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Re: Participatory vs. Voyeuristic Fantasies
i wouldnt call it a fetish of mine...but i really learn towards 1.
i dont go out of my way to lose and have in fact won some times against the girls ive wrestled, but i end up losing more often than winning |
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Lots of interesting stuff there, such as preferring women who are not really in on the fetish. I can certainly understand that. I wonder how common it is. Must be frustrating. I guess what you could do is go to an MMA club and pick a fight. Just hope that when you start messing with a woman, a guy doesn't intercede. On the subject of watching: I DO think a lot about what's going in in the guy's head. This may be an age thing. I am so old that I remember a time when the average guy just assumed that he could beat any woman in the world in a fight. And this was central to the male ego. I like to think that what I'm watching in a fight scene is the male ego being destroyed, the guy's whole sense of himself disintegrating. It's a harder and harder fantasy to sustain, now that ass-kicking babes are so prevalent in pop culture, sports, police work, the military, etc. So many normal, non-fetish guys are perfectly willing to admit that there are girls and women they wouldn't want to fight. That's a revolution. Like you, I like to let my own imagination work, even if, say, a video is right in front of me. I will always watch a video first with the sound off, creating my own scenario. Funny line: not getting headscissored (one's first sexual experience, in an important sense) until 20. True, I can see. But also funny. |
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I'm definitely number 2 and have been from a young age. The whole thing started with a neighbor girl who used to overpower and outfight all the boys who were close to her age. I was thankful to be just enough older to that I was able to beat her, but I loved watching her going against the boys who were younger than me. The mental game is a big part of it. I loved to see her confidence in her own strength and ability and the pleasure she got from overwhelming boys. It was also interesting to see the boys' go at her with the attitude that they would beat her because she was a girl and then struggle desperately in a losing battle. As the boys' testosterone really started kicking in, it was also also interesting to see how this alpha female handled it as she began to struggle and lose against boys that she had easily beaten only the previous summer and who she fully expected to be able to dominate again. I still like to watch and I'm still happy with either a male victory or a female victory, so long as the match and the attitudes are good.
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I think there’s certainly elements of both. Obviously I like participating but what I watch tends to be a bit stronger than what I wish to experience.
For instance, I enjoy watching knockouts, real or fake. There’s something about watching the girl ignore her opponent’s pleas and just put them out. But in terms of experience, I’ve never been knocked out and the few times I came close weren’t the most pleasant. I’ll also echo Zweig on this one in regards to experiencing without the woman knowing about the kink/fetish. Yes it’s fun for someone to act out your desires, but in my experiences, I’ve much preferred impromptu wrestling matches with girls as opposed to the ones with whom I’ve confided my desires. I guess that’s why I tend to not date the women I wrestle with and I also tend not to wrestle the women I date. It’s almost like I want them to enjoy the match, not do it because I like it if that makes sense. |
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My fantasy (went realized many times) is: 1) being beaten in a fight (or wrestling match) by a woman. |
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Good to see at least a few 2s.
I agree with SJW that the fight has to last a while for the male ego to unmistakably disintegrate. My own preference, actually, is for the woman to keep letting the guy up and to beat him again and again, just to make sure he gets the point. I want him NOT wanting a rematch, because he knows it's utterly hopeless. Another kink within the kink: I know some guys like fantasies in which the guy is killed. For me, that ruins it. I want the guy to have to live with his humiliation. |
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I'm a 1. Some of the stories shared here are are great tho.
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