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Old 22-Dec-17, 05:56
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Default Thoughts on the youtube scissor challenges...

I have question/observation and a small story to go with it.

Anyone have opinions on the social media (specifically youtube) "challenges" that are pretty much fetish acts? For a couple of years, "challenge" videos have become a thing where people take requests from their subscribers to do random things for ratings. It started out with requests like "show your feet" or " shake your butt." Then it went to "put your foot in someones face." Now a big thing is the scissor challenge where people are dared to do headscissors, bodyscissors, figure 4s, etc. The people posting these videos act like theyre not aware that these are a major part of a fetish. Their channels are not related to fetish material. Some videos are teenagers, some or young adults...Ive even seen a few that were mother and son/daughter.

My questions are:

1) Are these people that naive to not know that this is a fetish thing? I assume they at least googled "headscissors" to see what it is or look at other challenges. Lets be honest you cant google it without a pornhub link showing up.

2) Is this fetish becoming more mainstream (my story will explain this more)? What many people considered to be "taboo or weird" is becoming desensitized to the point that its a game on youtube. With social media and the internet, things are so much easier to search for and discoverable through related links. Im 28 and i feel like the exposure to a highschool student is much more than what i had.


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My friends younger brother is an early teenager. Most of his friends are the same age. I think young kids nowadays are little assholes and have way to much connection to the web. They can search for anything and lets be honest, they get away with it. So all these little kids know about the headscissor challenges and stuff. As kids they dont see it purely as a sexual thing since they mostly know of it through the viral challenges. They were talking and apparently they all have done it with girls at their school. They even say that sometimes when hanging out, girls and guys just do it for the hell of it. Other times its foreplay.

So here are my thoughts: Im 28 and I have barely found anyone that is open enough to scissor me, sexual or not. There have been some, but not many. And definitely not just for the hell of it. My own gf, 25 years old, thinks its the weirdest thing ever. But these teenagers have been scissored probably more times than i ever have already! I know there are some on this forum who apparently live the perfect life and know exactly what to say and who to talk to, but the majority of us just dont encounter those women that will satisfy us.

I assume that most of us are over 21 and are living in the real world. how does that make you feel that In over 20 years of your life this fetish had to be kept in the dark? But now its a game and teenagers are throwing it out there with no stigmas. Social media is posting it as if its the "new craze" while you had to delete your browser history most of your life.

Dont get me wrong, i know times change. No lecture needed there. I dont want to be a 28 year old sounding like an old man but these kids are going to grow up with something that i never had and i admit Im jealous.
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Old 22-Dec-17, 07:53
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Default Re: Thoughts on the youtube scissor challenges...

Sorry but something about this rubbs me the wrong way. Man you sound bitter and sad.

You deleted your browser history? Dude being headscissored is not exactly pedophilia. If you're ashamed of your preferences, that's on you. Plenty people are open about some of their fetishes.

It's a game? Well what about spin the bottle - isn't that a game on something clearly marked as sexual? There were always people who slept with more attractive women than you, or before you or with more women, even when you were a teenager.

They get away with searching? So... What? Why is that bad? Why shouldn't people find out what they want to know?

Why would you think that they didn't see it as sexual? Even if they're not into head scissors the way you are, they still get to be close to her female body parts. And as for the women, they know why it's generating attention. Those who enjoy that will do the challenges. Nothing about that is surprising...

"The majority of us don't encounter women that will satisfy us" - that is just purely sad.
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Default Re: Thoughts on the youtube scissor challenges...

