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Old 04-Jan-17, 12:05
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Hey,

Your advise would be very much appreciated.

I am a 21 years old guy, decent looking with a good humour I would say, 191m tall and with this female wrestling fetish. I never had sex and I am not attracted by the thought of iit but I want to be able to have it.

I almost feel guilty when meeting new women. That I will never be able to give them what they want, that with me something will always be missing for them and I also feel guilty about hiding how weird I actually am.

Does anyone here had/have similar problems? Is there a possibility that this feeling might change after I had sex for the first time? That I will like it and get turned on by the thought of it?

I have been scissored by girls before and it turns me on but the thought about sex not. I enjoy kissing and cuddling. Regular porn does nothing to me. I pleasure myself with female wrestling videos. Am I some kind of asexual?

Wish you all a a great evening and thanks for taking time to read and possibily answer to this
I can understand you my friend, I'm just 2 years older thn you and we are almost the same looking guys at least with height hehe. My first "sex" was when I was 17, and 2 years before that I find that I am addicted to headscissors, lil domination and all that stuff so when I was visiting my family in Germany one night they bring me up to tome prostitute club and pay some prostitute to have a sex for me, as big suprise and for the first time it didn't went succesfull for me, I didn't know what to do, couldn't get erection, was very frustrated and all that stuff.

Too bad she didn't know English I would tell her to at least face slap me or do some domination thing that would excite me, so if you are feeling bad just think about my case, I still didn't find a way to deal with regular girls that I love how to manage it. I can sex with someone who is kinky, perverted and crazy but that's not the girls I would love to date with if you understand me.
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Agree 100%

My wife has integrated some of her holds into a sexual manner, and yes you are tight, the sex can be explosive
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For the OP, two things helped me:

1) If you concentrate on the pure physical feeling of a wet pussy around your dick, it is better than any other way of getting off. This is a little less true if you use a condom unfortunately.

2) If I were having trouble, I'd imagine the woman feeling pissed and disappointed, rudely and forcefully grinding my face as punishment for inadequacy and deciding never to see me again. For the way I'm wired this worked extremely well.
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Women generally prefer (sexually) men of confidence who DO NOT do what they want.

It's so hard for gentlemen to realize that frustration = desire.

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I can understand you my friend, I'm just 2 years older thn you and we are almost the same looking guys at least with height hehe. My first "sex" was when I was 17, and 2 years before that I find that I am addicted to headscissors, lil domination and all that stuff so when I was visiting my family in Germany one night they bring me up to tome prostitute club and pay some prostitute to have a sex for me, as big suprise and for the first time it didn't went succesfull for me, I didn't know what to do, couldn't get erection, was very frustrated and all that stuff.

Too bad she didn't know English I would tell her to at least face slap me or do some domination thing that would excite me, so if you are feeling bad just think about my case, I still didn't find a way to deal with regular girls that I love how to manage it. I can sex with someone who is kinky, perverted and crazy but that's not the girls I would love to date with if you understand me.

Wow I understand you so well! Same with me. I started to meet one time with a really crazy girl, she had great legs because she is a dancer and I told her everything about my fetish, because she first told me that guys complain about her squeezing them too much with her legs. She said she likes doing that, I couldn't believe it so I had to tell her about my fetish. She ended up headscissoring me and I was never so horny to a girl before, however I couldn't imagine a relationship with her. She was really crazy, not nice to other people and not the kind of girl I would fall in love with. A very negative person. So it didn't work because she was looking for more (Which I am usually too but in that case it was just the first girl I ever met who actually liked doing that and I was looking to explore).
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Wow I understand you so well! Same with me. I started to meet one time with a really crazy girl, she had great legs because she is a dancer and I told her everything about my fetish, because she first told me that guys complain about her squeezing them too much with her legs. She said she likes doing that, I couldn't believe it so I had to tell her about my fetish. She ended up headscissoring me and I was never so horny to a girl before, however I couldn't imagine a relationship with her. She was really crazy, not nice to other people and not the kind of girl I would fall in love with. A very negative person. So it didn't work because she was looking for more (Which I am usually too but in that case it was just the first girl I ever met who actually liked doing that and I was looking to explore).
Wow, so sad, you finally find someone who is sexually atractive to you and can fulfill your fetish but her character is so different, too bad, I can understand how you feel.
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I totally get the difficulty, especially when young and just starting to date. Often both parties are a little green/nervous/want the first time to be special - even if that's an overstatement, dating as a late teenager/early 20s can be a little awkward, and it gets easier as one gets older and both parties have "heard it all before" and much more open to trying new things.

My first GF found my fetish quite unpleasant, mostly cause it was always on. (I wasn't good at turning it off). A later GF, a lady with whom I'd discussed marriage with - we were quite close, she was much more game and was actually pretty darn good at times at being dominant, at least the physical part, not the trash talking/energy part, but she also liked things that I found very boring, like cuddling while we fell asleep or kissing/making out for long periods of time. I just wasn't mature enough when we were together and I wanted to explore too many things, so it didn't work out. She was also several years older than me, but in many ways she was great. The best lady I've ever dated.

Another GF, sometime later, felt that my fetish wasn't manly - she wanted a man to "have their way" with her, but that was never me.

I think the point is . . . if there is a point, focusing on what you want in a relationship has drawbacks - focus on what they want, and go out with people that you're OK with giving them what they want even if you get nothing in return. Not saying you have to stay in a relationship like that, but a first date - approach it like that. If they don't give you want you want in return after a few dates, you can leave and look for someone who'll give you what you want, or just ask them to indulge you. - that's my 2 cents of advice after 30 years of dating failure. To date successfully, give the lady what she wants. That doesn't mean you can't be honest about what you want, but don't make it the "first thing" you discuss. Maybe a 3rd date rule. If she's into you, run it by her on the 3rd date and see what happens.

It's much easier and much more common to be submissive than dominant. Relatively few people are naturally dominant in an attractive way, that's why they're so in demand. I've only dated 2 ladies who had a naturally dominant streak and one of them only picked it up after I cheated on her (that was interesting), the other one, believe it or not, had the personality of a nun but she had a wild side when you got to know her and she was a yogi so she had some muscle tone, especially in her legs (she used to lap me on the track when we'd go running). Finding a lady who'll dominate you with willingness and skill, takes some looking. Finding a lady like that who also has the physical ability to wrestle - that's a rare find. Speaking for me personally, if a lady asked me to spank her, I'd have a hard time with it. I'd do it, cause I totally get the fetish, but I have a tough time being the dominant one. Many people are wired that way where being mean to someone else goes against what we're comfortable with. I think you have to respect someone who is uncomfortable with the idea and not try to force anyone into it.

Another lady I dated, took up running so she could improve her scissor holds and they definitely showed improvement over a few months. Never to the point of scary, but they got more fun over time and another took up Karate when I asked her, so she would sometimes threaten me with punches or kicks, but it was all in play, never actually happened. If you date a lady and ask her to take Ju Jitsu classes and offer to pay for them, she might get the idea that you enjoy a tussle. I'd totally offer to pay anyone I date to take Ju Jitsu if I was a little younger and still dating. It's a way in. "So, what did you learn in class today?"

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