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Old 30-Sep-17, 18:03
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Default Re: Has a Session Wrestler ever gotten too Attached/Clingy with you?

I have never had this problem. I tell the girl as soon as we make contact via email not to text or call me unless they are responding to my text. i am married, so a text or call from another woman my wife doesnt know, would be bad news!
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Perhaps the best situation is when both have good chemistry within and outside the the session. in my case, the two people i mentioned in the op never had a lot in common with me. not only in personality, but lack of decent technique for the moves I requested.

While someone who i may have a lot of repeat sessions and better chemistry with would be more understanding and do what they can to work with me. some of the best women i have constantly sessioned with were those who were good at doing what they provided while having a level head and knowing that a session in the next week or so probably isn't realistic.

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I have had sessions with many ladies. I am lucky to have had them do several favors for me, to bend the rules, or to allow more intimate body worship. Some of them were strictly business only, and we never got into contact again. These women were those who i have sessioned with once, and we moved on.

Other ladies, I have noticed some form of dependency or attachment, especially if they were repeat sessions. One person in particular keeps on sending me messages every few days asking for a session, even though I have informed her that I am no longer interested in having one with her and good luck in her future endeavors. Not a bad person, but too clingy for me.

Another used to blow up my phone with pictures, kept asking who i have sessioned with and tried to become controlling over that aspect.

For the sake of discretion, I won’t reveal their names and potentially hurt their business. I will say that these are popular session wrestlers within the industry, and who are still in the business. As for the question, has a session wrestler or dominatrix ever become too attached or clingy? Where they may keep expecting you for a session, become angry if they find out you session with other women, or they develop a more longing desire for you?

On the opposite end of the spectrum, has the opposite happened to you where you became too attached to a session wrestler or dominatrix?
It might not be a matter of "desire" per se. I do some freelance work (not as a wrestler,) and I admit to being tempted to hitting up regular customers for more business. I don't, because, yeah, I feel that looks bad, but the temptation is there.

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It might not be a matter of "desire" per se. I do some freelance work (not as a wrestler,) and I admit to being tempted to hitting up regular customers for more business. I don't, because, yeah, I feel that looks bad, but the temptation is there.
I think you canīt really compare the session work with some "classic" work, sessions especially with repeat customers are somthing much more personal.
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Problem with dating a session wrestler is pretty simple. Most women would probably not want to date someone they session wrestle with because 9 out of 10 times, that guy has probably wrestled other women or want to wrestle other women in the future. That's why most of the relationship these women have are with men who are not even into wrestling to begin with.
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I think you canīt really compare the session work with some "classic" work, sessions especially with repeat customers are somthing much more personal.
You know nothing of my work. It's a closer fit than you think.
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Problem with dating a session wrestler is pretty simple. Most women would probably not want to date someone they session wrestle with because 9 out of 10 times, that guy has probably wrestled other women or want to wrestle other women in the future. That's why most of the relationship these women have are with men who are not even into wrestling to begin with.
There are much more reasons why a session wrestler might not date someone they "wrestle", and that's because she might also have no physical attraction towards him. they may have nothing in common. She might live too far away, or she might have an already established family or a relationship that she does not want to ruin.

Even if you take into account someone who isn't a client or part of the scene(producer), it's not perfect either. As the possibilities exist of the guy getting critical of the womans work , bashing it, or leaving them in paranoia that the woman is potentially doing sexual acts with the guys who are paying money to see her. In this society alone(US) a lot of men get angry at the idea that their partner is talking to a male "friend" or having a guy converse constantly with her on social media. Our society tends to push onto this idea of going to college, getting a degree, finding work, finding a long time partner, marriage, kids, etc.

Men who are into fetish wrestling are a niche. and for every guy who trusts his GF or wife, there are plenty of others who hate the idea of another guy being face sat or scissored but them. You have guys who want their partner to have a 9-5 regular job and to be with only them.

Thinking more about it dating an actual session wrestler or having a long term relationship can have some complications, depending on your perspective. A lot of session women

*Travel to different locations. depending on the type of BF they have, the guy can accept it and be cool with it, or be extremely angry at it, and even insecure

*See different types of men. ugly, fat, old, smelly , young, good looking.

*have to have some trust in the guys they session with .something personal can slip through the mouth and she has to have some trust to make sure you don't reveal it on this website or others. if they take pictures or videos it can be even worse! a guy can post a video of his entire session on the web, even though she specified not share it with other people.

*sometimes have to take a chance and risk something more sexual. either due to the fact that they develop some form of intimacy for the guy, and/or to potentially get more money and hope to god the guy keeps it between them alone. and if that sexual thing is specifically revealed or if the BF finds out, then it can lead to things becoming much more complicated and the guy potentially leaving.

