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Old 05-Jan-19, 12:06
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Default Re: So I finally told my partner...

Mate, you been with her for 10 years, damn and this has only come up.

I remember once, i was with my g/f for only a few months, there was this newspaper in the u.k called the daily sport and it was just a tabloid but very popular with lots of tits and arse, they had an ad section and i found an ad about a female wrestler, that had toured the world wrestling men and women. Now she was back was ready to tell the tale. It was one of them outrageously expensive phone numbers. I tore out the ad and had it in my pocket, i did ring it and spent 15 or there abouts, you just listened as she spoke about the matches, it didnt go far that 15 pound and the call ended ( i was in a public phone box thing) well i left the frigging ad in my friggin coat pocket. She had found it without me knowing and had called it. She came home one day, slapped me around the face, really hard and out of the blue so i was shocked and didnt really know what to do (she was an absolute nutter back then, feisty and very very jealous) i had to explain to her what it was and i had a wrestling fetish, i talked slowly and calmly.

We did wrestle after that, quite a bit thinking back. I remember one time, we split up properly, i had moved on and found some one else and was seeing my new g/f for a few weeks i got a message from my ex she got me in the car and she drove she offered to wrestle me, she would do anything to get me back, so i did agree to it. Wow we wrestled like it was going out of fashion, i eventually dropped my new gf and went back with my ex, had two kids and we are still together 20 years later, i married her last year, yay me... We dont wrestle anymore
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Old 05-Jan-19, 13:20
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Mate, you been with her for 10 years, damn and this has only come up.

I remember once, i was with my g/f for only a few months, there was this newspaper in the u.k called the daily sport and it was just a tabloid but very popular with lots of tits and arse, they had an ad section and i found an ad about a female wrestler, that had toured the world wrestling men and women. Now she was back was ready to tell the tale. It was one of them outrageously expensive phone numbers. I tore out the ad and had it in my pocket, i did ring it and spent 15 or there abouts, you just listened as she spoke about the matches, it didnt go far that 15 pound and the call ended ( i was in a public phone box thing) well i left the frigging ad in my friggin coat pocket. She had found it without me knowing and had called it. She came home one day, slapped me around the face, really hard and out of the blue so i was shocked and didnt really know what to do (she was an absolute nutter back then, feisty and very very jealous) i had to explain to her what it was and i had a wrestling fetish, i talked slowly and calmly.

We did wrestle after that, quite a bit thinking back. I remember one time, we split up properly, i had moved on and found some one else and was seeing my new g/f for a few weeks i got a message from my ex she got me in the car and she drove she offered to wrestle me, she would do anything to get me back, so i did agree to it. Wow we wrestled like it was going out of fashion, i eventually dropped my new gf and went back with my ex, had two kids and we are still together 20 years later, i married her last year, yay me... We dont wrestle anymore
Ummmm.
Wow! Not sure where to begin, I'll leave it at 'wow.'
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Old 06-Jan-19, 16:45
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Mate, you been with her for 10 years, damn and this has only come up.

I remember once, i was with my g/f for only a few months, there was this newspaper in the u.k called the daily sport and it was just a tabloid but very popular with lots of tits and arse, they had an ad section and i found an ad about a female wrestler, that had toured the world wrestling men and women. Now she was back was ready to tell the tale. It was one of them outrageously expensive phone numbers. I tore out the ad and had it in my pocket, i did ring it and spent 15 or there abouts, you just listened as she spoke about the matches, it didnt go far that 15 pound and the call ended ( i was in a public phone box thing) well i left the frigging ad in my friggin coat pocket. She had found it without me knowing and had called it. She came home one day, slapped me around the face, really hard and out of the blue so i was shocked and didnt really know what to do (she was an absolute nutter back then, feisty and very very jealous) i had to explain to her what it was and i had a wrestling fetish, i talked slowly and calmly.

