from my mother and her friends! It wasn’t just the teachers I wanted to please it was some of the more assertive female pupils. I liked girls at school who were bossy who told me what to do and sometimes used force to impose their will. One particularly sticks in my mind, Kathryn Wilkinson, she was very well developed for a nine year old. She was physically much stronger than me and used to chase me, catch me, twist my arm until it hurt and I loved it. My cock did used to get hard during these experiences and I was left a little confused but strangely excited. The female teachers were also a source of feelings I didn’t understand at the time, Mrs Lunt a small lady with a cruel smile and knee length boots regularly administered leg slappings to naughty boys and girls and in severe cases of noncompliance over the knee spankings! I was afraid of her but strangely obsessed at the same time. Later I realised I was actually attracted to her and her punishments, even though I only had my legs slapped once but the anticipation and the threat were intoxicating.

I first masturbated over a dominant woman. They lady I lost my cherry to was the actress Valerie Leon, a statuesque amazon with magnificent breasts. She appeared in a series of Christmas TV adverts for the after shave Hai Karate. She played a sexual vociferous woman who intoxicated by the scent of the said after shave hunted down the wearer to basically fuck his brains out. At the age of ten I was entranced by the adverts and used to wank myself every day to thoughts of being taken by Valerie and fucked to within an inch of my life. Well to be honest I didn’t really have those thoughts then! All I knew then is she stirred very excited feelings in me and dry humping my mattress thinking of her made me feel very satisfied. Of course I now know what my feelings meant.Of course I was not able to articulate them then but now it’s obvious it’s all about wanting this woman to dominate and use me for whatever sexual act she desired. For the next few years I waited excitedly for Christmas to come round not for Santa Claus but for Valerie to appear in the new Hai Karate advert ! Ms Leon also appeared in many movies and always played a dominant sexually assured woman in films such as Zeta One, Carry on Up the Jungle and most notably a leather clad domatrix with a whip in a pink panther movie. I couldn’t get enough of her and for what seem years I was lost in series of wanking fantasies involving being taken and used by her.

I quickly discovered Valerie was not to be my only Femdom Mistress. My head and loins were enflamed by other dominant dangerous ladies of the small screen. The leather clad assassins Honor Blackman and Diana Rigg from the Avengers caught my fancy. They wore leather cat suits as they dominated their male foes. The fact they often killed with their bare hands whilst wearing such sexually alluring garb weaved its way into my sexual fantasy world. I dreamed of being forcibly taken by them and maybe even killed. a price I was happy to pay in my imaginary for the chance of a sexual liaison with them. Yes at this age I was having sex and death fantasies! In truth I didn’t know what sex was but all I knew was that dangerous women excited me and made me want to rub my dick. Initially I had been dry cuming over these ladies but puberty was approaching fast and I soon found the likes of Valerie and Honor made me very sticky.

This love of deadly women came to a head so to speak later in my young life with the movie Deadlier than the Male. I became sexually obsessed with the main characters played by Elke Sommer and Sylvia Koscina. In the film they played sexy assassins in bikinis and furs and with deadly weapons like spear guns and poison. I was desperate to be used and abused by them and the images of them killing especially with spear guns with their mock sympathy for their male victims drove me wild with lust. I was desperate to be their victim and be granted one mind blowing sexual experience for the cost of my life, the ultimate Femdom tribute a worthless male can give. Another film to hit me square in the loins was the Silencers featuring Nancy Novak as an ultimate fail as an assassin as she is killed by another woman before she can off a useless male with his brains in his dick. But the vision of her in only a shirt and heels with a deadly stiletto dagger gave me an instant boner! In my fantasy world Nancy fucks the brains out of her victim before stabbing him. The love of dangerous female spies also extended into James Bond films. Bond girls turned me on as well but only the bad ones ! Bambi and Thumper the bad girl wrestlers in Diamonds are Forever, the first Bond I ever saw, floated my boat. I was disappointed that Bond was able to tame them. In my mind’s eye version of the film they best Bond and smother him with their asses and thighs. Seeing women kill in these spy movies made a big impression on me I found them incredibly sexy especially when they killed. I desired in my fantasies to be their victim but only after the best orgasm ever after which or during it I would be happy to die.