I guess I had a different reaction to the youtube vids than you did. I saw it more as an awesome phenomenon that our ideas are slowly working their way into mainstream culture. I've often thought that the idea of headscissoring or related maneuvers was plausible and innocuous enough to catch on. I also think that the rise in popularity and awareness of MMA and related sports could likely contribute to this as well (ie. Haywire). The Youtube HS challenge is interesting to me because I think to many people, it doesn't necessarily scream "fetish!!!" like you might think. Of course that's hard for us to see because we've been looking at this stuff for years. I am certain however that the HS challenge was in fact started by someone like us who duped these smaller channels into participating in their fantasy (Many of the channels report being sent the idea in a comment). I've been keeping my eye on this situation, because while most of the channels so far have been small, all it takes is for one big channel to pick it up and I think there's a chance for it to become a "thing" on a much wider scale. Here's hoping at least!
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Default Re: Thoughts on the youtube scissor challenges...

I totally relate to some of what you're saying. Not the videos so much, cause I find a lot of the youtube scissor challenge videos kinda boring (maybe I've not seen the right ones) but compared to stuff available on various websites, the challenge videos don't really do it for me.

But I remember being in my late 20s and early 30s with a gonzo wrestling fetish and I could afford maybe 1 max 2 sessions a year and it was pretty frustrating. I wouldn't call it jealousy exactly but more of an envy - which might sound worse, but I totally get the feelings of wanting what others have. I grew up before the internet, in the am-fem days when mixed wrestling stuff, even by magazine was pretty rare. I remember the first time I came across DWW in a photospread I was hit by how perfect and how desirable the stuff they were filming was, and I was like "Oh my god, How do I get there".

But after getting some sessions in, that feeling of envy eased up and now I don't get jealous of other's wresting cause I've . . . I wouldn't say had my fill, but I've wrestled enough and had enough experiences that I no longer get that feeling of unfairness that someone has something that I don't.

You just need to get some more experiences. Are you in a location where wrestlers rarely show up? Is it tough financially - cause sessions aren't cheap. And having a GF, the pursuit of sessions might be tricky. I hate to suggest this, but maybe a more open minded GF?

But I get where you're coming from cause I've been there. Jealousy can happen if you've had this fetish but not had it fulfilled. You just need to have your fantasy fulfilled a few times.
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Default Re: Thoughts on the youtube scissor challenges...

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Sorry but something about this rubbs me the wrong way. Man you sound bitter and sad.

You deleted your browser history? Dude being headscissored is not exactly pedophilia. If you're ashamed of your preferences, that's on you. Plenty people are open about some of their fetishes.

It's a game? Well what about spin the bottle - isn't that a game on something clearly marked as sexual? There were always people who slept with more attractive women than you, or before you or with more women, even when you were a teenager.

They get away with searching? So... What? Why is that bad? Why shouldn't people find out what they want to know?

Why would you think that they didn't see it as sexual? Even if they're not into head scissors the way you are, they still get to be close to her female body parts. And as for the women, they know why it's generating attention. Those who enjoy that will do the challenges. Nothing about that is surprising...

"The majority of us don't encounter women that will satisfy us" - that is just purely sad.
Whoa, first no pedophilia over here guy.

Next, Explore the forum....look at how many posts are of guys that say their wives and gfs aren't into this fetish. If you're one of the guys that lives in a town that has awesome strong women that like to scissor, let me come visit for a weekend.

Sad and bitter isnt exactly what I would consider it. I mean you can be jealous that this generation gets ps4 while you got Atari. Its not sad and no one is pissed. I made an observation that times are changing and fetish stuff is gettinf more mainstream and is seen as something casual in the younger generation.

You've never deleted or hid your broader history from parents, roommates or anyone? Doesnt have to be scissors...pretty sure porn in general is deleted at some point or another in a mans life lol. Ever heard of the joke "if I die a true friend would delete my browser history.

Thanks for the lecture but I think if we were face to face in a normal convo we'd understand each others tone and you'd see I wasn't crying about it. Its a forum and I was making an observation
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Default Re: Thoughts on the youtube scissor challenges...

Thank you guys for contributing in a nonaggressive way. Youve probably noticed that i get longwinded in my posts so the general idea can get lost but I think you guys picked up basic premise. To shorten up what really wanted to say...

Like everything from generation to generation, theres potential for young people to experience what i wished I experienced at that age. I feel like most of us can say that.

