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Perhaps a more useful discussion worth having - how do you determine your tolerance level, and in a setting (for example, in a session, or if you have a significant other who indulges your fantasy) where you might have some say in the matter, how can you effectively communicate this? Obviously, terms like "light" and "medium" are fairly subjective, but what might reasonable guidelines when trying to tell a session provider how much intensity you're looking for?
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If you have never done it before but are "Busting-curious", you need to find someone you can trust, who understands safe words and safety for your initial experiments in this area. Come to think of it, you should ONLY ever engage in a risky activity like this with someone you can trust who respects your limits.
Before you say "go light' and actually get kicked in the junk, maybe ask your busting partner to try what they consider a "light kick" or "Light punch" against a pillow or impact pad. Have them practice varying the force/intensity of their kicks, knees, punches, etc on a pillow or padding or some practice item before trying it on you.
You can also start with hand taps or slaps since its probably easier for any woman to control the strength of a tap or slap as opposed to a front kick.
Look, the potential to get hit harder than you would like, or harder than your tolerance is always there, even with a careful partner, so just know you are incurring some risk of pain and injury, even in a controlled environment.
Also, pain tolerance can be trained/learned over time. Its like anything else, you can build up tolerance. Apparently, people who develop immunities to poisons do the same thing..and that is an even riskier business:
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