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Old 12-Mar-17, 01:59
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Default Am I asexual if I only like mixed wrestling?

This is something Ive always struggled with. I'm attracted to girls, VERY much so, but just would rather them scissor me or choke me out than have sex. In fact, I really have no interest in sex at all and can never seem to get "it" up when I try. I like videos where men are being beaten and given hand jobs, getting kissed, but don't like any sex, or even the women being naked.

I'm really confused about this, and was wondering if anyone has any thoughts or is experiencing something similar? Sometimes I wonder if maybe I would enjoy sex, but have been so involved in the mixed wrestling world for my entire life (i'm 24) that I am just so in my head about trying something sexual.

Thanks and any help would be great,

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Default Re: Am I asexual if I only like mixed wrestling?

I identify myself as a straight male and I love being dominated by women. I enjoy sensual holds (ie. breast smothering), but sex does not come to mind when I have a session. Mixed wrestling allows me to experience the athleticism, raw strength, and see the pure beauty of a woman up close and personal. Sex and wrestling are two different things. One is the process of making a human child and the other is a sport. To put it simply, I don't think you're asexual.
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Default Re: Am I asexual if I only like mixed wrestling?

You are a fetishist. It's OK.
If having intercourse is important to you, try to incorporate your fetishes into sex, for ex:
- reverse headscissors during blowjob or handjob
- partner is riding you while strangling
- reverse rape fantasy if you're into it, where your partner takes you by force
- some bondage during sex if you're into that

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oral sex offers many opportunities to incorporate wrestling:
- figure-4 headscissors cunnilingus
- reverse figure-4 with ass worship
- facesit-wrestling, she has to pin you via facesit to win and the loser provides oral service while facesit-pinned
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Default Re: Am I asexual if I only like mixed wrestling?

Zweig is absolutely right -- those are some excellent suggestions. Personally, I've found reverse rape to be the most direct way to take my wrestling fetish and make it part of sex. I've never dated a woman who had any interest in overpowering me through wrestling but many of them were very happy to physically overpower me through fucking. And if your partner is willing to speak some dominating dialogue, such as "Don't move, little boy, I'm not finished with you yet," sex domination can be almost as exciting as muscle domination.
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Default Re: Am I asexual if I only like mixed wrestling?

Your case is similar to mine. I grew up with no interest for sex, but a wrestling fetish, regardless of the opponent's gender. Somehow I managed to orient my desire towards females. Don't ask me how. I started gathering pictures of topless women and then the internet gave me the mixed wrestling pictures I needed.

I had my first sexual experiences after the age of 23 with my gf, now wife. She accepted my wrestling fetish and gave that experience to me. We had normal sex once in a while before marriage as well.

Anyway, I've never been very active sexually and she's not happy about that. We may have sex one, two or three times a month only, and sometimes if we wrestle then the next sex will be delayed for two weeks or more, so she sometimes denies me of that.

So, yes. You're not alone.
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Default Re: Am I asexual if I only like mixed wrestling?

Kind of the same experience as those already related here.
Zweig gave good suggestions that should help.

It took me years to understand that what most girls are looking for in a man is a both a protector and a lover. Don't ask me to go deep into the Darwinism and evolution type of explanation, but ancestral DNA is surely responsible for those deeply ingrained behaviors. In prehistorical times:
- males natural roles and responsibilities were to go out of the cave as and be a predator to bring back food and feed the family, starting with his wife. His second mission was for him to protect the family. All that to survive... sex being the only and ultimate way to survive in reproducing and transmitting his genes.
- female mission were to keep the cave organized, cook and breed the offspring.

Much later in the history of the world, some environmental and cultural conditions let or forced some females to developed amazon-like behavior. Then sport enabled females to experience and develop the masculine side of theirs in a controlled social environment.

The rest is all about fetish!

@[Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]: wrestling is not a bad thing. Use it as a fetish and blend sex into it. It will just make your sexual life a bit harder than the one of the non-fetish, average Joe. Why? For you will need to find females ready to wrestle or to let you express your fetish. Everybody in this forum - except some lucky ones - will tell you it might requires some effort, patience and luck. The good thing is that with the advent of the Internet and some James Bond, X-men or other action movies wrestling has been democratized, or made more mainstream if you will. Tomb Raider and Xena have become role models for some generation of girls. So, in a way, you were born in the right generation.
What you may notice later - and it may take you years (don't ask me how, everyone have their personal route) - is that someday, you might experience a feeling of love and protection for a girl that is so strong that it might slowly decrease or even completely block your desire to wrestle her.

In my relationships, I have kind of always succeeded in managing a good balance between sex and wrestling. Still, I realized while aging that diseases or other life traumas (they can be purely psychological one) may lead you to reach a stage where you are looking more for tenderness and softness, instead of confrontational and tensed activities such as wrestling.

