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Old 18-Apr-16, 00:51
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1. Yes, my sister went through my checkbook one time when she was home. I came home from work and put my wallet and checkbook on the table and went up to my room to change, I came back down and found her going through my checkbook and she asked who was this company, I told her mind your own business and she called mom into the room but mom told her to give it back or get hers out so I could go through it and its his money he can spend it any way he wants to.

2. Some what important that no finds out, most people think they are holier than God.

3. Don't protect privacy much but I should.
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Old 18-Apr-16, 02:17
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1. Yes, my sister went through my checkbook one time when she was home. I came home from work and put my wallet and checkbook on the table and went up to my room to change, I came back down and found her going through my checkbook and she asked who was this company, I told her mind your own business and she called mom into the room but mom told her to give it back or get hers out so I could go through it and its his money he can spend it any way he wants to.

2. Some what important that no finds out, most people think they are holier than God.

3. Don't protect privacy much but I should.
I mean it is your fetish after all, it's up to you whether you wish to keep it a secret or let it out in the open. However, personally I wouldn't be comfortable with my family members knowing my fetish since it would create an extremely awkward atmosphere in the house and I don't really need to let them in on it in the first place.
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Old 18-Apr-16, 02:55
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1. Yes, my sister went through my checkbook one time when she was home. I came home from work and put my wallet and checkbook on the table and went up to my room to change, I came back down and found her going through my checkbook and she asked who was this company, I told her mind your own business and she called mom into the room but mom told her to give it back or get hers out so I could go through it and its his money he can spend it any way he wants to.

2. Some what important that no finds out, most people think they are holier than God.

3. Don't protect privacy much but I should.
I love your sister story. That's what kids are like. If an adult goes through your checkbook, people would think "that's not right", but kids do that kind of thing a lot.

My brother used to open the bathroom door on me to "see what I was doing". (I was doing pushups, cause I was a skinny kid and I wanted to add some muscle - not doing what people think alone in the bathroom), but he heard a noise and he just had to know. I had the bathroom scale balanced on my back for extra weight so I probably looked pretty silly, so he's standing there staring at me like I've committed some kind of crime by doing pushups with the bathroom scale on my back, and I was like "GTFO" and I slammed the door into him, and he ran off crying, which I felt bad about, but he shouldn't go just opening bathroom doors when it's occupied to see what I was doing. . . . . . (and before anyone thinks I'm a bully, I was like 13 and he was 12).

Ofcourse, that has nothing to do with wrestling, but that's what your story reminded me of. Kids/siblings can be the worst. As an adult, we seem to get past most of that and we respect each other's privacy more.

Small NY apt, privacy wasn't really a thing, sharing a room with a brother, yada yada yada.

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Old 24-Apr-16, 16:16
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The problem is not the fetish, its you.

Because we are so guarded about our fetish I think we tend to engage in less conversations with peers, friends about sexuality. I have asked ex-girlfriends about their previous sexual experiences and the wacky stuff their ex-boyfriends asked them to do made me feel like I was doing them a favor to wrestle!
What you don't realize is in the same way you fight to keep your fetish a secret these other guys with way crazier ones fight even harder than you so you live your life thinking its you who is different.

If we were to openly discuss with close friends you would find out very quickly that we are on the milder end of the fetish spectrum. I personally know people who have fetishes that are much farther off the beaten path than female domination. IN FACT, I would say ours is one that is one of the most ACCEPTED fetishes out there. Worshipping female power/dominance? In a society where the opposite is villified each and every day in the media?

You are the superhero of the fetish world!

I leave you with a pearl of wisdom someone once told me that helped when I was younger.

When you are 20 you care what everyone thinks.
When you are 40 you don't care what everyone thinks.
When you are 60 you realize that they weren't thinking about you at all.
You're right in theory, until the fact that you have a fetish and others are not know to have such thing can affect your social life.

"Dr. Smith has this weird fetish, I've heard. Better not leave him in care of your son/daughter. God only know what other perversion he may have."

"I'd say you better not go out with that guy. I've heard he has this weird fetish, he may want to physically abuse you or something to get turned on."

"My political opponent here has these "issues" everybody talks about but him. Would you trust him?"

"I'd rather not leave the kids with my father-in-law. Since I saw his internet history I've become a bit worried about what he could do to them."
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20/40/60 is all true. Im a retired nurse at 40 been an artist and musician all my life. Im about to release music and therefor make vids to promote them. Most of the visual content that comes to mind is multi fetish related. Its counter culture music like kmfdm. Id feel safer if i worked with people who belived in it. Im never going to run for office. I cant make enough money collecting a paycheck. I have to be a great tattoo artist and crafstman just to pay bills. So i have a thing for legs. Do guys like me go around prooving and explaining things to everyone? Uf a crooked cop or sue-happy asshole wanted to drag me and my name to court would it matter? The random bad person bad luck can happen to anyone and people who prey on others are indescriminate. Ive saved lives and mastered many artforms including small business. Im an artist and expecting me to be vanilla is ignorant and loaded. Im still on the fence as to shoot fetish clips and use clips4sale as a second income and possible.music production. Ludella haun goes to cosplay conventions and im not happy with retired porn start being treated like the plague and black listed. Ive though about comming out and ammassing an army of fetish entertainers. I dont knoww but happy 40 to me and my points of veiws have certainly changed.
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You're right in theory, until the fact that you have a fetish and others are not know to have such thing can affect your social life.

