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I'm curious, for those of you who aren't interested in the domination aspect of wrestling (whether male of female), what is it about wrestling with women that appeals to you? Is purely competitive wrestling still a some what sexual experience for you, or do you simply get enjoyment out of specifically competing with a woman?
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I totally enjoy knowing women who compete as equals. Women who not only will but WANT to wrestle me to see what the outcome will be. I wrestle a number of session wrestlers, but I have almost totally abandoned that to matches with three women locally who are amateurs. One is my wife and two others are women who enjoy wrestling and competing to try and win.
I find the sensuality in the act that these women specifically get together with me specifically to wrestle and win. I find that more exciting than any paid match or video that was ever made. To me that means that was started some year ago as a fantasy to be able to wrestle with women is not a fantasy but is the real deal. You just have to find the right girls and create the right situation. And frankly I think there are FAR more women who are or would be willing to wrestle with men if most men weren't so stupid and incompetent at being able to present the case.
In my matches the women don't always win, in one case I win far more than my share, but she keeps coming back from one month to the next and while she still loses, now she doesn't lose all the time. In the case of my wife, she also started off losing every match if I didn't throw it. But we worked together and she worked and it even encouraged her to start weight training. And in the past two years she's added 15 lbs of muscle as well as she's developed skill. Now we're dead even and every match is contested. We don't keep track but I'd say she wins more than half of our fights.
In the third case, this lady was working out when we met her, she's 6' tall and from the start she was more skilled and as strong as I. I have improved against her and I can defeat her, but she wins the majority of our fights still.
But what I find exciting about it all is that here are three women who once or twice a month, (with the excepting of my wife - as our encounters are usually more frequent) pack a back with a swimsuit and towel, and drive down specifically to wrestle with a man and they do it because THEY like fighting. And they win some and they lose and it doesn't matter. In one sense I find the lady who still loses most of the time the most sensual because she does it and she doesn't care that she loses, she still likes the battle and the struggle. And so do I. It's a genuine but friendly battle of the sexes and if the girls win I find that sensual and exciting. And if I win I find it sensual and exciting that the women come right back and try and even the score. It's TRUE sexual liberation and equality.