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Old 14-Dec-16, 11:25
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Default Re: Is A Session Girl a "Home Wrecker?"

Most interesting thread! My two cents:

- If any of you have ever met Jennifer Thomas, she is simply a lovely lady and a very decent human being. She is not the kind of person that would ever have a malicious intent, and anyone referring to her as a "home wrecker" has basically made a false assumption.

- We live in a modern society which lacks the concept of responsibility for our own actions. If you decide to session wrestle, and your girlfriend or wife finds out you are doing it on the sly, well that has nothing to do with the session wrestler. If the Wheels come off, it's most likely that your relationship was already in the toilet. The session wrestler did not seek YOU out for a session. It was your choice, so be aware of the consequences.

- I think a good question to ask yourself is this: If my GF or wife wanted to go wrestle some guy that was very attractive, had a great physique, was fun to chat with and be around, and charged a fee to do so, well, would I be ok with that? Some of us would think "No way!!!", while others would think "Cool! Can I come along and bring a video camera!!!" The answer is different for all of us, and I would venture to say that there is no correct answer.

Just my thoughts, which may not be of great value. However, next week I will discuss my views of the Flat Earth Society...
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Old 14-Dec-16, 11:57
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Default Re: Is A Session Girl a "Home Wrecker?"

It's cheating..... Dress it up however you want, but it is.

Some call Emotional Affairs, where you may only talk or email a person of the opposite sex, watching porn or going on these sites, cheating too.

Everyone will rationalize and draw a line in the sand. A married man who physically meets and has sessions to get off is cheating.

I don't blame Jennifer (or any sessioner where there is no sex) though..... A very fine line.
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Old 14-Dec-16, 13:56
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Default Re: Is A Session Girl a "Home Wrecker?"

Just think that you are in a relationship with a woman that really hates tattoo's, and you really love them and secretly decide to get a small tattoo without telling your wife. Then of course she finds out and brakes the relationship. Do you blame the guy that set the tattoo?

Jennifer is not offering wrestling especially to men in relationships, they are just a part of her clientele. Just as single men are. Or men with a relationship where the wife is aware and aproves of the session. And I'm guessing a lot of men also will not tell her their relationship status. She just provides a service, like a tattoo-setter, and it is up to men using it to do it wisely.

Yes, of course wrestling is a little different because it has a sexual component so that you could consider it cheating, but not in a traditional way. Not every women is able to do what Jennifer does, she is fulfilling a very specific fetish.

If you are in a relationship where you love your wife, but she does not understand and/or does not like this fetish, fulfilling this fetish with Jennifer might in some cases actually save the relationship.

And yes, it could also destroy a relationship. It will be different for everybody. And that also makes it in my opinion the sole responsibility of the men.

By the way, I never did wrestling sessions when I was in a relationship. I like wrestling a lot, but would never jeopardize a relationship over it. And just think it shows little respect for my girlfriend. My parents divorced after my father cheated on my mother and she found out about it. Still I am not judging other men who do likewise.
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Old 15-Dec-16, 11:14
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Just think that you are in a relationship with a woman that really hates tattoo's, and you really love them and secretly decide to get a small tattoo without telling your wife. Then of course she finds out and brakes the relationship. Do you blame the guy that set the tattoo?

Jennifer is not offering wrestling especially to men in relationships, they are just a part of her clientele. Just as single men are. Or men with a relationship where the wife is aware and aproves of the session. And I'm guessing a lot of men also will not tell her their relationship status. She just provides a service, like a tattoo-setter, and it is up to men using it to do it wisely.

Yes, of course wrestling is a little different because it has a sexual component so that you could consider it cheating, but not in a traditional way. Not every women is able to do what Jennifer does, she is fulfilling a very specific fetish.

If you are in a relationship where you love your wife, but she does not understand and/or does not like this fetish, fulfilling this fetish with Jennifer might in some cases actually save the relationship.

And yes, it could also destroy a relationship. It will be different for everybody. And that also makes it in my opinion the sole responsibility of the men.

By the way, I never did wrestling sessions when I was in a relationship. I like wrestling a lot, but would never jeopardize a relationship over it. And just think it shows little respect for my girlfriend. My parents divorced after my father cheated on my mother and she found out about it. Still I am not judging other men who do likewise.
It is a fetish & it is sexual. Even I figured that out pretty quickly. I ask my wife to wrestle me all the time (without luck) and she too figured out it wasn't for the cardio (neither is the reason I want sex either btw).

I think skin to skin contact is a real simple tipping point to make a call on it.

Don't blame Jennifer, but she knows exactly what it is and why people pay her.

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I ask my wife to wrestle me all the time (without luck)
You should change your wife.
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You should change your wife.
After 20+ years with a woman who thought this interest "disgusting", I finally did just that. Happy now!
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Most interesting thread! My two cents:

- If any of you have ever met Jennifer Thomas, she is simply a lovely lady and a very decent human being. She is not the kind of person that would ever have a malicious intent, and anyone referring to her as a "home wrecker" has basically made a false assumption.

- We live in a modern society which lacks the concept of responsibility for our own actions. If you decide to session wrestle, and your girlfriend or wife finds out you are doing it on the sly, well that has nothing to do with the session wrestler. If the Wheels come off, it's most likely that your relationship was already in the toilet. The session wrestler did not seek YOU out for a session. It was your choice, so be aware of the consequences.

- I think a good question to ask yourself is this: If my GF or wife wanted to go wrestle some guy that was very attractive, had a great physique, was fun to chat with and be around, and charged a fee to do so, well, would I be ok with that? Some of us would think "No way!!!", while others would think "Cool! Can I come along and bring a video camera!!!" The answer is different for all of us, and I would venture to say that there is no correct answer.

Just my thoughts, which may not be of great value. However, next week I will discuss my views of the Flat Earth Society...
Second last phrase made me laugh haha. Anyway great post, that's what I think also.

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After 20+ years with a woman who thought this interest "disgusting", I finally did just that. Happy now!
20 years and your wife tought that word about wrestling? Wow! I'm happy for you now...
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Actually she is a second degree karate blackbelt, a personal trainer and fights dirty. Probably a good thing we don't......

She stopped and really did not like when they grappled in class.
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Most men who do sessions can't tell their wives/girlfriends about their desire to be dominated.
They are meeting me privately in a private location. ( usually hotel room)
Even thou there are no sexual acts taking place, most wives would Not
Believe this if they were to find out about the session.

I would hate to think that I am responsible for breaking up a marriage/relationship.

We are both innocent ... even thou we
look "guilty"
You are by no means a home wrecker. In many cases, you are actually helping married men with their relationships. For the majority of men on this site, myself included, this fetish is just as much of a desire or a need as sex. And if men (or women for that matter) are not having their needs met, the relationship is doomed to fail.

In my case, my wife knows about my desire to wrestle, and chooses not to fulfill that desire. So that leaves me with 3 options. Number one, suck it up and live a resentful, scissorless life. Number two, leave her for a woman who will fulfill my desires. Or number three, have my desires fulfilled by a paid professional. Of those three, the third option seems to be the best. And that is where you come in! So the way i see it, you are helping relationships, not hurting them.
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