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our wrestling relates to about one tenth of one percent of our relationship, so its not a big deal for us
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I am talking about more than just wrestling. I am talking about dynamics of a relationship outside of the bedroom. Who takes charge? Who makes the decisions? Etc.
In my personal life, with most of the couples that my wife and i know, the women seem to be in charge. In most cases, i dont think it is because the woman is physically more powerful, but there is just something about her that says "I'm in charge". Apparently it is obvious in my marriage too because my wife's co-workers noticed. But unlike most men, i can admit and accept the fact that my wife "wears the pants".
On this forum, i know that most of the men here are submissive behind closed doors, but i am curious as to whether that carries over into public settings?