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Old 15-Oct-18, 21:29
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I`ve never watched porn. Always wrestling, and I never did used to want sex, just to wrestle and lose to a woman.

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It`s one or the other for me on a day. I can`t wrestle and then have sex, because after I ejacukate I just lose all interest. Anyone else too have this problem?
I leap to the conclusion that you cum while you're wrestling, is that correct, so you don't have sex afterward because you've already cum. And I'm guessing thus that you're likely older (certainly not in your 20's as normally in late teens and 20's you can "reload" or at least many males can, in about 15 to 20 minutes, and get an erection again in about 5 or so.

So given that, you might consider working on you're ability to control your excitement while wrestling so that you can provide your partner straight sex afterward if that's what she wants, OR, as my wife and I do;

Mix the two. We do fantasy role play while will involve wrestling, as in, we have a role play where we have a storyline, and I might be "breaking in" and "attacking the lady of the house", or she's a cat burglar and she surprises me. She'll wear sexy clothes, tight skirt, hose, garters, blouse that comes off easy, or in different storylines she's got a swimsuit on, or nothing, or shorts, it varies, and the same for me, it varies, or our role is she and I are neighbors and one or the other or both have a complaint with the other and we end up wrestling to settle the issue.

One or the other gets the upper hand and whoever "wins" is the one who happens to climax first (it's almost always her because I make sure to focus on her. I do that because I'm the one who introduced wrestling to our play and she's been such a tremendously good sport about it, that I want her to associate satisfaction with wrestling. And at least for many women (wife included), when she climaxes, she's relaxed and more than able to then keep going to "take care of me". But regardless we never leave our partner unfulfilled. So I'd suggest trying to work on some ways to combine the two and both you and your partner win as a result.
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I leap to the conclusion that you cum while you're wrestling, is that correct, so you don't have sex afterward because you've already cum. And I'm guessing thus that you're likely older (certainly not in your 20's as normally in late teens and 20's you can "reload" or at least many males can, in about 15 to 20 minutes, and get an erection again in about 5 or so.

So given that, you might consider working on you're ability to control your excitement while wrestling so that you can provide your partner straight sex afterward if that's what she wants, OR, as my wife and I do;

Mix the two. We do fantasy role play while will involve wrestling, as in, we have a role play where we have a storyline, and I might be "breaking in" and "attacking the lady of the house", or she's a cat burglar and she surprises me. She'll wear sexy clothes, tight skirt, hose, garters, blouse that comes off easy, or in different storylines she's got a swimsuit on, or nothing, or shorts, it varies, and the same for me, it varies, or our role is she and I are neighbors and one or the other or both have a complaint with the other and we end up wrestling to settle the issue.

One or the other gets the upper hand and whoever "wins" is the one who happens to climax first (it's almost always her because I make sure to focus on her. I do that because I'm the one who introduced wrestling to our play and she's been such a tremendously good sport about it, that I want her to associate satisfaction with wrestling. And at least for many women (wife included), when she climaxes, she's relaxed and more than able to then keep going to "take care of me". But regardless we never leave our partner unfulfilled. So I'd suggest trying to work on some ways to combine the two and both you and your partner win as a result.
The person you're asking that question has been banned, and the post was 4 years old, so you probably won't get an answer.

But I think this is potentially an interesting thread. I for one, don't have an active sex life, but that's cause I've never been good at keeping a GF happy. The longest lasting relationship, and we were good together, even thought about marriage, but, that relationship, she enjoyed wrestling, so we had a great sex life. There were other issues. She was older than me, and her family was in Chicago and I didn't want to move to Chicago.

I love wrestling but sex is good too. A few girlfriends got tired of my preference for sex, because I usually wanted their weight on top of me, or I wanted them to squeeze my balls or do something that triggered my being dominated fetish. Looking back, I was probably too selfish in bed.
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I'm 40 and my wife is 36. We've been together for almost 18 years. We were our mutual first times and we have never had sex with anyone else.

My sex drive has never been good. As the OP, I never liked porn. I loved to make out and my fantasies with other women involved wrestling.

I told my then gf about my wrestling fetish rather early, after we had started having sex. We made a play in which I'd masturbate her and then she'd revive and wrestle me down (she's good at it), masturbating me when I was defeated.

After we got married she started enjoying the full sex-penetration more and I got less of the masturbation stuff. As I said, my sex drive has always been low, so I was able to perform once a week, twice if lucky.

I also come quickly, but when I try to hold my excitation it goes limp. So we must get to the task ASAP because once penetration starts I won't be able to hold it for long. Fortunately, she almost always comes at the same time.
She had problems with the pill, so we use a condom all the time: that also affects the performance. There have been times when my dick would go limp in the few seconds that I stopped to look for the condom and then it wouldn't grow back once inside it.

There's been a few times in which that put a huge stress on our marriage. Months would pass without sex because I didn't feel like I could provide and she didn't ask out of fear of disappointment. She wanted intercourse and wouldn't settle for less.
Regardless, my dick would respond to a "threat" of wrestling almost immediately. And that made her even more resentful. She said she felt like and object, an anonymous part of a fantasy.

So, wrestling happened only if she was sexually satisfied already.

Along the years, I learned to control my dick a bit more. I made pelvic floor exercises to get better erections. I overcame my lifelong rejection of cunnilingus and started doing it to her. We talked it through a lot.
Also, she lost a lot of weight and perhaps because of hormonal stuff her craving for sex went down as well. Also, she got better looking and more agile. The downside is that breast smothers became impossible.

Still, sometimes I can't perform or she's in a bad mood and the argument comes up again. Same stuff: I'm selfish, I see her as an object, etc. Usually we have sex after the argument.

Unfortunately, I cannot please her the way she wants while wrestling. As the OP, I lose interest the moment I come and I stay refractory for half a day at least. And she gets aroused while tumbling around with me and masturbating me. Intercourse at the end of the fight is nearly impossible because I come into my pants often, I would come during the first penetration without pleasing her and we would have to put on a condom before.
And the biggest problem is that she feels that every time we wrestle, she'll be left without sex for a week or two. And it sometimes goes that way.

I have talked her into letting herself get defeated and masturbated first, and she does (if I'm not horny and desperate enough to come into my pants as soon as she gets me in a headlock while topless). Still, it's intercourse what she craves and that I cannot give in a fight or it's over for me.

So, it's a complicated equilibrium that tends to go back and fro. And with the kids growing, nobody to leave them with and living in an apartment, the chances get scarcer every time.
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I'haven't a sexual life from many years .This is connect with this fetish.I feel women like an enemy and this is strange , odd and a sort of erotic excitement.Oh yes , i don't like very much , i am unacttractive , this condition is by my teen age period to now, i'm 49 old.
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