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Old 31-Jan-18, 04:08
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Default Participatory vs. Voyeuristic Fantasies

Curious: How many guys here fantasize about

1) being beaten in a fight (or wrestling match) by a woman,

as opposed to

2) watching or reading about or hearing about some OTHER guy being beaten by a woman?
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Old 31-Jan-18, 05:52
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Default Re: Participatory vs. Voyeuristic Fantasies

For me it is number 1. My biggest dream related to this fetisch is to be physicaly overpowered by a woman.
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Old 31-Jan-18, 06:23
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Default Re: Participatory vs. Voyeuristic Fantasies

I'm #1 as well. The fantasy has always been about me losing.

I like #2 in the sense that 'if she can beat another guy, she has a good/great chance of being able to beat me as well'.
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Old 31-Jan-18, 08:04
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Default Re: Participatory vs. Voyeuristic Fantasies

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I'm #1 as well. The fantasy has always been about me losing.

I like #2 in the sense that 'if she can beat another guy, she has a good/great chance of being able to beat me as well'.
Exactly the same. My fetish is to lose a fight against a woman.
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No. 1 in front of other people. I don't know why. Probably because it increases the humiliation.
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I prefer being in a match with my wife more than reading about other matches
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Default Re: Participatory vs. Voyeuristic Fantasies

The reason I asked was that I am totally a 2, but I have sensed that puts me in a small minority around here. The response tends to confirm that.
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Default Re: Participatory vs. Voyeuristic Fantasies

I am both, but the voyeur in me outweighs the participant by a bit.

I like sessions. But it's not always that you can suspend the knowledge that this is a fetishistic act when wrestling with someone who knows you are enjoying being beaten or dominated, and that you know that they know. And it's fine, you don't always have to to enjoy your time. But for me, except a couple of exceptions, I'd say the most sexually exciting moments of my life were those where I got beaten / humiliated by someone who didn't know I have this fetish, or wasn't as well versed at it. That's the reason I personally prefer wrestling with women who are new to the scene than those who know every type of fantasy there is out there about power-play. Although there are days where I just want to be dominated by someone who knows what she's doing, and who can put me in a gazillion holds, step on me and talk trash to me while doing it. So, there's that too.

To expand on the above, talking about voyeurism, it is often not the information about the other guy that gets beaten that interests me. Very often it is the woman who does the beating, her feelings about what is happening. What he is feeling is only part of the bigger picture.

Being a visual guy, what I like about watching / seeing / reading is that I can get a more complete image of what is taking place physically, and what I don't know my mind will make up based on visual / audio clues. I think seeking and watching stuff for excitement on the Internet since I hit puberty is the major reason why I enjoy the experience of seeing over doing. The thing with fetishes is that you are usually stuck with fantasies and images for longer than a non-fetishist early on, since going out there and experiencing your fetish at a young age is not that easy. My classmates at school were talking about their first sexual experiences at 14-15. I didn't get headscissored until I was 20.
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I'm a solid 2.
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I'm a solid 2.
Hmmm. I don't think we have enough to ask for our own forum.
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