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View Poll Results: Do you wish that you didn't have this fetish for femdom & mixed matches? | |||
Yes, I wish I didn't have this fetish. It drags the quality of my life down. | 42 | 22.83% | |
Sometimes. I would like to have more control over it. | 83 | 45.11% | |
Not at all. I only see positives from it and feel it fully enhances the quality of my life. | 59 | 32.07% | |
Voters: 184. You may not vote on this poll |
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Re: Do you dislike having this fetish? Getting angry - why?
I'd have had a LOT more sex without it .. 49 times out of 50, I'll meet a hot girl, great personality, get on, maybe fall for each other a bit – and KNOW she just doesn't have the quad or bicep development, or grappling ability and dommy personality, to turn me on.
I'm lucky if there are two girls in my orbit capable of turning me on enough – and they're almost always in relationships .. Very often they're extremely narcissistic – because they're probably spending 2-3 hours a day in the gym .. The other wild card is girls who are freakishly strong/muscular, and do turn me on, but are below me on the social ladder – and that doesn't really work. So the best solution I've found is 'NoFap' .. I still say, a very large part of having a fetish is really just masturbation addiction .. You abstain for 30 days, and your bar starts to drop .. Much easier to get off to vanilla porn .. Plenty of porn addicts get the same thing, and have to abstain to 'reset' .. I had a great double run of 30 days not long ago .. But I've not worked out where to go with that .. I find you cut it out too long, and your sex drive withers a bit. Quote:
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Re: Do you dislike having this fetish? Getting angry - why?
I think the question is irrelevent. Enjoying this fantasy is simply part of who I am.
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Re: Do you dislike having this fetish? Getting angry - why?
I am who and what I am.
If WERen't this I am absolutely positive that I'd have been dead many times over. So as a fact, it is what's keepin me alive. I cannot be someone else, we're stuck with each other me and this life. So why not make most out of it? |
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Re: Do you dislike having this fetish? Getting angry - why?
yes
It feels unrealistic, I wish I had a more realistic fetish or none at all. |
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Re: Do you dislike having this fetish? Getting angry - why?
Only sometimes. I'm open about what I'm into and think it greatly enhances my sex life, the issue is that it's somewhat of a niche fetish and it's hard to find a compatible partner who's as into it as I am
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Re: Do you dislike having this fetish? Getting angry - why?
I agree with JIM1245. It would be great if it could be replaced by a passion that is appreciated by more women. I'm old, 71. I had the fantasy of being physically dominated by women since I was about seven. Back then it was VERY rare for a woman to be physically strong, let alone to be stronger than her male love interest. I thought I was a unique freak. Things have changed so much. I wish I had been born 60 years later!
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Re: Do you dislike having this fetish? Getting angry - why?
It has taken me awhile to fully grapple with it and understand my place in it. I now am comfortable and confident about it out loud. I have done a new appreciation with it. Have friends in it and encourage my other kink friends to explore.
I used to have those feelings but not as much anymore. Granted one of my first orgasms was with a muscle woman but such is life. I also note that the embrace of it by some people younger than me or the height of it a little older than me makes me wish I was a generation younger or older sometimes. |
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Re: Do you dislike having this fetish? Getting angry - why?
I'm 23 years old. Dating in this generation is very difficult more a multitude of reasons. The reason why I don't go out and try to sleep with someone or make a relationship is that I am depressed and don't have any motivation to do so, when I can satisfy myself on my own time. Independency is a big deal nowadays. Now for reasons why I wish I didn't have it.
1. I literally don't get it. So I Masturbate 2. It's more socially acceptable for men to be dominant, hence the reason why most women look for sexually dominant men. It's just how it is. 3. I personally do Martial Arts (Mainly grappling). The ability to separate these two worlds a lot of people find difficult. If anyone knew I had this EXACT kink, they would think twice about rolling with me. 4. I feel as though it's asking too much to be with someone in a relationship that satisfies me sexually 100%, because as a man, it's easier to please us Overall, I wish I could just enjoy general, vanilla stuff. I don't believe people who are vanilla don't get as much satisfaction. I believe people who are into fetishes just have a harder time. |
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Re: Do you dislike having this fetish? Getting angry - why?
Honestly, yes. I missed out on a lot of opportunities for sex and relationships because this fetish was the only way to get off. It also lead me to put women on a pedestal and be intimidated by them. It was immensely frustrating to tick every box (height, looks, body etc) but still be mentally held back by this fetish.
It was only through years of trial and error with nofap and use of services of escorts that I learned I can have normal sex and enjoy it. When my mental health is in a better place, I tend to not indulge those scissor videos or headscissor sessions. But when it's in a poor place, it's a viscous cycle. So yes I'd much rather not have it at all. Although nofap can minimize it to a minuscule degree, I would much rather trade places with someone who didn't go through this. But then again they say the grass is always greener on the other side. Regarding the topic of those members who get angry at others. That is a multi faceted issue. There is nothing wrong with being submissive and indulging the whole goddess worship stuff. But to be honest, that is not where I want to end up. If anything it is a reminder for me.to continue to work on being my best self. |
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Re: Do you dislike having this fetish? Getting angry - why?
Never had a problem with the fetish per se, but after about a dozen or so sessions I learned to separate the fetish from my interest in wrestling itself. Going to a session to get a turn on is a waste of money for two reasons. The first is in a legit session there's no sex. So why start the car when there's no place to drive it? Second, the sessions girls always preferred a guy who got into the spirit of sharing a common interest instead of a cheap thrill.
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