We did wrestle after that, quite a bit thinking back. I remember one time, we split up properly, i had moved on and found some one else and was seeing my new g/f for a few weeks i got a message from my ex she got me in the car and she drove she offered to wrestle me, she would do anything to get me back, so i did agree to it. Wow we wrestled like it was going out of fashion, i eventually dropped my new gf and went back with my ex, had two kids and we are still together 20 years later, i married her last year, yay me... We dont wrestle anymore
Your story sounded amazing until the last sentence. Why don't you wrestle anymore?
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Old 06-Jan-19, 21:35
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So now the door is opened, question is what should I show her ? because we are intimate and have been for over 10 years im not sure if I should show her the more sexual stuff you'll find on porn hub or the strictly wrestling stuff.
I know what you wrote, above, but did you really mean you "haven't" been intimate for over ten years.... which is where I am at in my relationship.
I just have this feeling my wife would love to wrestle/squeeze if she would just try it. She is domineering otherwise, so I just think it would be a fun fit for both of us.

I have tried on different occasions to get her to squeeze me but she never takes the bait, even when I suggest it. I am very interested in what these responses have to say....
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I just have this feeling my wife would love to wrestle/squeeze if she would just try it. She is domineering otherwise, so I just think it would be a fun fit for both of us.

I have tried on different occasions to get her to squeeze me but she never takes the bait, even when I suggest it. I am very interested in what these responses have to say....
Have you tried the reverse psychology approach? OK, it's pretty immature, but that doesn't mean it wouldn't work.

While watching Xenia Onnatop say something like "no woman could really do that because women are the weaker sex" and see if you get a response. (you don't have to say the weaker sex part)

or offer her something in trade. "If you get me to tap, I'll give you a 2 hour massage" or "I'll buy you that pair of shoes" - just throwing options out there.

It's also possible that she's just not into physical domination, as in, not into it at all. People come in all types.
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FORGET the videos and internet based stuff. What you consider mild or introductory is based on decades of sensation deadening stimulation. .. lady folk all tick a little differently don't they?
agree!!

when i finally shared photo's/vids of my wrestling fantasy with the lady folk,
it backfired. Now, the thought of engaging in my fantasy is a total turn off
as she is certain i'm thinking about the women in the photos, not Her.

Actually not the case, but the damage was done and no convincing otherwise.
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Default Re: So I finally told my partner...

My first instinct is to be blunt and just say it in a matter of fact, no preparations, no circling around.

That said none of us know your partner except yourself, so I don't think we can help you much.

Try to do a risk assessment: what are the best and worse scenarios and their relative likelihood. You live only once.
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agree!!

when i finally shared photo's/vids of my wrestling fantasy with the lady folk,
it backfired. Now, the thought of engaging in my fantasy is a total turn off
as she is certain i'm thinking about the women in the photos, not Her.

Actually not the case, but the damage was done and no convincing otherwise.
More or less like the argument my wife gives when she's not in the mood: "This is not about me, but with your fetish and I'm just an object."
Most of the time, though, she will agree to wrestle me as long as she feels that she's had a fair amount of normal sex earlier in the month.

I've shown her some of my videos to give her a better idea of moves, but likewise she immediately noticed the fit and busty girls and said "you'd rather be doing this with them." And i'd like to test a Ferrari once as well, but that's not the right answer.

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My first instinct is to be blunt and just say it in a matter of fact, no preparations, no circling around.

That said none of us know your partner except yourself, so I don't think we can help you much.

Try to do a risk assessment: what are the best and worse scenarios and their relative likelihood. You live only once.
Exactly. I mentioned it to my now wife once trust had been established. Also, we had had a few playful tussles before and she realised I was harmless.

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I am very interested in what these responses have to say....
You don't need to wait, you can do a search on the site and there are literally 10-20 excellent strings of conversation on this topic. Tons of feedback to get started.
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Mate, you been with her for 10 years, damn and this has only come up.
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ex, had two kids and we are still together 20 years later, i married her last year, yay me... We dont wrestle anymore
Well, congratulations on 20 years. Well done! Sorry to hear about the lack of wrestling. If I knew the magic on how to get this back I'd tell you. But women are so varied in what appeals to them, I don't think there is a generic answer. I'm been married twice as long as you and we don't wrestle quite the same way as when we were 19. Wrestling usually breaks out during regular marital relations. The wrestling is almost always playful but very forceful. The pins and submissions are real but you might say, mixed into the "session".
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