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View Poll Results: How young were you when you felt wrestling/fighting was sexually arousing?
Early childhood (0-8 years) 57 29.84%
Late childhood / early teens (9-13 years) 94 49.21%
Late teens (14-18 years) 34 17.80%
Young adult (19-25 years) 4 2.09%
Adult and older (26 and on) 2 1.05%
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Old 05-Jan-24, 06:29
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Default Poll: How old were you when you noticed the fetish?

Some of us have can trace our first weird feelings regarding wrestling/fighting to our early childhood: we got hard while watching the TV and before anything resembling sexual contact with the opposite sex.

Many others say it developed after wrestling with girls at school: Some while still being kids and not knowing what it was all about, others later in their teens, knowing already what it meant.

Some say they only noticed it later in life when they started dating.

Perhaps someone found out much later in their adult life?


I've made a poll to find out how early most of us learnt about this.

No need to be precise about the numerical ages, but the moment in life you were when you found out.

Last edited by mixed; 05-Jan-24 at 06:36. Reason: More precision about the questions.
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Old 05-Jan-24, 19:03
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Default Re: Poll: How old were you when you noticed the fetish?

I think I was always attracted to powerful women. but when I was really young I was more attracted to women with magic powers that I saw in cartoons. but as I got older I realized magic doesn't exist and by age 12 I started using the internet a lot and found out about mixed wrestling and female bodybuilding.
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Old 05-Jan-24, 19:57
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Default Re: Poll: How old were you when you noticed the fetish?

Not completely sure but I think late teens. I was interested in both female bodybuilders and "regular" femdom before I put two and two together as it were.
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Default Re: Poll: How old were you when you noticed the fetish?

Watching American Gladiators between the ages of 5 to 7. I definitely tried to challenge a girl to fight me when I was like 5 or 6. I backed down in the end.
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Default Re: Poll: How old were you when you noticed the fetish?

Interesting topic. I am going to add something different to this discussion from the perspective of psychoanalysis. I definitely agree that this fetish starts young, but there isn't always a definite point of "realization". It is a process of constant change and formation, where internal discovery and external stimulus both matter. Let me break down my own experience in a three-step process.

For someone raised in a disciplinarian-matriarchal family like me, I was first immersed in an environment of stronger females. When this matriarchal influence is in place, struggle against such images may take many forms ranging from imagination to actual acts of defiance such as lying or running away. The wrestling part came later with video games like streetfighters or boxing events on TV, and I believe that was when the female part overlapped with the sports part. Like some in the comments, I too wrestled my cousin sister when I was 6 and she was 8 as an imitation of video games. Then, the sexual part would develop during puberty (might be earlier for the precocious kids), likely when people came across fetish videos, movies and porns available to them.

The thing is, structural factors, self-discovery, and contingency all matter in this story, and it is up to us to put these pieces together later in life. I am not saying that lacking one of these would take you to a different path. Different combinations of these links are also possible. After all, the world is a complicated place. Would love to see other theories and stories.
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Old 06-Jan-24, 21:33
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Default Re: Poll: How old were you when you noticed the fetish?

Loved women's wrestling as a kid in the 80s.

I was at a cousins house and he had a pro wrestling magazine. One of the ads in the magazine was for mixed wrestling videos and featured a big breasted blonde choking a guy wearing a mask.

I was hooked.
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Old 06-Jan-24, 22:56
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Default Re: Poll: How old were you when you noticed the fetish?

One thing I knew from a young age was I hated not being the best .. I had to be the smartest, strongest, best fighter, athlete, I'd find it hard to resolve losing a board game – I couldn't accept anyone being better than me .. May have been narcissistic parents – unemotional, self-worth based on being good at things.

So part of the fascination with Bambi & Thumper, and later girls getting good at Judo and weightlifting, etc. was that my ego could hardly deal with losing to the strongest guy in school .. the prospect of encountering a really tough (even worse: cute) female would've destroyed my ego .. I had no way to resolve that – so it was almost an extreme phobia.

And I only resolved this in my 30s .. First time I encountered a true amazon in person at my gym I nearly had a panic attack – and I think one way my brain resolves it is: if she's at least attracted to me, I'm still dominant .. If I'm more attracted to her, she basically owns me .. So in a way, my life since has been devoted to being able to attract these types of women – which means: being in the same places; being the most dominant, popular guy; not being intimidated; not fetishising them .. And I will say: it's a LOT easier competing with males these days than it is women .. Very easy to be a top male – most guys are socially awkward, don't train hard, don't network well .. The female hierarchy is dominated by real killers .. The power struggle in my gym is between me and the top girl, and she is infinitely more intimidating than any guy I've met in the past 20 years

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Default Re: Poll: How old were you when you noticed the fetish?

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One thing I knew from a young age was I hated not being the best .. I had to be the smartest, strongest, best fighter, athlete, I'd find it hard to resolve losing a board game – I couldn't accept anyone being better than me
Yes. All of us have different mechanisms.

My fantasy never had to do winning. In fact, it was always about losing the fight. Not even domination or things like that: only losing.

I'd fantasize about fighting (mostly boxing) against a swimsuit model, and she knocking me out, which is when I jerked off. I even came into my pants while play fighting other kids at our 13s, which was a the same time desirable and shameful.

By the time I met my wife, who was the first woman I properly wrestled with, I had been through the forums learning about breast smothers, scissors, RNCs, bearhugs and the such. That switched my interest from fake punching to a full body contact experience.
But the goal remains: I want her to defeat me, which takes me to full arousal, and then masturbate me. But I'm not interested in domination or humiliation at all.
Something that has changed, though, is that I now enjoy "defeating" her before she does to me, but only because I like the sight of her spread out AND because I get to pleasure her orally, which makes her more willing to reciprocate.
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Default Re: Poll: How old were you when you noticed the fetish?

I was 16.

After my younger sister held me unescapeable for me that time for a very long time, my fantasy of being trapped by a female body got established.

But somehow the word „fetish“ or „mixed wrestling“ I got to realize later when I experienced that a few times more with other women the following years.
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Old 07-Jan-24, 13:17
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Default Re: Poll: How old were you when you noticed the fetish?

As a young teen, I stumbled upon “The Million Eyes of Su Maru” and that film had a lasting impression on me.
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