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Re: Why are we so ashamed?
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Things considered taboo can be linked to shame and, for whatever reason, this generates feelings that many of us enjoy. It's in a similar vein to deliberately having sex where you might get caught by someone, even though you could just as easily have chosen a place where you'd get away with it. Many people are turned on by the embarrassment they MIGHT sense if they were caught, even if they do not actually want to be caught. The danger level heightens the excitement. There are also a bunch of us who not only like wrestling women, but who also like wrestling women who have the potential to defeat us. Throughout many parts of the world, it's still considered some great shame for a male to be defeated by a woman in any sporting competition. And combat sports - in the minds of many - would be the ultimate test of one's all-important masculinity. So, in the minds of these persons who feel that way, to be bested by a woman in combat would be the ultimate humiliation for any man. Continuing...societal mores have deemed what's expected, so the response for those of us with this specificity to our fetish are turned on by the unexpected. And in this case, the unexpected is attached to what others find shameful. Within this group, there are those who like that shame or maybe who even need that shame to fuel their libido.
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Re: Why are we so ashamed?
I am not in any way ashamed for my wrestling fetish. I actually feel very lucky that I am able to live my life only doing the things that I like to do, not having to admit to any social pressure, as I see so much around me. The reason that I do not tell anybody about it is because I do not think the majority will understand. I do not think I have anything to gain by telling out loud that I like to wrestle strong women. But I blame society for that, no myself.
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Re: Why are we so ashamed?
My shame comes from HS and 8th grade and desperately trying to fit in. (having a fetish and trying to fit in didn't mesh). in 8th/9th grade kids would make fun of you over anything, over liking somebody.
One time, I met this girl in the library, we talked, clicked a little bit. She was tall, not bad looking but in 8th grade, taller than all the guys in the class. We connected, but no date, no kiss, just talking in the library. So, in the lockerroom we're talking a few days later and I like her, but not thinking ask her out, it's 8th grade and I'm young for my age at the time I was clueless but I liked her. This group of 3 or 4 guys come up to make fun of us, separate us and ask "me" is she your girlfriend while the others ask her "is he your boyfriend", now, we'd not been on a date or seen each other outside of school at all, but I did have a small crush on her, but the guys asking me, I wanted to act all cool and aloof so I said "I should hope not", meanwhile, she, on the other side of the room said "yes", as in, yes I was her boyfriend. Needless to say they started yelling what we said to each other and I felt just terrible cause she'd said yes and, well, not one of my better moments. But the fear reflex of 13 year olds is very strong. If my fetish got out in HS, I'd have died of embarrassment. As I got older, into my 20s and 30s I stopped caring about who knew, but the initial feeling of "don't tell anyone", to me, it comes from childhood. There's also rules like don't discuss sex at work, so anyone I'm even a little bit professional with - it's like the cone of silence is always on, but not out of shame, more out of that's not what I talk about at work. |
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Re: Why are we so ashamed?
I live in pretty old-fashioned country let's say and mentality in here is still bad so I keep my interests about fetish just for myself.
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Re: Why are we so ashamed?
I think that overall, i am embarrassed by my scissor fetish. I dont think i would be all that embarrassed if someone i dont know, or someone i dont deal with in my everyday life, found out about it. But if someone i knew, and interacted with on a daily basis found out, i would be embarrassed.
I often wonder exactly how common this fetish is though. I mean, when you look at all the wrestling and scissor sites out there, there must be a good amount of people who enjoy it. The way i think about it, as a scissor enthusiast, is "who wouldnt want a womans legs wrapped around their head!!?"...lol. This original post actually reminded me of something my best friend said to me not too long ago. We were at a restaurant and our waitress, who was wearing short shorts, had amazingly muscular legs. They were the type of legs that even someone without a leg fetish would look at them and think "wow!". I forget what my friends exact words were, but they were somewhere along the lines of her being able to crush his head like a grape with her thighs. It made me wonder if he had a scissor fetish too. |
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Re: Why are we so ashamed?
I'm not ashamed in the slightest about my fetish. However I do keep it quiet in certain circles. That's not because I'm ashamed of it, it's just that my wife really doesn't get it, and doesn't approve. She's aware of it but we just don't discuss it. However; among some of my close friends and certain members of my family I discuss it openly. I actually get pleasure telling them about how I lost to a female wrestler. Some of my friends are interested, and often talk about going to Pippa's gym (I live in Manchester UK), but haven't made it yet. I guess they can't have the bug/addiction like most of us on the forum!
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Re: Why are we so ashamed?
I don't think anyone here uses their real name though
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Re: Why are we so ashamed?
Did either of you talk to the waitress and learn how she had such muscular legs?
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Re: Why are we so ashamed?
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But when you tell me you are a Spanish guy, but you handle is "Gerhard Berger" (a former German race driver), I like to believe different. You are just like most of us here. |
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Re: Why are we so ashamed?
@[Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register], this is The Internet. People choose whatever nicknames they like, not because they are ashamed, but because privacy is convenient on the Internet. Unless it is mandatory (FaceBook) people generally don't use their real names online. See Reddit or other popular news sites / forums. This board is no different in this regard. This has nothing to do with shame.
I personally know the real names of many of our members, and have met some in real life.
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