*have to deal with potential injuries or even dangers or stalkers. because joe fingle didn't realize that perhaps he shouldn't actively try to hurt a girl or do anything outside of the session agreements. point is, injuries can happen in this line of work, and this can certainly present an issue with the the relationship as a whole and add onto the pressure to quit this line of work. and with stalkers, there are some dangerous creeps out there who could find out their real names, where they live, etc.some guys may still stick, and others may leave as the pressure and complications can be too great to deal with for them.

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Don't Catch Feelings!

My apologizes you have experienced this, which can be disrespectful to your current relationship.
In the business world we provide a service and of course building a trust worthy relationship is essential even more so in this industry to respect relationships and marriages. You don't want to be #2 in anyone's world. Boundaries need to be set in place and most important the Session girl and client must have clear communication on expectations. A good service = good business = Trust = Respect
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I think you canīt really compare the session work with some "classic" work, sessions especially with repeat customers are somthing much more personal.
In a way yes, in a way no. I've started to think that a session is more like seeing a therapist. And I mean that in the nicest way possible. Think about it-you share some fantasies and very intimate parts of yourself than nearly no one else knows about.

You're absolutely right about the personal element, though.

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For many session girls, traveling to other cities is one of the highest risk things they do, both cost wise and safety wise. They generally will try to have a good 3-4 guys in each city they can rely on to cover their costs and make a bit on top. If you have any session girls blowing you up take it as a huge compliment. It means you pay well, you are trustworthy and most of all you are fun to session with. Believe me if they hated sessioning with you, you'd hear crickets from them.

At the end of the day this is many girls only form of income so yes it may come across a little desperate at times, but when you have rent to pay and you;re $400 away, sometimes you need to put your feelers out to any regular streams of income which means reaching out to session guys.
Excellent point. Although $300-400 is a lot of money for a session, a lot of guys here seem to believe that sessions women are rich. Newsflash: they aren't. There are a few who do decently (those who own video companies in particular or have been around along time and command higher rates and have a big customer base), but I'd wager most are pretty much scraping by.

Based on the old post about Julie Squeeze asking people in the community for money, among other anecdotes I've heard, I think it's safe to say many, if not most, of the ladies are not swimming in money.

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There are much more reasons why a session wrestler might not date someone they "wrestle", and that's because she might also have no physical attraction towards him. they may have nothing in common. She might live too far away, or she might have an already established family or a relationship that she does not want to ruin.

Even if you take into account someone who isn't a client or part of the scene(producer), it's not perfect either. As the possibilities exist of the guy getting critical of the womans work , bashing it, or leaving them in paranoia that the woman is potentially doing sexual acts with the guys who are paying money to see her. In this society alone(US) a lot of men get angry at the idea that their partner is talking to a male "friend" or having a guy converse constantly with her on social media. Our society tends to push onto this idea of going to college, getting a degree, finding work, finding a long time partner, marriage, kids, etc.

Men who are into fetish wrestling are a niche. and for every guy who trusts his GF or wife, there are plenty of others who hate the idea of another guy being face sat or scissored but them. You have guys who want their partner to have a 9-5 regular job and to be with only them.

Thinking more about it dating an actual session wrestler or having a long term relationship can have some complications, depending on your perspective. A lot of session women

*Travel to different locations. depending on the type of BF they have, the guy can accept it and be cool with it, or be extremely angry at it, and even insecure

*See different types of men. ugly, fat, old, smelly , young, good looking.

*have to have some trust in the guys they session with .something personal can slip through the mouth and she has to have some trust to make sure you don't reveal it on this website or others. if they take pictures or videos it can be even worse! a guy can post a video of his entire session on the web, even though she specified not share it with other people.

*sometimes have to take a chance and risk something more sexual. either due to the fact that they develop some form of intimacy for the guy, and/or to potentially get more money and hope to god the guy keeps it between them alone. and if that sexual thing is specifically revealed or if the BF finds out, then it can lead to things becoming much more complicated and the guy potentially leaving.

*have to deal with potential injuries or even dangers or stalkers. because joe fingle didn't realize that perhaps he shouldn't actively try to hurt a girl or do anything outside of the session agreements. point is, injuries can happen in this line of work, and this can certainly present an issue with the the relationship as a whole and add onto the pressure to quit this line of work. and with stalkers, there are some dangerous creeps out there who could find out their real names, where they live, etc.some guys may still stick, and others may leave as the pressure and complications can be too great to deal with for them.
I can respect and be secure with a session wrestler as my girlfriend. It's like any other relationship to me. Either you trust each other or you do not. Also my career is not a typical 9-5 either so it would work XD If she was comfortable with it i'd probably enjoy her talking about her sessions.
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