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Many, many women compartmentalize even while participating the Martial Arts or such that it is not sexual. Others recognize it and don't want to grapple with men during class either. And there are the majority of women, who don't even know this fetish exists. |
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I will give my point of view on the original question of why many female martial artists are not easy to date: of course, each individual case varies, but, as you may know already, I have been involved in the Martial Arts community for many, many years, Shaolin Kung Fu, Wudang Tai Chi, Aikido, Brazilian Jiu-jitsu, Wrestling etc and I have meet dozens of women that their main reason on starting their Martial Arts journey was because they have been sexually assaulted in the past, so many of them are wary of any guy that approaches them (or they end up dating the owner of the school, usually a black belt).
P.S: There have been as of late a few cases of Black Belt instructors sexually molesting students, which is considered the ultimate betrayal of trust in Martial Arts circles. Last edited by Anji; 19-Mar-19 at 17:03. |
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Interesting that you note students dating the owner (often too teachers) of dojos as I saw this when my spouse trained. Also saw cheating quite prevalent too. Yes everything kept in-house in martial arts (so it seems). |
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I may add also that most women are aware of the meaning of "fetish" and it is a turn off if a guy is attracted to a woman because of a particular fetish, instead of just being something that is commonly shared, this is not a problem in a casual relationship, but if seriously dating, then what happens if the "fetish" is not longer present ? if the woman loses interest in martial arts ? gets injured and can never practice again ? if the guy main attention is on the "fetish" he will lose interest in dating the woman.
I remember when I was younger and my hair was long, way below my waist, guys with long hair fetish used to come to me and tell me "never cut your hair , please'', sure enough , I cut my hair short and all those guys just disappeared... I heard stories like that from former bodybuilders as well, they have guys with "bodybuilder" fetish all over them, but when they stopped working out and become fluffy and with some body fat, those guys went away, constantly looking to satisfy their fetish elsewhere. So, in dating it is better to look for a compatible mate in all areas, and if they have whatever it is that we are turn on by, that is an extra-bonus. Just my point of view. Last edited by Anji; 19-Mar-19 at 19:21. |
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thats very sad. i never thought about that, on average, in a martial arts class, more women have been abused as a percentage than in any other "class" of sport. for ex a tennis class. but it makes sense. totally
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I find it quite hard to get a girl that does martial arts the only ones are the one that don't and wont do.
To all the women who do Martial Arts where do i need to look and is there something wrong? |
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