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Default Re: Are you an incel?

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Originally Posted by revanyo [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]
I have never had sex and am 29, but also a very social and high achieving person. In my early 20's and late teens I felt bad and even considered hiring an escort to get it over with just to make sure that when.if it happened I could perform.

However, my values on sex developed more, I became popular with friends, and had a life that was not contingent on sex.

What made me really settle into waiting was realizing that as a mid 20's guy having sex is not hard to do. When I was 19 I saw it as this crown jewel of manhood but now see it as just another formality of life
I think most 19 year old male virgins see sex as the crown jewel of manhood. Maybe a few smart ones don't, but I certainly did. When I finally lost my virginity, it was almost a letdown, having built it up for so many years. It was nice, but not the be-all and end-all of my previous 20 years.

I'm going to reflect the poster above's thoughts. There's nothing wrong with hiring an escort, unless you're broke. But if you happen to meet the right lady, "I'm a virgin" would probably be a selling point. At risk of getting too personal, do you date? Do women want to go out with you?
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