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Replies so far have focused on wrestling when people were young enough to have no idea what a fetish is never mind be concerned about it.
What I'm interested in is how people deal with it as they get older. Do you stop wrestling your sister or your brother because you've started to sexualise wrestling? Was that never an issue?
Were you unable to play wrestling games with your children because wrestling was a fetish for you and you were unable to view it any other way?
Is it even a fetish for most here or is it all about the competition?
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Personally I lost all interest in wrestling guys around college age. in HS I'd wrestle with guys all the time. It as never sexual, but I enjoyed the physical contest. I was well past puberty by 17 but I remember having long wrestling matches with guys in my HS or my brother, not sexual at all. By 19 I didn't do that anymore and by 19 I was way more tuned into my sexual attraction to lady wrestlers. I have no idea if those 2 things are related or if it was going away to college and trying to grow up. The wrestlers on the wrestling team (several wrestlers on my dorm room), wrestled with each other a lot, but I never wanted to, part of it might be them being bigger than me too.
Andy Kaufman did his wrestling with women bit when I was in 12th grade. 17 going on 18, and that may have swayed my interest quite a bit. I also started buying wrestling and fetish porn magazines around 18 too when I got my first job. (lifeguard) - that was as fun job. It was never enough to get the ladies cause I was still awkward as guys came, but I got a few looks and conversations.
But on the subject of wrestling with family members, I never had a female family member. Most of my relatives were on the west coast and my dad and moved east. My mom had a small family so no cousins to speak of that I saw that much anyway. My dad also married late, in his 40s, his brothers were all grandparents in their 40s so my cousins were all 20 something years older than me - bit too much of an age difference.
But . . . I read a few stories that always interested me. Before the internet, I used to read the letters to legshow or cavalier and there was one wrestling publication that sold stores, not videos, they used to advertise in AmFem and they had good stories. One story I remember a mother wrote saying she used to wrestle her 14 year old son, it was just physical, nothing sexual until one day she noticed her son had this raging hardon when she had him pinned in a school boy pin. She didn't want anyone to see, so she kind of covered it and waited for it to go away, and both mom and son were embarassed. She wrote (a porno magazine?) to ask about this and they wrote back "it's perfectly normal, 14 year olds have hormones, it doesn't mean he wants to sleep with you" - and, one, I agree, getting hard with someone, even a family member, doesn't mean you want sex with them, it means your a teenager and a guy. Anyway, I liked that story, not in a turn-on sense, but an honesty sense, it was 100% believable, cept for the part where the mom would write a porno mag and not dear abby.
I also find Jennifer Thomas' "Mother" videos very hot.
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I'm sure it's not really her son, but if Jennifer Thomas was my mom (I'm older than she is, so that takes some imagination), but if she was and if my punishment was wrestling . . . all I can say is wow. That's crazy hot. Wrestling my mom - not hot. Imagining JT is my mom punishing me - super-hot. I've never explored that fantasy of calling a session wrestler "Mommy", but, honestly, it might be fun. I'm a little curious to try that one day, maybe with Jennifer. Someone who can make it believable.
While completely unrelated, I remember one Simpsons episode when Homer called Marge "Mom" and it cracked me up, but not in a sexual way, just in a "that's funny" way.