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Running in the family
I've noticed that fetishes/interests can run in families and it supports my opinion that a fetish is something that's innate to you rather than caused by an event. My grandmother, mother, my sister and myself were/are all in relationships where we were/are dominant. I've noticed submissive personalities occurring in a similar way. A particular fetish may be equally genetically dependent. It may be dormant until triggered by an event but it is present before that. As techniques develop it may not be long before we can point to a gene that causes a fetish.
Have other forum members noticed anything similar? Last edited by sillver; 23-Oct-16 at 22:15. |
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Re: Running in the family
From my experience, predisposition is genetic. It doesn't mean much however without the right triggers at the right times.
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Re: Running in the family
I have not seen any evidence in my family that my desire to be dominated is genetic. There are no males on either side of the family that seem to show a predisposition to be submissive but that doesn't mean your theory is not sound. It could very well be genetic, but I do believe and always have that trigger events set off these desires, genetic or not.
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As to the childhood experiences, I have written about mine on several occasions at the forum. I have been scissored by my sister, wrestled my cousins, my friend's sister, played femdom-themed game we called "Queen" with one of my cousins, etc. In all of these cases I greatly enjoyed losing or feeling powerless or inferior. I didn't know it was sexual back then. No one does at that age. However, I don't think it's right to call them triggers, since I'm almost certain I initiated these situations. I'm not sure what the trigger was in my case, but I think it might have been one of my earliest memories from when I was 4, when I witnessed a very "patriarchal" incident between my parents. I've been told that one of the outcomes of noticing such moments is that it can instill the need in a person to reverse the hierarchy, through his own experiences. I started having fantasies of getting dominated, wrestled down and stepped on by my aunt very soon after that incident.
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Those of us who have the fetish often had it in a non sexual form when young. I think sexual awareness affects the fetish at puberty, diluting or masking it if you like as the sexual desire swamps the fetish. As people get older and sexual interest starts to wane I think the fetish regains ascendance and returns to being less sexual in nature. For instance younger men may be obsessed with oral sex while older men may like to be facesat with the woman wearing underwear. I'm interested in your experience of wanting to 'reverse the heirarchy'. I haven't heard that before but it makes a lot of sense and fits with some of my own experiences. |
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Re: Running in the family
i have the same experience from the relationship i am in now. my girlfriend a the dominant one, and so are her mom and sister.
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Everyone accepts that family traits are passed down thru the generations so why not a predisposition to fetish? It's part of who we are. |
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