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Old 03-Jan-17, 00:01
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Default Ever had a girl deny your request for a session?

I'm not talking about they're busy, or cancel a trip, or you don't agree on the fee or anything, but I had a girl who advertises semi-comp and competitive wrestling say she couldn't provide the session I was asking for when I asked for semi-comp. No amplifying info given. Think it's worth asking for her reasons?
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Old 03-Jan-17, 00:25
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Default Re: Ever had a girl deny your request for a session?

No. You're getting too close to begging (or at least curbing your expectations by, say, doing fantasy or MW only) to spend $400 to wrestle a girl for an hour of awkwardness knowing that she didn't think you were worth her time or were too risky. I'm surprised she actually sent that response instead of ignoring it if she didn't want to deal with you though.
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Default Re: Ever had a girl deny your request for a session?

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I'm not talking about they're busy, or cancel a trip, or you don't agree on the fee or anything, but I had a girl who advertises semi-comp and competitive wrestling say she couldn't provide the session I was asking for when I asked for semi-comp. No amplifying info given. Think it's worth asking for her reasons?
If you want to ask, you can ask, but it's basically fishing without bait I think. A number of women will say no to sessions, or just not answer back if they guy isn't their type. It's impossible to know why someone doesn't write back, but I've been turned down in writing a couple of times.

Doms for example can be choosy about their clients. Some doms like to feel in control and are looking for a certain type of submissive sometimes. Two doms, from memory, turned me down cause I wasn't their "type".

A wrestler, no longer active, named Chelsea, turned me down because I was too young. Younger guys can be more work, she liked clients who were less work. I wasn't going to be rough with her or anything, I just thought she was pretty, but she didn't know me at all, so I get where she was coming from.

One bad client, or one client who's too competitive can ruin their whole day and possibly injure them, so they have a right to be careful. Specific reasons vary, but being turned down happens. That said, if you want to know the reason, feel free to ask her. There's no law against asking why. But "can't provide what you're looking for", suggests to me she has a slight injury or she doesn't do semi competitive anymore and her WB270 isn't updated, or she already has a couple semi competitives booked that day and doesn't want to book another, or, to her, the semi-competitive she offiers is only against out of shape 40 year olds, or something along those lines.
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Default Re: Ever had a girl deny your request for a session?

To answer your question, I've never been turned down. I have been ignored a few times. I have been warned once that the girl doesn't do competitive. But I don't either.
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Old 03-Jan-17, 02:18
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Think it's worth asking for her reasons?
Depends on how needy and pathetic you wanna look.

If you ask a woman out on a date and she says no would you ask her reasons on why she said no?

If a woman tells you no, in anything........you move on.
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There's no law against asking why. But "can't provide what you're looking for", suggests to me she has a slight injury or she doesn't do semi competitive anymore and her WB270 isn't updated, or she already has a couple semi competitives booked that day and doesn't want to book another, or, to her, the semi-competitive she offers is only against out of shape 40 year olds, or something along those lines.
The timing thing is something that's happened, I'd have a very specific window and she would be free then but already have done several sessions. I always appreciate the honesty in that case and make an effort to try to see them at some point. I'm also very direct in stating my interests and clarifying her interest in giving me that kind of session, that's ended in me not going forward a few times. To make sure of things I describe myself whenever wrestling is involved, so the vast majority of sessions.
Without naming her, there was 1 time when the tone of a lady's emails completely changed after I had mentioned I'd met someone I was sure she knew personally. So having not just any reference, but the right reference can be very helpful sometimes, maybe the difference between her seeing you or her being hesitant.
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I'm not talking about they're busy, or cancel a trip, or you don't agree on the fee or anything, but I had a girl who advertises semi-comp and competitive wrestling say she couldn't provide the session I was asking for when I asked for semi-comp. No amplifying info given. Think it's worth asking for her reasons?
Seeking transactional humiliation is a thing, I get that, but....to put it bluntly, even asking the question creates a lose-lose-lose-lose situation.

Consider yourself lucky that she did not agree to a session she really was not into.
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Default Re: Ever had a girl deny your request for a session?

When I was way younger I remember emailing a few session wrestlers and gave them a link to Ivan Drago boxing and said it was me. The girls who got the joke thought it was funny, but a couple of them said NO because they thought they'd get hurt. So maybe you look like Ivan Drago and that's what she's concerned about?
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Default Re: Ever had a girl deny your request for a session?

Just be glad you were turned down before you turned up and not after. I know an escort who has done that. Just the sight of a cold sore is enough for a girl to go nowhere near you. It's hard on the guy but it's necessary.
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