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Re: Getting past the idea of this fetish
I don't think there is an easy way...and everybody has to compartmentalize things at one point. Even the content producers had to make choices, to take risks, their visibility and confidence doesn't mean they didn't know rejection and disappointments.
I agree it is essential to improve a self perception, and above all to be able to explain, and to share why this fetish is important and what it can bring to a relationship. For some people, openness will always be more of a challenge but it is our differences that make us fully human. |
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This fetish is odd, but all fetishes are. It's okay they are a part of our sexuality and it's an exploratory endeavor to pursue them!
I've had relationships with a few women who had no problems accommodating my kink. And that was always great! One of my ex's asked me to show her something, a video, so I could talk to her about it. I had a download of a Charlene Rink video from PP. We watched it and she said, "Yeah, I get 'it!'" And while we didn't wrestle or do that thing all the time, when we did it was intense. Other girlfriends have been receptive, some thought it was weird, but it didn't cause things to end. But with each woman it comes up when we talk about sexual interests. On that note, too, there's nothing wrong with talking about sex and fetishes. Most of my exes have a fetish. One gal had a "rape" fantasy; another was into struggle play where she was being dominated, and another liked pretending to be picked up at a bar and then have sex in her car. There are all kinds of things out there. I guess what I'm trying to say, the wrestling thing isn't even the "weirdest" of them all. For me, I do think about it a lot and more than I wish I did. I can't help it, so I don't really try to. It's not something I force my way into, but I don't have a problem talking about it. |
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I realise that I'm a complete novice on this forum but I've quickly realised that I have had this fetish for a very long time. I've just come back from a sports based holiday in Europe and obviously being surrounded by women in Lycra for a week has reawakened some pretty profound passions in me. I have literally been able to think of nothing else since which is why I joined this forum. Since then I have told my wife about this fetish and contrary to my fears she didn't freak out at all. Whether I can actually get her involved remains to be seen! I presented to her openly and with humour but made sure that I made it clear that I was serious. I would guess that if some people go in too intense it can freak people out instead. The thing is, I wouldn't have had the nuts to do this at 20 but I've just turned 40 and don't really care what people think anymore. As others have already said, EVERBOBY has a kink or 2.
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As a 63-year-old guy who has had this fetish since elementary school, I would suggest a few things: if possible, set your mind to something else. The fetish itself trivializes women by objectifying them, can interfere tremendously with, or subvert completely, a healthy love relationship with a more suitable partner, can lead to anxiety, and cost loads of money for very fleeting, if any, gratification. If you cannot overcome the fetish on your own, you could try therapy.
If you are truly dedicated to the fetish, I would suggest becoming a bodybuilder yourself (if you aren't one already), so that you have a realistic insight into the woman's lifestyle, and a common interest with her -- most of the women bodybuilders I've seen, though not all, have partners who are also into the bodybuilding life. Another thing I would recommend is to be open to friends and family about at least your attraction to such women, if not every detail regarding your desires and fantasies. Nothing good can come from shamefully hiding such feelings from others. Suppression can lead to deep-seated feelings of guilt and low self-esteem. These are just my personal thoughts on the subject which, for me, has been more than anything else a destructive obsession that has interfered with so many other more positive aspects of, and relationships in, my life. Last edited by tanukialpha; 15-Sep-17 at 04:23. |
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Very interesting discussion, but i disagree that the fetish objectifies women. It could of course, and we can have the same same observation with sex and all relationships. What is important is the sense we put into it and how we interact about it, and nothing about that is necessary destructive. And i think the anxiety is more linked to a negative perception by society as a whole. The fetish is neutral but the feeling of isolation, of difference can be a burden.
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