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Old 06-Sep-22, 13:54
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Default NOT wanting to be scissored/dominated by their partner?

I feel like I'm in a unique position in which whenever I have strong feelings for a girl (or even a simple crush) or even when dating someone, I don't actually have any desire to be scissored/dominated them.

However if it's some random woman or one I don't know well personally (e.g. an escort) then I actually have a strong desire to be scissored by them.

Interestingly with a woman I had a crush on, I was fantasizing about her in a very vanilla romanticized way, but when she rejected me, I then began fantasizing about her headscissoring me.

Very curious if anyone has insight or similar process. Because from what I see many here like and want to be scissored by their GFs, wives etc.
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Old 08-Sep-22, 00:28
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Default Re: NOT wanting to be scissored/dominated by their partner?

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I feel like I'm in a unique position in which whenever I have strong feelings for a girl (or even a simple crush) or even when dating someone, I don't actually have any desire to be scissored/dominated them.
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However if it's some random woman or one I don't know well personally (e.g. an escort) then I actually have a strong desire to be scissored by them.

Interestingly with a woman I had a crush on, I was fantasizing about her in a very vanilla romanticized way, but when she rejected me, I then began fantasizing about her headscissoring me.

Very curious if anyone has insight or similar process. Because from what I see many here like and want to be scissored by their GFs, wives etc.
Considering how toxic women have become, you are wise to prefer a woman who doesn't know you to bring the pain that you crave. You're not attached to a stranger so, if she grows to hate you for whatever feminazi reason she can conjure in her mind as she puts the squeeze on the pathetic little man that is you, it's no skin off your nose. In pain you doth bray and then she gets paid, the story is done and you're both on your way.

But, it's another matter entirely when a woman you desperately love becomes disgusted by you, grows to hate you and rises in full-fledged rebellion against you once you reveal yourself to be weaker than she. A man who falls in love with a woman far stronger and far more powerful than himself is putting himself at tremendous risk and, not just in the physical sense, either.

He is leaving himself open to supreme heartache and betrayal.

Unfortunately said heartache and betrayal is what far too many superior women are all too eager to provide their male victims, no matter how loving and adoring those male victims may be towards their beloved empresses.

And, you realize this. Even if it's only on a subconscious level.

My advice to you? Look for that special, sexy, superior lady who sadistically dominates and tortures you because she loves you. Not just a casual, "yeah, you're kinda sort of alright for a man" kind of love. But an obsessive, protective, possessive, I'm-going-to-have-you-all-to-myself-even-if-I-have-to-crush-you-with-my-incredible-muscles* kind of love.

Make it your imperative to find her and then stick to it. Don't settle for less and do not bend. Lots of luck to you, amigo. We're both gonna need it.
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* a tad bit extreme, I'll admit but, I'm being hyperbolic to prove a point. You need this woman to cherish you and to CRAVE you, my friend!

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Old 08-Sep-22, 17:59
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Default Re: NOT wanting to be scissored/dominated by their partner?

Did someone in the year 2022 really just use the term "feminazi"????? Grow up.
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Old 08-Sep-22, 19:09
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Default Re: NOT wanting to be scissored/dominated by their partner?

lmao what did i just read
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Default Re: NOT wanting to be scissored/dominated by their partner?

I've mentioned something similar .. I was in a long-term relationship with a pretty amazonian girl – but we rarely did anything like that, and the one time she did tap me out to a bodyscissor (really easily – in about 2 seconds), it did nothing for me.

I think it's that when you're at that level of intimacy with someone, there's no real threat of loss of control or rejection .. The fetish isn't *really* about being squeezed or trapped between muscular thighs – it might be about the loss of control, or being made subordinate .. And in a trusting relationship, there's too much stability to trigger those sensations.

I did always like the idea of her training hard at the gym, or taking judo, and getting to the point where she could beat me in an armwrestle, or control me on the ground .. But then that was a fantasy – and there's a lot that doesn't translate well between fantasy and reality
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Default Re: NOT wanting to be scissored/dominated by their partner?

You are not alone in these feelings. There are many people who feel this way.

For me, personally, Femdom/scissorholds are first about someone taking away control. I fantasize my control being taken away on occasion, but going into sub-space and giving away control all the time does not appeal to me.

The other factor, is that it is sexy to me when the female doesn't seem to care for me, but only her own enjoyment, which is the opposite of what I want in a partner. I want to care for them deeply and have them be the same way.
So, again, it is natural for you to feel this way and you may be like me personality-wise
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Default Re: NOT wanting to be scissored/dominated by their partner?

Interesting.

My fetish developed as a child (though I didn't know what it was) and my first ejaculations were while wrestling other kids in my early teens. I didn't like porn magazines, but went crazy over bikini catalogs dreaming aboug fights with the models.

Not till my late teens I became interested in girls. And I had crushes and platonic interests, with which I seldom or never dreamt about wrestling. I even went out with a couple of girls, made out but no sex, and never did I think about wrestling them. One of them even gave me fake punches and that got me rock hard, but not even then did I mention it. I think I was a bit shy of ruining it. There was this other girl that liked to play rough with her male friends and I was too afraid of being exposed if I got into it.

When I met my now wife, it was different. I felt so confidend around her that I decided to go all the way. And she agreed. I think we had fights with mutual masturbation for long before having real sex. Then she started to dislike the fights, but that's another history.
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