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Old 18-Jun-17, 18:25
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Default Kristen Hyman, Domina Nyx, fights for job as a cop after her videos are revealed

[Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register] She's got a hearing on the 27th June. I guess her wanting to become a cop explains her absence from the fetish scene.

I'm feeling an odd mix of stuff right now. Glad that she's found a more sustainable career. Gutted that it might be over so fast. And weirded-out by seeing two worlds collide—the wild world of fetish, and the public, straight-faced world of policing.

But I'm especially conflicted by her disavowal of fetish. She says she was just doing it to earn money and that it was "stupid stuff I did when I was a kid". It's pretty clear to me, though, that she intuitively understood and enjoyed it. On the other hand, she's clearly been trying to move away from the scene and has been inactive for some time.

Which makes me wonder about whether fetish really is something silly, something I should give up. Why would a woman act the dominant jerk? Why would a man act the passive wimp? Sure, fetish is a consuming ecstasy, a molotov cocktail of sexual excitement. But that doesn't mean it's good for you. I struggle enough with being an active and entrepreneurial leader without practicing being the opposite. I need to get shit done in the world. How's feeling like a sub going to help me?

And how has being a violent seductress helped Kristen? Sure, she'll have learnt a lot about people, about filming, acting, and so on. But is it good for someone to listen to their urges to brutalise people—even if it's sexual, even if the other person wants them to?

This might just be me. I generally have a really hard time dissociating pretence from reality. I gave up being an actor because I was really affected by the characters I played. But I'm guessing it affects everyone at some level.

I should also say that I'd distinguish between mixed wreslting where a guy's just enjoying scrapping with some hot girl, and mixed wrestling where he's enjoying being dominated by her. The former seems fair. The latter's what I've got beef with.

I didn't mean this to be a self-indulgent post. It seems like the whole story is about the relationship between the world of fantasy and fetish, and the world of public life.

What do you guys think? Does she mean it when she says fetish was some dumb kid stuff? If she does, is she right?
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Default Re: Kristen Hyman, Domina Nyx, fights for job as a cop after her videos are revealed

It's possible she does. However, I think it is more likely that she is saying that as a defense.

The whole controversy is stupid, though. It's punishing a woman for making money doing something which isn't illegal, and preventing her from moving on from it. It's tone-deaf morality-policing.
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Default Re: Kristen Hyman, Domina Nyx, fights for job as a cop after her videos are revealed

She is saying that it is "stupid" because of this:

On the same website, Hyman is described as "a true sexual sadist who hurts people not because she has to, but because it truly brings her pleasure."

She is trying to distance herself from that as some people might think that she actually enjoys inflicting pain on men and degrading them which would obviously be problematic given that she is a cop. Some people are just very afraid of an idea that a cop would abuse his or her authority. I guess many men who don't have this fetish would be actually very terrified and intimidated by such woman arresting them and having them at her mercy. It's totally understandable that she needs to distance herself from that as far as possible in the public. Who knows how she really feels about it. In fact she said that she is not embarrassed.
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It's possible she does. However, I think it is more likely that she is saying that as a defense.

The whole controversy is stupid, though. It's punishing a woman for making money doing something which isn't illegal, and preventing her from moving on from it. It's tone-deaf morality-policing.
Right. I'm not sure if it would've been as much of an issue in Europe, but in the US they get excited about this sort of thing. I mean, I think it would sink a European politician. But not a sheriff-level cop. Except in England, where ball-busting videos are illegal.
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She is saying that it is "stupid" because of this:

On the same website, Hyman is described as "a true sexual sadist who hurts people not because she has to, but because it truly brings her pleasure."

She is trying to distance herself from that as some people might think that she actually enjoys inflicting pain on men and degrading them which would obviously be problematic given that she is a cop. Some people are just very afraid of an idea that a cop would abuse his or her authority. I guess many men who don't have this fetish would be actually very terrified and intimidated by such woman arresting them and having them at her mercy. It's totally understandable that she needs to distance herself from that as far as possible in the public. Who knows how she really feels about it. In fact she said that she is not embarrassed.
Ah, now that is a valid concern.
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Default Re: Kristen Hyman, Domina Nyx, fights for job as a cop after her videos are revealed

Yeah damn I hadn't connected those dots until he said it. It makes her sound as if she'd be turned on by police brutality. Yikes.
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Default Re: Kristen Hyman, Domina Nyx, fights for job as a cop after her videos are revealed

Basically what furrygrappler II said.

This is a prime example of bigotry. Hope the case is dropped and she continues pursuing her goals. However, can't help but feel frustrated at the case, at the fact that these things are made public, possibly altering her life in a negative way.
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Default Re: Kristen Hyman, Domina Nyx, fights for job as a cop after her videos are revealed

Reminds me of the case of an NYPD officer who posed for Playboy in the 90s, with prior permission, but eventually was terminated anyways.

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Hopefully she can keep her job, but the dept. may be worried about the ramifications in any future police brutality case.

I recall France Hudon did a fairly thorough job of removing most traces of her videos and session career from the internet when she joined the Canadian police force, no controversy for her AFAIK.

Wasn't Domina Nyx involved with the shefights business in some way? I seem to recall her feuding on the yahoo groups with some guy that was associated with them. She may have been on one or more of their videos too. According to google, there's a video with her and Mikaela by shefights, "Beating Up The Wimpy Guy"
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Default Re: Kristen Hyman, Domina Nyx, fights for job as a cop after her videos are revealed

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Basically what furrygrappler II said.

This is a prime example of bigotry. Hope the case is dropped and she continues pursuing her goals. However, can't help but feel frustrated at the case, at the fact that these things are made public, possibly altering her life in a negative way.
Revealing her dominatrix name and posting stills and images from her videos was definitely too much and totally unnecessary! It was done just to humiliate her. They could have just said that she made some videos and that would be enough. But now anyone who will Google her name will see those images instantly.

If some girl is exposed as participating in regular porn they don't post the videos of what she did on the news sites. Yet here they decided to really stick a lot of her material when she participated in femdom acts to the news. If they think that this is really so bad, why are they posting these images in the news then!?

Obviously the entire story in itself is stupid but I also don't like how media is covering this.

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Default Re: Kristen Hyman, Domina Nyx, fights for job as a cop after her videos are revealed

I hate to compare this to strippers but I will. At the end of the day, it's about money pure and simple. They have separate lives outside of our fetish world. So of course she thinks it's kid stuff. We men are gullible enough to give her money to do an act that 99% of the time does not turn
her or sexually arouses her or other women in this industry. It's fantasy and then sometimes you have to wake up to that harsh reality that the hundreds of dollars you're given in the end means nothing as you are a dime a dozen.
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