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Old 12-Mar-17, 09:01
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This is something Ive always struggled with. I'm attracted to girls, VERY much so, but just would rather them scissor me or choke me out than have sex. In fact, I really have no interest in sex at all and can never seem to get "it" up when I try. I like videos where men are being beaten and given hand jobs, getting kissed, but don't like any sex, or even the women being naked.

I'm really confused about this, and was wondering if anyone has any thoughts or is experiencing something similar? Sometimes I wonder if maybe I would enjoy sex, but have been so involved in the mixed wrestling world for my entire life (i'm 24) that I am just so in my head about trying something sexual.

Thanks and any help would be great,

D
I am so happy you are writing this because I am in the exact same situation as you are! Male, 21 and virgin and also asking myself the same question.

The farthest I have came with sexual experience was pleasuring myself while a girl headscissored me. I hope I will make experience to further develop myself sexually, I really don't want to be asexual and want to be able to have sex. I found out that onion, honey and dates can help you get it up.
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Old 12-Mar-17, 13:11
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Default Re: Am I asexual if I only like mixed wrestling?

I understand your situation and I think a heavy interest in any fetish can make it difficult to sustain "vanilla" sex for some. I myself started off with a mixed wrestling fetish that also turned into a light female domination fetish. They say sexual pleasure is mostly mental and from my experience I would have to agree.

When I was younger I would look at a girl and notice legs/feet as my turn ons, not breast/ass as most guys. The fitness of a woman means more to me than say pretty face or other typical factor. I think this is the fetish side in me imagining they can wipe the floor with me!

But back to the main point, mentally, just grinding and thrusting during regular sex while physically nice, does nothing for me mentally and many time I would have difficulty sustaining an erection which some of the women would be confused by etc thinking it was something with them when really it was me, I did not reveal my fetishes to them.

I have learned you must incorporate some sort of your fetish with the sex like some already have said. I have had sessions but have never had a relationship where I incorporated wrestling as many women I have met are not into it. However, I am hugely turned on by face sitting and love giving oral, and most women love oral so now I begin with giving them oral, then when they get into it I have them (very willingly mind you) sit on my face and grind away to their content. They control everything and usually most women are into it and love it, its not as taboo as one might think! This is hugely turn on for me and I get hard immediately and now the domination aspect of it has my mentality into it also. When they are ready I like it when they either finish on top of my face or hop on so to say and ride me. But the main point is to find a way to incorporate your fetish, starting slowly at first probably because most women probably don't want you to ask them to scissor you right away .
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Default Re: Am I asexual if I only like mixed wrestling?

The main problem is that society has changed in recent decades and these days the relationships are mostly formed on the basis of being social and falling in love, and the relationships revolve around sex and physical attraction. That's why the society basically pressures young people into having sex because a person who doesn't have sexual relationships on a regular basis is seen as some sort of social outcast who can't get those relationship, as if that should be everyone's main goal in life. People are basically assuming that everyone's main desire in life is to have sex and if you're not doing it it somehow means you're somehow failing in life. It's ridiculous. Majority of people are insecure and get pressured by this and follow this mindset.

It's hilarious how all kinds of sexual orientations are accepted these days but if someone appears "asexual" or is interested in something that doesn't necessarily involve sex he's seen as a weirdo. In reality this fetish that we have here is actually healthier than sex, I mean what the hell is unhealthy about wrestling with a woman? Sex can lead to diseases and all kinds of problems. Pre-marital sex was always frowned upon in the past and still is in many parts of the world. I'm not saying that this is how it should be either but it just shows you how subjective it all is.

You shouldn't feel pressured by how the modern society views your life because modern Western society is a load of crap and is wrong about many things, just like every other society was, is and will be. Do what YOU like and what YOU want to do. You should think about yourself and you should build relationships with women on what YOU want.

You should look at it like this: you don't need sex in life other than for reproduction. The only other reason why people do it is for pleasure and if you don't get pleasure out of it then why the hell would you want to do it, especially considering all the bad things that can come with it? If you don't like to do it or don't feel the need to do it why would you feel bad about it?

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Default Re: Am I asexual if I only like mixed wrestling?

I'm kind of similar. Porn doesn't interest me at all. I'd rather see videos of women putting holds on men, or KO'ing them, rather than straight on porn

With stuff like sessions, I still prefer those, and don't' really have a desire to have sex. I like the experience of being knocked out, waking up, feeling euphoric. Or being put in several holds and being trash talked and laughed at(by the woman). I generally don't do competitive or even semi comp with the women I session with, but I usually try to go for KO sessions. Where I get knocked out as much as possible. The feeling can be euphoric, scary, and quite an experience. And as a result, I aim to do those sessions, rather than looking to have sex from people I know or paying for escorts.
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