Adjusting, unhealthy situation

[theneway]

nvm

[revanyo]

I am sort of that way. I have a pretty big foot fetish and like girls but for some reason am not crazy for seeing woman's vaginas. In some adult movies if its is just some girl masturbating I wont stay to finish the video. I dont see there being a problem with this just in the same way most woman are not thrilled to sit and watch a man jerk off. It is only the real sex addicted/ very disentisized people who do that.

[Royh]

Why should YOU Change ?!? You should love and accept yourself the way you are, and then , you WILL find someone that accepts you the way you are, and share your love and interest. I bet there is at least one, most certainly more, woman that loves to wrestle and kick your ass. Find her and be peaceful with yourself.

[salmon2o]

I agree with not changing who you are and what you like so that you can fit in to a conventional relationship, as i dont think anyone would be very happy trying to do that. I have had the thought to try and do it myself. I have been having similar issues and am currently in a relationship. I have watched a lot of porn for as long as i can remember, mostly mixed and female wrestling, and i do think the amount of porn i was watching was keeping me from being happy in a relationship. I think this is a good topic and will try to elaborate more later when not typing from my phone.

[freestylefan]

I doubt that mixed and female wrestling, per se, would qualify as porn.
A definition of porn might include exhibition of genitalia, and explicity sexual acts.

[cubsfan4life68]

Originally Posted by salmon2o [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

I agree with not changing who you are and what you like so that you can fit in to a conventional relationship, as i dont think anyone would be very happy trying to do that. I have had the thought to try and do it myself. I have been having similar issues and am currently in a relationship. I have watched a lot of porn for as long as i can remember, mostly mixed and female wrestling, and i do think the amount of porn i was watching was keeping me from being happy in a relationship. I think this is a good topic and will try to elaborate more later when not typing from my phone.

Really great advice here. The OP essentially says he is no longer satisfied by conventional sex, cannot relate to women in a healthy way and is even inventing ways to piss them off trying to get the reaction out of them that will satisfy his fetish ( which is a long shot at best ) and you don't think he should change a thing?

Wonder how many in the mental health profession would agree with you?

[salmon2o]

Originally Posted by freestylefan [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

I doubt that mixed and female wrestling, per se, would qualify as porn.
A definition of porn might include exhibition of genitalia, and explicity sexual acts.

I don't think the amount of graphic material in what I was watching has as much to do with my issue as the relationship I had with the material. When I did become sexually active, I still preferred to masturbate to videos. It was much more care free. I didn't have to worry about doing something wrong and if I got bored I could just switch videos.

I had never even told anyone else about my wrestling fetish until my current girlfriend. I was hardly able to talk about it, probably because it was something that I had kept hidden for my entire life. Even when we wrestled and she gave me orgasm, I still preferred videos and masturbation.

I tried to stop watching porn all together in April. I haven't stopped completely and on occasion have fallen into some pretty good binges. Now instead of watching videos and masturbating every day I now go every few days or sometimes weeks. I really believe this has helped me be able to connect with this girl in a more meaningful and enjoyable way.

Originally Posted by theneway [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

I don't care for how my penis feels inside a vagina while thrusting. In fact, I feel an overload of pleasure inside of a vagina and I can't stand it. It's the same feeling I have when I need to urinate very badly. And I don't know why I don't enjoy it.

I am not sure that I understand this part... You feel too much sensation inside of a vagina?

[theneway]

nvm