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Old 18-Mar-18, 17:39
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Hi guys,

Quick topo : I've met a girl in my sport club (around 15 members) last year

We have a "special" relation that I know she doesnt have with the other dudes of the club. We text each other, we always set up a training session just the two of us on fridays, talk about everything...

In her texts she already said things like " oh I like your 3 days beard" or "If i like to bother you it's because I like you "

sounds good right ?

but there is something kinda weird and I wanted to know your opinion about that : with the other dudes she clearly doesnt have that proximity I have with her, but she looks way more relax and she is like touchy, while with me she talks more about "serious" topics, and is not touchy at all

what to think about that ?

waiting for your answers
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Old 21-Mar-18, 08:22
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Default Re: My relationship with a girl, what to think about her ?

no one has somethinh to say ?
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Old 21-Mar-18, 11:50
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i think she resepcts you and sees in you a possible future prtner thats ehy she doesnt fool around as she does with the others. She is maintaining a "lady like" attitude. But i think you need to make a move soon and show thay you are interested in her or else you are in danger of becoming just a "close friend". a καληνυχτακιας. I am sure you dont want that.
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Old 21-Mar-18, 17:40
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I have to agree with harryflashman. Make your move, but do it respectfully. Many girls are just dying for a good guy to speak up. I do not speak as an expert by any means. I met my wife at a hockey game. I liked what I saw and went for it. I asked her to go to another game with me figuring that she was already interested in the sport. The rest is history 37 years later. Ask her to some event or place that you know you are both into. If she says no, at least you will not wonder what might have been. Good luck.
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well thanks for your input guys, I'll have to show some courage and make a move i guess !
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@[Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register] do your move definitely (with respect of course), i think she is awesome and interested in you.
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Hi guys,

Quick topo : I've met a girl in my sport club (around 15 members) last year

We have a "special" relation that I know she doesnt have with the other dudes of the club. We text each other, we always set up a training session just the two of us on fridays, talk about everything...

In her texts she already said things like " oh I like your 3 days beard" or "If i like to bother you it's because I like you "

sounds good right ?

but there is something kinda weird and I wanted to know your opinion about that : with the other dudes she clearly doesnt have that proximity I have with her, but she looks way more relax and she is like touchy, while with me she talks more about "serious" topics, and is not touchy at all

what to think about that ?

waiting for your answers
I hate to be the negative Nelly here, but it sounds to me like your in the dreaded "friend zone". It may still be worth making a move, but tread lightly.
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Well you might be right, but why would she act with me in a way that she doesn't with aaaaall of her other friends ? that's the point that I don't understand
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In her texts she already said things like " oh I like your 3 days beard" or "If i like to bother you it's because I like you "

sounds good right ?

waiting for your answers
She's interested bro, that's the hint right there. Now its your move to ask her out on a date~~
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Well you might be right, but why would she act with me in a way that she doesn't with aaaaall of her other friends ? that's the point that I don't understand

The text messages she sends you are a good sign. But the fact that she is touchy feely with others, and not you, leads me to believe that she is deliberately doing this so she doesn't lead you on. But hopefully I'm wrong.
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