And i fully agree that the youtube videos arent meant to be fetish content. bUT It is cool that its out there and goes along with the theme of times and interactions are changing. so maybe some young lad that wants his future gf to scissor him, she can say "oh yea ive seen that on youtube. didnt know it was a sexual thing too. sure ill try." Maybe in 50 years thats the next go to sex move because of that little bit of mainstream exposure. Just speaking on hypotheticals of course

i hope you guys can see that there is no bitterness in my original post...just an observation.


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And just a sidenote, everyone just remember a lot of us are on this forum to talk about the things we dont have, our fantasies, our observations, and to pick each others brains. Not everyone has the resources to just go get sessions. Not everyone knows the right circle of people open to their fetish. Our lives and relationships are perfectly fine minus a facesit or bodyscissor here and there. Dont make a convenient argument to make someone look bad. We are all here for the same reason and can contribute without being aggressive.
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And just a sidenote, everyone just remember a lot of us are on this forum to talk about the things we dont have, our fantasies, our observations, and to pick each others brains. Not everyone has the resources to just go get sessions. Not everyone knows the right circle of people open to their fetish. Our lives and relationships are perfectly fine minus a facesit or bodyscissor here and there. Dont make a convenient argument to make someone look bad. We are all here for the same reason and can contribute without being aggressive.
I'm sorry if my message came out wrong. I just wanted to say that I related and that I'd been there - not about youtube specifically, but in general. I felt kind of similar, in my 20s and 30s.
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Default Re: Thoughts on the youtube scissor challenges...

Interesting Thoughts.

I always wondered how many people was actually aware of these videos. After I read your story it appears that it's getting a little viral already. Nothing compared to Ice bucket challenge or other but still

Indeed it feels strange to see our fetish becoming "mainstream" but in the same time, (in my opinion) these kind of videos are not very fetish oriented. What I mean is for someone totally strange about wrestling fetish these kind of videos would be more related to a (very badly executed) martial art thing than a sexual thing.

So I think what you see as fetish is just a random thing for an other one.
Like some of us are into judo outfit and all ... so I assume they already tried naughty judo practice at home as foreplay or an other sexual purpose. Yet, for everyone else, Judo is just a martial art, an Olympic discipline.

Now, I get it when you say you getting a little jalous about that, I'm also 28 , and me too I would have love to be headscissored "just for fun" at school. But to be honest I don't know If it would have fullfilled our desire ...

I don't want to say anything bad about these "headscissor challenge" videos but for the moment I never saw a girl doing it properly. More frustrating than anything don't you think ^^ ?

From what I see this kind of video is an opportunity to get more people aware about scissorhold and I hope it could help to get more women getting some interest about this.
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You're ok and I didn't want it to sound like in was directly talking about you. I appreciate you're posts.

great perspectives. Saying that for us its a fetish and for them its just purely a social media challenge is spot on. In terms of the fetish aspect to come to light, I won't say glass half full or glass half empty...Its just half a glass. Who knows what will happen with the exposure its getting.
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I haven't read the full thread, but to the OP, man, you are SO LUCKY to be at the perfect age to take full advantage of the new world that exists today.

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My own gf, 25 years old, thinks its the weirdest thing ever.
Why are you with her? I understand OLDER guys being stuck with a mate who finds their fetish weird, but they can get those needs met by meeting with session providers. But a young guy who has access to potential partners ANYWHERE IN THE FUCKING WORLD? There is really no excuse for wasting time with a woman with whom you are not largely compatible. It's just flat out laziness.

Yes, there are guys who *prefer* the taboo aspect of their fetish lives and who want to "cheat" (temporarily) on their partners, because that is a part of what gets them off, but based on your expressions here, you clearly desire to be in a relationship with a woman who will satisfy certain needs for you as opposed to getting your "fix" outside the relationship.

Ultimately, I can only speak for myself, but it is much better inside than out. I would definitely have dated my wife 20 years before we met.
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