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to address the idea that attraction to muscular women may be conneted to gay tendancies, the reciprocity alone is enough to see how a non-sense that is :
A woman with muscle doesn't look more like a man than a man whitout looks like a woman. |
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I really think everyone should give up on this "caveman dating" stuff. We gave up programmed instinctual behavior when we got these big brains of ours. Humans do lots of things which aren't safe or healthy or good for child rearing because of our complex dependence on personal feeling states and/or societal norms. There are parts of the southern US where the word "healthy" is often used to describe seriously obese people. It's not logical -- it's "human."
If every man had an urge to stick his dick in a woman simply to make babies, there would be no art, no literature, no NFL, no muscle cars, no Grammy Awards, no Kim Kardashian, no Hollywood, no Bollywood or a million other things. Imagination is an essential part of the sexual event. And our brains are capable of imagining ANYTHING. The problem is that most people are too chicken ass to imagine things on their own. They need to be told what to imagine. What to like. What not to like. Can anyone here definitively describe what it means to "act like a man"? For hundreds of years in Central Asia, the practice of "bacha bazi" was (and still is) accepted as normal. In it, the most powerful and important men in the community are provided with young boys to have sex with because sex with a young boy is considered a pleasure much greater than what could be had with a woman. I'm sorry, but on the WEIRDO-METER, a sincere urge to wrestle with a strong woman doesn't hold a candle to shit like that. Do what you like, dudes. Just try not to hate yourselves so much while doing it! |
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@[Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register], yes clearly, and by traditional I include the "modern" one as well, I mean look whom Hollywood chooses to cast for female superheroes and how fashion mags are represent the "ideal woman", the bones/meat spec was getting so low some models started to die from anorexia ! Depiction of realsitic female physical power is more hidden now than it was in any of the ancient civilisations. Are they afraid of something ?
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Sorry I've not read through the whole thread yet, but I'll admit: a) it's a more interesting turn-on than staring at a vagina or a pair of breasts; and b) yes, it's got in the way of relationships
From old psychology textbooks, anything other than the norm was called a sexual 'deviation' or deviance - psychology today doesn't like to touch on this kind of thing, because people get very sensitive around these issues ... But basically it's a form of transference - in the same way neurotic energy you're not dealing with can manifest as a phobia, sexual energy can be transferred to something other than *sex* Maybe some of you can relate to this, but I started getting attracted to girls when I was quite young, and lived in a very middle-class area where girls were a little uptight, plus I wasn't very good with them ... So at school age, I had more sexual energy than I had an output for, and so your mind develops what some would call a fetish - after all it's easier to armwrestle a girl than to get into a relationship I hadn't heard it called 'rebooting' before, but yeah, this is basically what you do - you stop indulging it for a period of time, and gradually it's replaced with more conventional turn-ons ... But of course, if you're not getting any sex, you can revert back Interestingly I've not met many, but I do know girls who have the equivalent turn-on: a friend's long-term girlfriend - tall, stunning, dark-haired - gets turned on beating guys in armwrestling, having bigger calf muscles, etc. It's subtle, but being like we are, you notice it .. and maybe the key is to find a girl like this Honestly, as much as it can be a pain in the arse when the girl I fall for is the one who wants to be overpowered all the time, I kind of think our interest is working for the bettering of society - it's time for women to rise up and start running the planet |
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Females don't need orgasms to get pregnant, all that does it increase the pleasure; doesn't necessarily mean it affects the evolutionary purpose. Homosexuality is different because that's influenced by genetics, there's not a choice in it. |
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And like I said, I was closing in on two months and I only found myself fantasizing more and more as well as reacting even more strongly to any sort of female competition or dominance. I can't really see how another 30 days or so would just magically make those fantasies go away and I've seen no good science to back this theory up. |
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No I didn't wrestle. I just kept getting beat up by a girl. I told this story in another thread. Here it is: I had a bully growing up. I was 7-10 years old and this girl would just punch and kick me for no reason. She'd throw me to ground and just hold me there. She was mean. She was actually a year younger than I was, but I remember her being very strong. She was always winning the track races against the boys in school. As I got older, I just always looked for women who were strong and had a mean streak. Women who were dominant. I have a foot fetish also. Again, maybe it started when I was a kid with this girl. She would pin me down, like stand on me and I couldn't move. Or she would pin me against a wall with her foot (she took karate as well). I think everything started with this girl bully when I was a kid. -------- She would mess with everybody boys and some girls that weren't her friends. Mainly me though, since we lived right next to each other and our parents were friends. This was on a military base...we were army brats. I never beat her. I don't know how to fight lol. I have been a science-fiction, video game nerd since I was 7 (I'm 37 now and I'm still gaming!). I only actually tried to fight her a couple of times. I lost. She would just punch me in the stomach and I'd kneel over, then she'd put me in a headlock and that would be it. Most times I just tried to keep her off and away from me or tried to run away. But again, she was faster so she would catch me and I couldn't get her off me because she was stronger than me too. What I would do is just try my best until she left me alone. |
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Here are two accounts which exactly touch upon the stronger desire masturbation/activity and the need to resist it. Links removed. Violation of rule 3.9. Z The only thing I questioned, was whether when people say ''it's just the way you are'' is true, I don't refer to homosexuality, but fetishes which are relatively new. Homosexuality has developed over the course of a good few thousand years, we're talking the likes of 4,000BC. But fetishes like toilet fetishes? Those bizarre ones are recent inventions. |
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