Having such dark fantasies at an early age inevitably drew me to the more mainstream ideas and fantasies of femdom. From an early age I loved women in black leather clothes, black lingerie, black heels or boots and of course black stockings and suspenders. I also began to become excited by the paraphernalia like whips, crops and canes. As a teenager being whipped or spanked wasn’t on my horizon, it was not something I thought about but I was turned on by ladies dressed as I have described and loved the fact they were holding such instruments of torture. I liked to look at and wank to them but had no desire yet to have my bare bottom beaten red raw.
As I progressed into my teenage years I devoured soft pornography vociferously. Page 3 girls, Star Birds, mail order catalogues, mainstream top shelf titles all came into my wankfest world. I couldn’t get enough of them. I was selective though, I saved my semen for the women that meant it. You could always tell a girl that meant it by the look in her eye. That sultry, dominant, appraising gaze was all that mattered to me to get me off. A woman could be lying there legs a kimbo showing her juicy pink and I wouldn’t be attracted because she had a silly grin or disinterested look on her face. The ladies I wanked over had a knowing sexy gaze. A look of ‘come hither and let me fuck you young man!’ If that look wasn’t there I couldn’t even get hard despite what she might be offering between her legs. Page 3 might appear very tame but a model with the right look who might only be displaying her boobs or bum was incredibly sexy to me. Sian Adey Jones and Tracey Dixon were masters of this, Sam Fox and Linda Lusardi less so. Beautiful bodies but just winning cheerleader smiles rather than knowing, appraising, sultry looks. I liked to imagine Sian and Tracey as dirty women who dominated their prey in bed bossing them around and demand every sexual favour you could imagine. I did the same with models in the soft porn mags such as Club, Men Only and Mayfair You never knew their real names but the look in their eyes, whatever they were wearing or whatever their pose was told you if they were a domatrix or not. A naked woman with the right dominating look is the most powerful thing in the world. Her nakedness is her strength so confident she can stroll a round naked and be completely the boss in a world of clothed males. The best models exuded this vibe. Of course a clothed woman with a naked male slave is just as empowering and something I like enacting with my wife but would love to do with A mistress dressed in equestrian gear,

Watching TV in 70s looking for femdom wasn’t an easy task, yes there were the movies I have mentioned and the Avengers but with no video recorders you had to remember the fleeting images and use your imagination as you tugged away. Occasionally there were pleasant surprises, who would have thought those kings of light entertainment comedy the Two Ronnies would have come up with the most iconic, mainstream femdom moment of the 70’s with their serial sketch ‘the Worm that Turned’ . They created a future world where women ruled men. Men were feminised and the women police wore skimpy tight leather shorts with no panties topped off with leather caps ! Remember this was Saturday night entertainment in the late 70s, I couldn’t believe my luck or believe it was being shown and awaited each Saturday night in a state of high excitement. It starred Diana Dors and Wanda Ventham both famous for their assertive personalities. It also starred Jenny Logan the lady from the Shake ‘n’ Vac advert ! This advertisement promoted a woman content to stay at home and get her kicks from cleaning her carpet so it hardly prepared her for the role of chief of the secret police in fetish leather gear and cap ! However watch the advert on Youtube now and there is a glint of domestic domatrix in her eye as she does the hoovering ! This is probably what the Two Ronnies production team spied in her.

Around the same time as the Worm that Turned there was further evidence that Femdom had gone mainstream with the screening of the sci fi femdom series Star Maidens. This series had the potential to be pervy from outset as it was a joint Anglo German production the two perviest nations in the world. Set in the near future it featured the cultural clash between a female dominated planet where men are enslaved and our own 1980s planet earth. I lapped it up of course, the women only police force was dressed in sci fi fetish gear that accentuated their bottoms and boobs and they spoke down to their male slaves in a way that was full of sexual innuendo. I was as hard as a rock as I watched this on the mainstream television channel ITV on believe it or not a Sunday lunchtime! Sadly Star Maidens lasted only one series and The Worm That Turned proved to be a one off Two Ronnies series but for the first time obvious femdom had appeared in prime time family viewing slots. Honorable mentions should also go to drams shoe Dr Who and Blake’s Seven for femdom characters, Dr Who featured the savage warrior woman killer Leela. She wore an animal skin bikini and physically dominated her male foes. She was tamed to a degree by the doctor but she always knew how to handle herself. She was played by Louise Jameson with a noble sexy savageness and once again my loins were stirred. Blake.s Seven featured cruel alpha female emperess Severlan a woman who thought nothing of having weak males dispatched and making it obvious to prospective lovers they need to fuck her. She was played with immense sexual power by the wonderful Jacqueline Pierce

It wasn’t just TV that helped educate me into the world of female domination but music to. I was a punk in the late 70s which had a very S and M side in clothes and attitude. If you want proof of the femdom nature of punk who can forget the suffocation of a male victim by female punks in the uncompromising film Jubilee or Siouxsee Sioux in her fetish gear. I began to explore punk’s roots and by doing so discovered the Velvet Underground. They were named after a pulp sado masochist novel and did songs about kinky sex, Venus in Furs being the best example. It’s a vicious, cruel piece with threatening erotic lyrics and unconventional instrumentation, a viola is used to mimic the sound of whipping. Again my eyes were opened as I researched the inspiration of the song, the novel of the same name. What a joy to discover I was not the only man who desired a fur clad cruel woman to whip him. Another erotic light bulb had been stiched on in my path down the femdom road.
I continued to devour pornography at an incredible rate and noticed my tastes turning more and more to the dominant side. A two part article in Men Only about male slaves who signed contracts allowing them to be tortured and killed for a final mind-blowing orgasm struck a chord deep within me crystallising my darkest fantasy. Another fiction piece about a woman who fucked her partners to death by demanding they keep shagging her until they died from heart failure, again embed itself into my core sexuality as I wished I was a man who had to fuck a Goddess until I could no longer stand the pace and died of exhaustion. Sign me up for that job!

