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Sex, relationships and our fetish
Hey,
Your advise would be very much appreciated. I am a 21 years old guy, decent looking with a good humour I would say, 191m tall and with this female wrestling fetish. I never had sex and I am not attracted by the thought of iit but I want to be able to have it. I almost feel guilty when meeting new women. That I will never be able to give them what they want, that with me something will always be missing for them and I also feel guilty about hiding how weird I actually am. Does anyone here had/have similar problems? Is there a possibility that this feeling might change after I had sex for the first time? That I will like it and get turned on by the thought of it? I have been scissored by girls before and it turns me on but the thought about sex not. I enjoy kissing and cuddling. Regular porn does nothing to me. I pleasure myself with female wrestling videos. Am I some kind of asexual? Wish you all a a great evening and thanks for taking time to read and possibily answer to this |
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Re: Sex, relationships and our fetish
Basically you're talking about the difference between a kink (something that you enjoy sexually, but don't necessitate) and a fetish (something that you need sexually to get off). For me, this is a kink. If I can get some aspects into my sexual life, I enjoy them more, but the vast majority of sexual experiences I've had in my life have had no wrestling or domination aspects to them and I've still enjoyed them.
On the other hand, I don't watch regular porn either, so that doesn't necessarily mean you won't enjoy sex. I think when we're going for fantasy, which is what pleasuring yourself to porn is, you go with what your ideal fantasy is. Plus, you can always use your imagination a little during sex as well. I don't think you'll truly know if this is a fetish or just a kink for you until you actually have sex (and probably not just once, cause your first time probably won't be great) and find out if you get aroused/can get off in non fetish circumstances. |
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I would say your sexuality is fairly vanilla and normal. The fact you have not had sex yet by age 21 is the reason in my opinion why it is not a turn on yet. You are well into your prime sexual years (from a biological standpoint) and your only release has been wrestling oriented. I agree with you and think that once you date women and begin having oral, FS etc you would be sexualized into that stream as well.
Since your are in your sexual prime and female wrestling is your sole outlet it becomes an even more powerful fetish by reinforcing it. I believe that had I myself not had plenty of vanilla sexual experiences by the time I began sessioning and actively experimenting with wrestling, I would be in exactly the same boat. For your information, in todays day and age there is NOTHING to feel "weird" about in regard to what you like. I can name 20 people I know firsthand with waaay "weirder" turn-ons. You feel strange and something is missing because your telling yourself you should. Knock that crap out and you'll be fine |
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Actually I do have similar problems like yours, and honestly thats what I thought, if I had sex for the first time(it happened few months ago) it would change my aspect abit, but it did nothing.
I also came to conclusion I just might be A-sexual like you, I am not really looking for sex but I wont say no if it came to me. As I said, from my experience, your feeling won't change, you will still want more. I never watched regular porn as I see it as a complete waste of time. Actually I thought I am the only weirdo like that, the world is indeed vast. Sorry I forgot to add, I am just 1 year older than you which means my first sex was around the age 21.7. Last edited by azbwc; 22-Oct-16 at 22:50. |
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And I think you are never the only weirdo. |
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I became interested in girls when I was 17, but not quite for sex. I always masturbated to wrestling porn and there were very few girls around me I fantasized about wrestling with.
I got lucky that my only real gf and later wife accepted my fetish and sometimes played along with it. There's been a time, though, when I would not enjoy sexual activity other than wrestling and that put a huge stress in our relationship. Fortunately, I've become able to enjoy sex again. |
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When you'll find someone you really love it will all happen spontaneously. Also the chances are you'll find someone who you'll have more in common with than just physical attraction. Sex with the same person eventually becomes boring and if you base your relationship on that it will fail. I don't understand why in this age where all sorts of sexuality are accepted and even promoted, people look at you as some weirdo if you have this wrestling fetish. Many intelligent and successful people in the past had weird fetishes and probably appeared asexual to many, while it's usually the lower classes who just want to have sex with girls with big tits. |
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For us, the whole wrestling thing has enhanced our sex life, its all sexual foreplay
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