(Grappling) Finally lost to a woman, suddenly hate it!? Fetish & Reality?

[scissorgasm]

I guess it's only hot in theory

[LicensetoKill]

Originally Posted by scissorgasm [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

I guess it's only hot in theory

It depends. I've lost and found it hot, but it kind of has to be, kind of, playful and respectful, if that makes sense. Also, guys are different, what one finds hot another might not.

[grjagrja]

Yea ya got to be careful what ya wish for on this topic. Losing a truly competitive match to a girl is tough to deal with. Ive been there.

[StudCrusher]

This is why I prefer the overly sexualised kind of dominations, too much realism and all I can really do is feel bad for the guy

[rennurliart]

I guess this is why I fantasize about the perfectly even 50-50 match. No winner or looser, call it a draw and start fucking.

[desertgoodguy]

Agree 100%

[pericles77]

having been a guy who has lost to girls in arm wrestling twice I know the humiliation you have gone through. For my case the second time she was good looking and had a big smile on her face when my arm went down adding insult to injury she said to me are you afraid you just got beat by a girl, she could tell how humiliated I was. She then shook my hand in a sportmanslike way to try to make me fell better but the damage was done. I think we make a fetish out of it as a way to recover from the humilation pain that we felt being beat by girls. That's why this site is helpful

[Raoul Fulgurex]

Originally Posted by pericles77 [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

I think we make a fetish out of it as a way to recover from the humilation pain that we felt being beat by girls.

I don't think so. I am sure that many people here can recall having had that fetish long before actually wrestling - let alone losing to - a girl.

I think we are just full of conflicting desires and contradictions. So we can enjoy very much losing to a woman, or we can also feel very degraded by it. Or even, we can enjoy and feel bad at the same time. What we make of it and how we remember it is often a fruit of post-fact rationalization.

Bottom line...don't sweat it. The feeling will pass. Women beat men in all kinds of things. It doesn't take anything away from your manhood. The quicker you can let it go the easier it is to just "roll' with it. Besides, if it's any consolation, you got beat in a sparring match under controlled circumstances...not a REAL fight.

[MonkeyFreed]

I got beat up by my girlfriend... And I adore it. So, not true.