In terms of pornography I stuck to my favourite mainstream top shelf mags well into my 20s I was certain aware of more specialist Femdom porn but it was always more expensive often only in black and white and to me at the time the women didn’t attract me. They scared me in actual fact they looked too real. In the mid-1990s things changed in mainstream wank mags when specialist glossy mags from the USA became more easily available in the UK. Titles like Leg Show and Leg Sex fed my growing need for foot pornography. These mags featured a great deal of femdom scenarios relating to female feet things like worship and ball crushing and this began to widen my taste. I now openly embraced my desires to be foot dominated potentially painfully i.e. balls crushed , cock trampled and feet forced into my mouth and face came to the surface. Other hidden desires such as my wish to be spanked or even whipped all formed in my brain. Around this time I noticed a new British magazine on the top shelf, Cruella. It was again a sign that S and M was becoming more mainstream and devotees were more prepared to come out into the open.

Cruella was a glossy Femdom magazine with gorgeous haughty models on its cover but strangely for a porn mag the models were no way close to being undressed. They looked incredibly sexually alluring. I was intrigued but it was £10 an issue a huge price for a magazine in the 90s and it was a very slim volume. Eventually after a few days of thinking I decided to invest and being a guy who has a philosophy of ‘in for a penny in for pound’ decided to double my stake and bought not one but the two editions the newsagent had for sale. A whole twenty quid on two thin porn mags! They better be good I thought as I walked away with them under my jacket

Cruella was a revelation classy,literate and erotic. The women mostly clothed or in fetish wear were haughty, cruel and all had that appraising knowing gaze. They scared and excited me so much power and so sexy. The men were weak submissive and totally controlled. They were almost always naked. I had found my erotic nivarna. I wanted to be there and abused and dominated by this covern of domatrixes. Men hardly ever got to cum, initially this was a shock but I soon embraced the idea of tease and denial. The writing was very high quality and because of this fictional pieces appeared real, it really could be you being tortured by these cruel ladies. And these ladies were super cruel ! Pictures showing slaves about to be castrated or executed abounded and this poured petrol on my erotic fire. Another eye opener about the Cruellian world was they wanted male models or slaves and they asked you to apply. I hadn’t the courage and my domestic situation wouldn’t allow me to apply but fuck, this was real !

The thing that struck a chord with me the most was a story I read In the first Cruella magazine I ever bought. It was a short fiction piece by a submissive male it featured a primitive pencil drawing to illustrate it. Despite it’s short nature and frankly poor drawing it was the most erotic piece I have ever read. It told of a muscular male slave in ancient Rome forced to might a Domatrix Gladiatorix. She beats him easily and in the final paragraph humiliates her victim even more by making him masturbate for her. Just as he is about to cum she runs him through with her sword. The final sentence describes his death throes and erotic feelings from his point of view of him cuming as he dies. It was the most poignant erotic piece of writing I had ever read. I had found my fantasy world I wasn’t alone in my erotic fantasy world !

The publishers even published a sister mag Riding Cult a land where dominant women rode human male ponies, hunted rogue males and wore sexy equestrian garb but the mag was short lived as the arrival of the internet killed niche porn mags and Cruella and Riding Cult disappeared as physical hard copy but of course moved into the cyber world. The internet unveiled fetishism to the world, Pandora’s box was open and every sexual proclivity was catered for. I of course enagaged fully concentrating initially on my penchant for female feet for a number of years I drowned myself in foot fetish delights. It was like being a kid in a candy shop but the real joy of the internet arrived a few years later with social media. Facebook at first provided a base for me under an assumed identity but despite publishing only non explicit photos admittedly of lady’s with that knowing look and carefully genuinely erotic worded text I was shut down after a few months. However I had enjoyed it meeting potential doms and even would be female assasins. My appetite whetted I moved to Fetlife for more entertainment. I wasn’t disappointed doms contacted me with offers to worship their feet with no charge except my devotion and humiliation, that’s a deal then ! Sadly I suffered another shut down here for using internet finds rather than my own pics. So confounded again I moved the bulk of my activity to Tumblr and again found a small but willing and sympathetic auidance in which I was able to vent my sexual spleen !

Fetlife and Tumblr have widened my femdom tastes I would now consider being pissed on by a dom or being pegged /fucked by a lady in a strap on. I have realized that key for me with femdom is that I have to forced into the activity by a woman. I eat my own cum off my lady’s feet after worshipping them because she forces me to. Through sexual social media I have met and had sexual gratification with cyber mistresses who can order me to wank over their pictures and then send them pictorial evidence of my tribute. I have even had unsolicited approaches to meet up which I hasten to add I haven’t taken up… yet. The internet has allowed me to express my feelings via the written world and I have been able to articulate my fantasies which I find very liberating. A by product of this has been I have become a genuine published writer in some specialist magazines.
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