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Old 07-Nov-16, 10:35
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Default Relationship after losing

Just wanted to hear what everyone thinks. After losing a real wrestling match with a GF or any girl especially by a headscissor or schoolgirl pin did your relationship with that person change at all? Did anyone lose a gf from it. Some girls don't want to be with a guy they can beat up. Just wondering because my relationship really changed the power of our house the day my gf first beat me with a hands above my head schoolgirl pin which she then transferred to a very tight front scissor. I definitely tried to beat her and she could tell I did. Maybe that's why she has this confidence over me I don't know. Just would like to hear some opinions.
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Old 07-Nov-16, 13:58
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Really depends on the individuals.........It's true that a girl will normally lose respect for a guy she can handle physically but some girls wouldn't have it any other way. I was in a relationship for nearly five years with a girl who was without question physically superior and took full advantage on a daily basis........There was never any question about who was in charge but that can also be very difficult for a guy to handle so ultimately many of those relationships fail.
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My wife and I have been wrestling for over 5 years now, and she ha gotten quite good at it, ad as she has gotten better, she has made the matches more equal and wins a good part of the time.

I think it has enhanced our relationship. When we first started, she knew I could take her pretty easily, and that spurred her on to want to get better and better at wrestling

Actually it has helped me to appreciate her more as an athlete as well.

She will not beat me in golf or basketball, but she gives me a run for my money on wrestling.

For us its not about winning or loosing, its all about the experience which we both enjoy, and it definately has enhanced our sex life as well

So no, no negative effects here
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Old 07-Nov-16, 16:56
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My wife and I have been wrestling for over 5 years now, and she ha gotten quite good at it, ad as she has gotten better, she has made the matches more equal and wins a good part of the time.

I think it has enhanced our relationship. When we first started, she knew I could take her pretty easily, and that spurred her on to want to get better and better at wrestling

Actually it has helped me to appreciate her more as an athlete as well.

She will not beat me in golf or basketball, but she gives me a run for my money on wrestling.

For us its not about winning or loosing, its all about the experience which we both enjoy, and it definately has enhanced our sex life as well

So no, no negative effects here
You are a lucky man!
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Old 07-Nov-16, 17:17
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Yes I am lucky, and sometimes very sore lolol
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Default Re: Relationship after losing

My gf regularly owns me - she is getting really strong and although i dont fight back so hard if i was to actually try i think she could poss take me on the ground these days.

That said she knows full well if it came down to it and it was an actual fight she would have no chance. So its not the best case.. She does enjoy the supremacy when she is unloading on me so possibly she would get enough from that to be fulfilled in the relationship
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Not really sure why so many guys on this forum are so hug up loosing to a fit female in a match
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Not really sure why so many guys on this forum are so hug up loosing to a fit female in a match
I don't think anyone is hung up on losing to a fit female. In fact, I'm positive the vast majority of guys here would love to have a wife or girlfriend that could legitimately beat them in a match. What we are afraid of is losing a relationship due to our fetish. Especially when dating gurus say things like "the moment a woman assumes the masculine role, it becomes a 1 way street to the friend zone."
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I don't think anyone is hung up on losing to a fit female. In fact, I'm positive the vast majority of guys here would love to have a wife or girlfriend that could legitimately beat them in a match. What we are afraid of is losing a relationship due to our fetish. Especially when dating gurus say things like "the moment a woman assumes the masculine role, it becomes a 1 way street to the friend zone."
I can truly say I am worried about this happening. The fact is my gf is just superior to me when it comes to fighting. She's not a big girl at all and ever since the day the put me down likes just seem different. Trust me I've tried to beat her again to save any power in the house I have. But every time I end up between her legs tapping out. The part that scares me is she never once laughs. She's very serious and I think it's because she can see the fear in my face. If she was going to leave me I feel like she would have by now though. If you guys want to see a pic of her I will post without showing her face.
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I don't think anyone is hung up on losing to a fit female. In fact, I'm positive the vast majority of guys here would love to have a wife or girlfriend that could legitimately beat them in a match. What we are afraid of is losing a relationship due to our fetish. Especially when dating gurus say things like "the moment a woman assumes the masculine role, it becomes a 1 way street to the friend zone."
Kinda interesting to e your viewpoint

Wrestling is maybe 5% of our entire relationship, the other 95% is just like any other normal relationship

I dont view my wife as having taken the "masculine role" at all, the way we look at it its like watching a porno movie with your wife

Its all about the sexual fantasy, not role reversal
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