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Old 29-Sep-17, 20:04
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Unhappy Has a Session Wrestler ever gotten too Attached/Clingy with you?

I have had sessions with many ladies. I am lucky to have had them do several favors for me, to bend the rules, or to allow more intimate body worship. Some of them were strictly business only, and we never got into contact again. These women were those who i have sessioned with once, and we moved on.

Other ladies, I have noticed some form of dependency or attachment, especially if they were repeat sessions. One person in particular keeps on sending me messages every few days asking for a session, even though I have informed her that I am no longer interested in having one with her and good luck in her future endeavors. Not a bad person, but too clingy for me.

Another used to blow up my phone with pictures, kept asking who i have sessioned with and tried to become controlling over that aspect.

For the sake of discretion, I won’t reveal their names and potentially hurt their business. I will say that these are popular session wrestlers within the industry, and who are still in the business. As for the question, has a session wrestler or dominatrix ever become too attached or clingy? Where they may keep expecting you for a session, become angry if they find out you session with other women, or they develop a more longing desire for you?

On the opposite end of the spectrum, has the opposite happened to you where you became too attached to a session wrestler or dominatrix?

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Old 29-Sep-17, 22:16
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Default Re: Has a Session Wrestler ever gotten too Attached/Clingy with you?

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For the sake of discretion, I won’t reveal their names and potentially hurt their business. I will say that these are popular session wrestlers within the industry, and who are still in the business
I think it's polite to not mention those ladies' names, but maybe you should leave it at that. By saying they are popular session wrestlers and still active, it kinda incriminates quite a few innocent girls rather than the culprits. Just a thought...
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Old 29-Sep-17, 22:47
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We don't have a lot of session wrestlers in my town, so I had a few sessions with dommes. And yes, I did get a couple that kept texting me every week (literally) so that we schedule another session. I didn't want to be rude and tell them that we had a pretty expensive session a few days ago, so I kept on saying that we'll do a session "in a few months" as I'm really "busy with work". Some sadly still didn't get the subtle and polite memo so I blocked their numbers.

I don't know how many clients they have, but to me, it comes off as a bit desperate for money (they might be having slow days or just need money).
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Default Re: Has a Session Wrestler ever gotten too Attached/Clingy with you?

Has a session wrestler ever gotten too clingy with me? No. Have I gotten too clingy with the occasional session wrestler? Yes. But then, I'm not a 10, I'm more of a 5 maybe a 6 on a good day and not rich, so I've never been a devil with the ladies. I did manage to get the occasional session wrestler/dom to go out with me, but especially when I was younger I couldn't help but be clingy. I wanted the fetish a bit too much.
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When I've gotten to see a few that I was videoing with in the past, when they came to the area we ended up being pretty exclusive (as in whenever she was doing shooting for the company, we got together).But not once did they ever get "clingy". I can't think of any that weren't absolute dolls, so I would have been flattered had. One, years after we had stopped sessioning and ended up getting together about 5 or so years later I told that I had a crush on her when we always saw each other and she said she never realized and wish she had known. Another one we really got along with great and went out a few times when she was in town and I would have loved for us to have stayed together...I mean, what wasn't to like...it seemed that she liked doing the the thing to me that is my favorite position possible as much as I did! That isn't easy to find!
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Default Re: Has a Session Wrestler ever gotten too Attached/Clingy with you?

I have heard of this happening, repeated text/email session requests from her end etc, but fortunately I've never had this from ladies I've met. I have gotten notes about future sessions, but they were personal and clearly not done off a contact list - which I would find offputting if that were the case. So what's left is not wanting to be contacted for privacy reasons, which I can understand but have made sure I don't need to worry about myself.
From the other side, I've never asked a session wrestler on a date. I've been invited and accepted but I think that's very different for purposes of the topic. I've never knocked on a door without having agreement for me to be there, never followed anyone I had met before on the street etc. Even ladies I've seen more than a handful of times haven't preoccupied me like that. I suppose all of that's the boring answer but luckily I've been able to keep things separated in my head that way.
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I have not had this happen and I've sessioned with a lot of people at this point. Being notified they were visiting before they put the dates on wb270/SG is about it. I'm OK with that.
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I have had sessions with many ladies. I am lucky to have had them do several favors for me, to bend the rules, or to allow more intimate body worship. Some of them were strictly business only, and we never got into contact again. These women were those who i have sessioned with once, and we moved on.

Other ladies, I have noticed some form of dependency or attachment, especially if they were repeat sessions. One person in particular keeps on sending me messages every few days asking for a session, even though I have informed her that I am no longer interested in having one with her and good luck in her future endeavors. Not a bad person, but too clingy for me.

Another used to blow up my phone with pictures, kept asking who i have sessioned with and tried to become controlling over that aspect.

For the sake of discretion, I won’t reveal their names and potentially hurt their business. I will say that these are popular session wrestlers within the industry, and who are still in the business. As for the question, has a session wrestler or dominatrix ever become too attached or clingy? Where they may keep expecting you for a session, become angry if they find out you session with other women, or they develop a more longing desire for you?

On the opposite end of the spectrum, has the opposite happened to you where you became too attached to a session wrestler or dominatrix?
You can direct the woman to me
I always hoped this would happen one day

But I am more in a situation like LicensetoKill described it in his post.
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Default Re: Has a Session Wrestler ever gotten too Attached/Clingy with you?

For many session girls, traveling to other cities is one of the highest risk things they do, both cost wise and safety wise. They generally will try to have a good 3-4 guys in each city they can rely on to cover their costs and make a bit on top. If you have any session girls blowing you up take it as a huge compliment. It means you pay well, you are trustworthy and most of all you are fun to session with. Believe me if they hated sessioning with you, you'd hear crickets from them.

At the end of the day this is many girls only form of income so yes it may come across a little desperate at times, but when you have rent to pay and you;re $400 away, sometimes you need to put your feelers out to any regular streams of income which means reaching out to session guys.
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You can direct the woman to me
I always hoped this would happen one day

But I am more in a situation like LicensetoKill described it in his post.
well i can't promise that after a session you'll have a girl fall head over heels or e-mail you every day

but i do think that repeat sessions can increase the chance of them having some form of attachment to you, or being more close with you and interested in you. from my personal experience alone, the first session isn't that great in terms of knowing how someone truly is. the woman might be too afraid of doing certain stuff, she might be hesitant of talking about certain subjects, and she doesn't know if she'll really see you again or not. they might also put on a bigger act, even if they may not like you. it's a job and if she shows visible disinterest, then that could lead to a bad review. if you have like a 1 hour session with a woman, and then she has another client immediately after that and you don't or she doesn't make any attempt for future contact, she'll probably forget about you unless you made a really good impression. Exceptions to everything exists, but these are just from my own experience.


what comes after is anyone's guess if you continue the repeat sessions route. you might see more real aspects of their personality and realize that you two can't even talk much, leading to awkward silence. or you can see them getting angry with you or frustrated.

on the positive side, they might have more trust in you. you may get away with more intimate touching. she might be willing to try out new things, or share more personal info about herself. if you two can have decent conversations in future sessions, then it's likely genuine and not solely based on an act. possibility she'll put you as a priority for sessions over potential new people. the good women i've sessioned multiple times with(who were not clingy) have made some extra sacrifices in order to pick a schedule or location to session with me in. even at the cost of their own expenses. these were women who were willing to work with me, and they had a more level attitude. they showed that they wanted to continue to session with me and enjoyed it, while not acting in a way that was needy.


as long as you are reliable, respectful, not clingy etc then they will have some form of respect for you. which means they can potentially rely on you or bend their rules to satisfy you.YMMV

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