"Dr. Smith has this weird fetish, I've heard. Better not leave him in care of your son/daughter. God only know what other perversion he may have."

"I'd say you better not go out with that guy. I've heard he has this weird fetish, he may want to physically abuse you or something to get turned on."

"My political opponent here has these "issues" everybody talks about but him. Would you trust him?"

"I'd rather not leave the kids with my father-in-law. Since I saw his internet history I've become a bit worried about what he could do to them."
With all due respect you are doing the same thing as the original poster. You are assigning negative connotations to your fetish, thus maligning yourself unfairly. You have zero proof other than in your own paranoid, fearful conscience that anyone would react this way. The examples you provide are the types of statements made towards people with harmful fetishes. The one most of us have and its variations are nothing like that until you assign them the improper meaning.

Everyone has a "fetish" of some sort. Some men really like huge enormous breasts. If you intellectually sift through the behavioural permutations of that in terms of the possible damage it can do to people within the scope of their affections, its far worse than our fetish or any other number of fetishes.

Again, many us are the problem, NOT the fetish.

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Old 27-Apr-16, 19:50
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My questions for you:

1) Have you ever run into any awkward situations in this regard?
2) How important to you is it that people don't know you have this interest? Why?
3) What do you do to protect your privacy?

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1. Just recently i ran into an awkward and scary moment. My wife was out of town, so naturally i booked a scissor session with a girl. My wife knows about my scissor fetish, but she doesnt know i actually do sessions with other women. I had written down the directions to the hotel where i was doing the session. I usually write the directions down and then throw them away because i dont trust google maps to actually get rid of the address when i am done with it.
Well this time, i forgot to throw the paper with the directions on it away, and my wife found it! She asked me what it was. I was terrified on the inside! As a stroke of amazing luck would have it, the hotel i did the session at was on the same street as a restaurant we had just visited a few weeks before. So i tlod her they were directions to the restraunt. She just threw the paper away and thought nothing else of it. Im just glad i didnt write the hotel name or the girls name on that piece of paper!

2. It used to be very important. My wife knows about my fetish, so i dont have to worry about keeping that a secret from her. As for other people, i dont go shouting it from the rooftops, but i dont really care if they find out about it. As mentioned in another post, our fetish is one of the less extreme and more accepted. If people did find out, i wouldnt be too upset. In fact, i wouldnt be at all surprised if my mother-in-law, and sister-in-law already know (my wife shares everything with them).

3. I dont really do much to protect my privacy. If we are going to have people staying at our house, i will hide my thumbdrive with my video library on it.
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1. Just recently i ran into an awkward and scary moment. My wife was out of town, so naturally i booked a scissor session with a girl. My wife knows about my scissor fetish, but she doesnt know i actually do sessions with other women. I had written down the directions to the hotel where i was doing the session. I usually write the directions down and then throw them away because i dont trust google maps to actually get rid of the address when i am done with it.
Well this time, i forgot to throw the paper with the directions on it away, and my wife found it! She asked me what it was. I was terrified on the inside! As a stroke of amazing luck would have it, the hotel i did the session at was on the same street as a restaurant we had just visited a few weeks before. So i tlod her they were directions to the restraunt. She just threw the paper away and thought nothing else of it. Im just glad i didnt write the hotel name or the girls name on that piece of paper!

2. It used to be very important. My wife knows about my fetish, so i dont have to worry about keeping that a secret from her. As for other people, i dont go shouting it from the rooftops, but i dont really care if they find out about it. As mentioned in another post, our fetish is one of the less extreme and more accepted. If people did find out, i wouldnt be too upset. In fact, i wouldnt be at all surprised if my mother-in-law, and sister-in-law already know (my wife shares everything with them).

3. I dont really do much to protect my privacy. If we are going to have people staying at our house, i will hide my thumbdrive with my video library on it.
Wow, #1 is amusing. You're lucky. Definitely awkward.
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1) Have you ever run into any awkward situations in this regard?
Nope

2) How important to you is it that people don't know you have this interest? Why?
Not too much. I am lucky enough that if it ever becomes public knowledge it would not affect me too much.

3) What do you do to protect your privacy?
I usually do not proactively talk about. I told about it to a few close people.
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1) Have you ever run into any awkward situations in this regard?
Luckily I have not had any awkward situations, yet

2) How important to you is it that people don't know you have this interest? Why?
It's very important to me but I have confided in a few women. A few years after my divorce I started up a friendship with 2 of her best friends. We started emailing each other and I confessed to each my fetish of wrestling and/or being dominated by a woman. Each one of them does not know I'm emailing with the other. Both woman did not think it was weird at all. I've written stories starring each one of them kicking my ass and they love it. I think they just like the idea of me thinking of them in a sexual way. Both live a couple of hundred miles away from me so we only email or talk by phone but have agreed if I got a hotel room they would help fulfill my fantasy.

3) What do you do to protect your privacy?
I have a re-loadable card I use for purchasing videos and I have had a couple of sessions with woman on wb270.com, I always use cash.
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