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Old 03-Jun-18, 21:33
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For this particular experience, i am curious to peoples opinions on what happened, there are some questions at the end. This happened a few years ago. My bf and I met up with another couple to do an arranged cat fight with the female. I think that's the term that's used, but it was more wrestling, but with a twist we used handcuffs, so to win the fight I had to basically pin the other girl down and cuff her arms behind her back.

I had never done this sort of thing before, meeting someone for this sort of thing, the other couple had but not us. I have wrestled before, playfought and used handcuffs etc, and practiced a bit with the bf, so she kind of though she was going to beat me easily.

The other couple were also a lot older, they were mid 30s!

We started the fight, she was a lot more aggressive etc, but she was out of breath after a few minutes so it was only a matter of time, just kind of kept her occupied until I could get her down, and then cuffed her up.

This is kind of when it started!

Before the fight we agreed that the winner could keep the loser handcuffed for up to ten minutes, but when I had her cuffed she demanded I unlocked her straight away, but I said no, I am going to have my ten mins. She then started getting all stressy at me saying I had no right to keep her handcuffed, I again reiterated the 10 minute rule we agreed previously.

Before we met them my bf asked me if I won to do some poses on her, nothing extreme, put my knee lightly on her back whilst flexing my arms or putting my hand in air, and putting my foot on her head, so I did that for him.

Then she started to have a right tantrum, struggling and shouting at me, when I asked her to calm down and why she was shouting at me, she shouted that I was humiliating her in front of her husband and my bf. Then it occurred, that maybe I am, and I was kind of getting a thrill from being in control of a woman much older, with people watching.

I thought my next bit was being nice, I said if you say "kat you have beaten me, please let me out" ill let you out straight away, she started kicking off again, said I am not begging anyone.

This continued until the ten minutes were up, and at that point I did not genuinely feel safe or comfortable unlocking the handcuffs for her, she was still shouting, still struggling. I explained this to her calmly, I was not trying to wind her up or anything, I was calm and explained why, and she got even madder, so much so I had to put my knee on her briefly to stop her trying to get to her feet. A couple of further minutes of arguing and her husband even trying to tell her to chill out, I was getting mad now, I said firmly to her that I aint unlocking the cuffs until you calm down, simple. And then added I want an apology and you to say please or you stay handcuffed. Her husband then said I was being a little patronising and wasn't really fair. She said I am not begging anyone young enough to be my daughter (don't think am quite that young, or her quite that old lol). I said then to the both of them I have the keys and I am sitting on the sofa until she learns some respect.

After a further 5 minutes of her shouting, saying I was a bitch, humiliating her etc she started to calm down, then apologised and said please let me out. I was going to say, I didn't hear you, but didn't want to be back to square one again, and just got up and unlocked them.

Now I am kind of new to all this, but I was wondering what other people thought of this?

Did I humiliate her?
Did I do right sticking to my 10 mins?
Was I ok with the pose?
Was I right to keep the handcuffs on until she calmed down?

Any other observations or comments?
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Old 03-Jun-18, 23:22
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Fucking awesome.
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Also yes to all four question from me. So, clearly she was fine with the post catfight humiliation if she won but losing to you made it a completely different situation for her. I think that is arrogant, selfish, childish and presumtuous all at the same time. I think you handled the situation just right and my only hope is that you didn't see her or her husband again.
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Yes to all questions
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Seems fake, just saying
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well thanx for that, i mean all these stories/experiences and you have chose mine as fake? Well i really dont have the imagination for it, and if i had i would write a book, by hey, thanx for the compliment
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I agree with you 100%. Both of you agree to the rules prior to wrestling. She was just a sore loser.

BTW: I would love to lose a match like that and be humiliated in front of others. Keep up the good work.
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You did the right thing if you're the protagonist in a porn story but not if you're a person who cares about other's psychological well-being. Sometimes someone can agree to something, and then find out that when they're put in the situation, that it's frightening and upsetting and not in the way they thought it would be. Being bound and controlled like that can be very exciting and erotic, but it can also bring up some really bad/repressed memories or be extremely traumatic, especially when the person that does it keeps antagonizing you over it. Which, even if you say you weren't, you were. Demanding an apology from someone you have handcuffed IS antagonizing them.

Yeah, she may have been being a poor sport, but you can never know how you'll react to a situation and she may have agreed thinking it would be okay. Or maybe she was just a jerk. But in my mind, 'Being a poor sport' is not as big a problem as continuing to play out a scene with someone who wants to stop. Unless you'd agreed to a safeword and she didn't use it (in which case she was just going along with it too) it sounds like she wanted out.

Probably wouldn't want to wrestle her again if she wouldn't go along with the terms, but still.
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My suggestion also would involve proper use of a safe word. Keeping someone in handcuffs against their will could be construed as unlawful imprisonment or something like that.
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Default Re: Accidental humiliation

Im sorry...really no need to try and force the "this really happened" component...youve posted this exact same story on another site....but written from your "boyfriend's" perspective. It's a Fiction site...no harm in just admitting it IS fiction!
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