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Old 20-Feb-15, 15:40
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@[Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register], great life experience, I can relate to it (not as much though, you lucky b... : ) maybe we're into it now to find back this lost childhood "love", after all she could have harm you bad and didn't, it's maybe more sentimental than what it seems.
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Old 20-Feb-15, 17:05
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I, like others who reboot don't have sex drive, believe it or not, all I want is to be headscissored, I don't care about sex. This is why rebooting may work better for someone like me, and other people who carry a fetish which far outweighs the sex drive.
So what would you feel when an attractive woman is checking you out or receptive to your flirting? To me that automatically triggers ego and confidence, which is more along the feelings of "normal" sex drive.
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Old 20-Feb-15, 17:24
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You could also, of course, embrace "chastity" as a way of life and become a saint.
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Old 20-Feb-15, 17:43
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I think those who want to see simple F/F Submission may actually be in the minority.

Look at Dianathevalkyie fiction site.....

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Vast majority are mixed and domination.....

GW was particularly interesting in that he had a fixation on female superheros (eavily muscled) getting beaten, sexually dominated by skinny women (i.e. Wonder Woman vs. Nazis) or Lady Marvel....

Emish seemed the only great writer who came close to my interests. Many of his stories though were nof his real and imaginary wrestling with a like sized female.

If there is a spectrum, I am certainly at one end and pretty vanilla....
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Old 20-Feb-15, 17:53
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So what would you feel when an attractive woman is checking you out or receptive to your flirting? To me that automatically triggers ego and confidence, which is more along the feelings of "normal" sex drive.

Why must "ego and confidence" associated with dominance? I've always thought if a woman has an average sexual interest in me, I'll have to limit things to average sex, i.e. straight intercourse. But if she's REALLY into me, she might want to do something wonderful and wrestle me into submission.

The point is, "confidence" doesn't mean you have to act macho. Confidence means, you get what you want -- whatever it is.
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Old 20-Feb-15, 18:51
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I'll start with your second point. If you read the success stories of rebooting on Brain-Porn and other rebooting websites, fantasizing more is a common symptom when you start the process. And if the desire is so strong that you watch a mixed wrestling video or indulge in activity, it's called a relapse. The success stories point out that if you resist, and continuously resist, shun it out of your life, eventually, and I say eventually as in a few months, your desire will go away. Your brain begins to re-wire itself because you are forcing it to re-adjust.

Here are two accounts which exactly touch upon the stronger desire masturbation/activity and the need to resist it.

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The only thing I questioned, was whether when people say ''it's just the way you are'' is true, I don't refer to homosexuality, but fetishes which are relatively new. Homosexuality has developed over the course of a good few thousand years, we're talking the likes of 4,000BC. But fetishes like toilet fetishes? Those bizarre ones are recent inventions.
You can find so called success stories for just about anything. Im looking for real scientific studies not a few posts from a site with a clear agenda.

I also suspect that femdom and various power or struggle fetishes have been with us for a long time as well. But either way, your earlier implication that sex interests that dont contribute to reproduction can be overcome just doesn't seem to hold much weight.
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Old 20-Feb-15, 20:03
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Porting this sentiment over from another thread, I don't consider wrestling to be a fetish in most cases. Instead I see it as a logical extension of being attracted to women with certain attributes. As far as I know the above goes back to televised sports being a constant in our house since birth, this obviously included things such as women's tennis and female competitors at the Olympics. (For the record I don't find non-athletes unattractive, for me a conventionally 'pretty' girl who is also an athlete is just more desirable.) If you find things such as athleticism, atypical height/shape/strength, litheness etc attractive then you'd necessarily want to find a way to bring them out in your partner. Thus wrestling, which has the advantages of requiring less equipment than most anything else as well as keeping you the closest together physically. Anyway, if we insist on talking about fetishes, I could argue that an attraction to a female form which is primarily characterized by a capability to be blown over by a hardy gust of wind has far less precedence in human history than the women we concern ourselves with on this board. So now who's abnormal?
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As to the other strain of conversation on this thread, I have no problem considering it 100% nonsense. There is far too much evidence of such processes failing on a large scale among people who would have all the motivation in the world to want to dispose of their given inclinations.
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Old 20-Feb-15, 20:24
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You can find so called success stories for just about anything. Im looking for real scientific studies not a few posts from a site with a clear agenda.

I also suspect that femdom and various power or struggle fetishes have been with us for a long time as well. But either way, your earlier implication that sex interests that dont contribute to reproduction can be overcome just doesn't seem to hold much weight.
There is no ''scientific'' research into this because none of it exists, it hasn't been done. I have given you a database with thousands of personal, individual accounts. I've known people to have success with it. It's a logical concept, if you abstain from a feitsh, your lust for it will be forced to re-adjust itself if you want to function.
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Old 20-Feb-15, 20:25
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So what would you feel when an attractive woman is checking you out or receptive to your flirting? To me that automatically triggers ego and confidence, which is more along the feelings of "normal" sex drive.
I would feel attracted, but only if I could get headscissored by her. When I see women on the street? I want to get headscissored by them, not fuck them. I have no interest for sex/intercourse.
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