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Getting past the idea of this fetish
I really enjoy watching all the great videos you guys post on here, I have been for around a year and a half. I'm not bashing this kink at all, I love it but i get quite embarrassed that I have it. I'm still in Highschool so I have gotten any experience with anything yet but opening up to someone about it is tough.
I was talking to some girl in India about it and she told me it was one of the strangest fetishes she's ever heard of. How do you guys explain it to others? I would imagine it would make a relationship really awkward:/ |
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Re: Getting past the idea of this fetish
It can make a relationship awkward. Where a person grows up and what they're exposed to is important. I didn't grow up in India but I would think there's a lot less fetish there and it's much less accepted. There's also some variation between more conservative vs more sexually open parts of America.
People who are into fetish are often into it by HS but it's probably much more common with guys than girls. My first relationship (college, not HS), my GF found my fetish very uncomfortable. Different ladies react differently All you can do is run it by them and see what they say and perhaps figure out smooth ways to bring it up. But no matter how you bring it up, I think 80% of women won't be interested, unless you look like Brad Pitt, then maybe only 60% won't be interested. |
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Interpersonal skills, confidence, patience will get you what you want in this fetish. I would however file your Indian friends opinion under "not relevant" as she hails from a culture which so utterly different in respect to sex and gender roles that she may as well be from an alien world. In reality, western females I have found to be very hip to it in most circumstances. It is widely considered among those in the fetish community to be one of the more vanilla and well accepted fetishes in fact. Take some time to search this forum and you will find discussions that support what I am saying and give you a more complete perspective of how our fetish is viewed. |
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Depends a lot on how interested they are in the guy too and how he asks. |
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And in one example, it showed that in the US, approximately 90% of searches for "how to breastfeed (x)" were related to how to breastfeed a baby and roughly 10% for how to do it for a man. In India, the split was roughly 50/50, indicating that that kink is far more common there than in the US, for whatever reason. Not judging Indians btw. |
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Re: Getting past the idea of this fetish
I think LicesnsetoKill summed it up quite well. Guys like us have a tough road to travel -- most women aren't into what we're into. The truth is, our fetish will probably never be a popular choice. And unfortunately, most people -- especially young people -- prefer what is popular. But "unpopular" is not the same as "weird" or "sick." It just means you have to work harder to find what you want. My only advice is, do your best not to lie about your real feelings. Because if women believe your lies, you'll be stuck living a life that doesn't make you happy.
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I've always thought the ideal approach would be to be completely open about the fetish but I grew up in an era where that would have created a lot of social problems. Times have changed and many younger people seem to feel comfortable not hiding it. I have no idea how that works in their daily lives but you might ask those who are "out" how that works out for them. The most visibly identifiable of those who have this fetish are probably the content producers, who have websites with their name and picture. That's about as "out" as you can be. They would have a perspective on this that I couldn't even begin to imagine. |
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