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Old 12-May-12, 21:48
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First of all, I would not call it a fetish. If you look at the definition of fetish, I think you'll find it involves an object--fur, leather, a foot, something like that. I would call it an interest.

Be that as it may...I do remember how I became aware of it. It was while reading Franz Kafka's novel Amerika--I don't have the page reference but you can probably find the place. It's only a few sentences--the hero gets into a "match" with a girl who has studied judo.
She gets him in a chokehold.

I wonder if this was a major interest for Kafka? I don't recall any other instances of it in his--to me--very interesting works. Anyone know?
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Old 13-May-12, 05:25
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i agree with freestylefan. i don't find this to be deviant or anything. i think i was first attarcted to strong girls when i started watching gymnastics on tv as a young lad. you see, it was hard to find porn but gymnastics used to come on tv all the time. my family also fought a lot and i loved wrestling and fighting so it just seemed natural for me.
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Old 13-May-12, 06:33
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I remember getting erections from watching male boxing matches at a very early age (4, I guess). I enjoyed the KOs the most. Then there was this young maid at home (she must have been in her 20s) with whom I would reproduce the boxing matches (fully clothed, of course) and I would always lose by KO. Later on, the TV got wrestling and GLOW and I got lost forever. There even was this commercial of a woman outboxing a man in blue jeans. I recorded it and watched it over and over again. I was 10 at the time.
I also got erections while wrestling my schoolmates. I did the best to conceal them, but I'm sure some of them must have noticed. It was a kids only school. There were 2 or 3 which had very good wrestling skills and I used to challenge them (I was in my 12s-14s) but only if we were alone. Needless to say I was always on the losing side.

Until it finally happened: I was 16 and the kid was 14. We wrestled, he won as staged and I came. Just like that. I ran to the bathroom pretty embarassed, but the joy was overwhelming. He lived close to me so I began dropping at his house to fight. I must have come a lot of times there, and I'm sure he noticed something weird. Also my erection was noticeable if pushed against during the fight.

I also came during some swimming pool struggles with girls at that time. Those were even more exciting, but I didn't have the guts to challenge them in the land.

I was afraid of becoming gay, but then I realized the kids I wrestled with were younger and still had no body hair. I fantasized with wrestling women, but the only people I could get to wrestle me down were kids and I enjoyed the fact of being defeated.

By my late teens I quit it altogether because even kids 3 years younger looked like adults and it not only wasn't right to go after younger kids, but it would not flip the switch. I wanted a realistic fight and someone much smaller just wouldn't give it.

Fast forward to my mid-20s, I had discovered the internet and got my kicks from there. I downloaded many GB of photos and videos. I camee to know the different versions of the fetish and found the one that suits me more: Fighting the "girl-next-door" and being trapped in a KO hold other than a facesit. I also got into the infamous Yahoo forums and had some online wrestling with "girls". As long as they were like that in my head, that's alright with me. Some were very good.

I wasn't lucky with girls, but I noticed I never looked for skiny ones. I was after a well-built girl that could give me a good fight. Unfortunately, most of them were totally against it. A gf of mine agreed to do it only once and she seemed to enjoy putting me in a schoolgirl pin and watching me come just by that, but it never happened again. I fantasized with a good bunch of the girls around me, but never got to do anything with them.

To date, the best fight I've had has been this one - [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

I don't havea gf right now. I enjoy the fetish a lot, but it makes my "normal" sex life feel dull. I'd rather get an orgasm from the fetish than from normal sex.
Unless I found a woman that has a fetish of defeating men, I'm afraid it will remain an internet thing.
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holy shit. what the fuck?
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Wrestled to defeat (play fight), by auntie at quite a young age. Headlock (keylock) submitted (real fight), by a senior schoolgirl who did Judo, at quite a young age. Smother/facesat to submission (real fight) by one of the top school gymnasts (one year older than me)......in front of my friends (ouch!). Thankfully it was in the days before camcorder phones and international humiliation via youtube!.
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Old 13-May-12, 15:48
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my fantasy began in my early teens, I was 14 years and was a saturday morning I was alone with my sister of 10 aņos.Estabamos watching television and a commercial break we played at ending fights I the floor with my sister sitting on my back riding.
I felt very comfortable with my sister over and experience a very pleasant feeling, as my sister pulled my ears and advertising reia.Al finish my sister got up.
Wait impatiently for another chance to be alone with my sister, 10 days after he was lying on the floor reading a comic book when my sister entered the room and sat down without saying anything on my back, remained so 5 minutes after the feigned cualesyo fight and initially got rid of her but she turned around and sat astride my estomago.No offered no resistance was in heaven.
-I have you, you're my, (lie cry my hands fixed to the carpet).
-I give you win (answer feigning submission)
The following is sat comfortably in my chest fixing my forearms under your shins and remained so 45 minutes until we heard the front door, my sister dropped me getting up with a smile.
-I like to sit in you, we will play more often?
'Of course yes, but it will be our secret.
We played many more times, until eventually my sister grew up and stopped letting me play
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Old 13-May-12, 19:31
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Wrestled to defeat (play fight), by auntie at quite a young age. Headlock (keylock) submitted (real fight), by a senior schoolgirl who did Judo, at quite a young age. Smother/facesat to submission (real fight) by one of the top school gymnasts (one year older than me)......in front of my friends (ouch!). Thankfully it was in the days before camcorder phones and international humiliation via youtube!.

great girls at your school.. i like judo girls and gymnasts

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Wrestled to defeat (play fight), by auntie at quite a young age. Headlock (keylock) submitted (real fight), by a senior schoolgirl who did Judo, at quite a young age. Smother/facesat to submission (real fight) by one of the top school gymnasts (one year older than me)......in front of my friends (ouch!). Thankfully it was in the days before camcorder phones and international humiliation via youtube!.
That's quite an impressive CV. The gymnast experience must have been fun - you must tell us more! What really fascinates me is how girls know, they just instinctively know that sitting on a guys face is the most devastating move they can pull. It's the most effective and humiliating way for a girl to put a guy out of action - and nobody has to explain it to them - they just know!!!
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That's quite an impressive CV. The gymnast experience must have been fun - you must tell us more! What really fascinates me is how girls know, they just instinctively know that sitting on a guys face is the most devastating move they can pull. It's the most effective and humiliating way for a girl to put a guy out of action - and nobody has to explain it to them - they just know!!!
Fun? "Character-forming" maybe.........

I was 9 or 10 at the time. It was at a playground at the top end of a small village where I lived. I was there with another lad, same age as me. We'd been on the swings, trying to jump off at the highest point to see who could land farthest away Anyway, it was a grassy area, about 100 yards (that's "small" metres, for our Euro friends..... ) from the nearest house. Sunny day, nobody else there.
So suddenly these two girls turned up. We knew them from sports days at school, although they were in the year above us, which seemed a lot at that age. They were always showing off at school, doing cartwheels, back-flips, that kind of thing, and were really quite arrogant. You wouldn't dream of talking to them, or even let them see you looking at them. Anyway, I saw them coming on this occasion and they were whispering/giggling, so they must have planned what they were going to do. We sort of froze. Unbelievably, they just squared up to us straight away, one on one. I must have been two or three inches taller than this particular girl, my mate about the same height as the other one. We were skinny little guys. I remember I had a a Spider-man t-shirt on and Adidas shorts (this was the early 70's). All I can remember is a feeling of dread. So this girl says to me "think you're tough?".....and I managed to say "no".....next thing, I saw out of the corner of my eye, the other girl punched my mate in the face and as he went down she started kicking him. I turned to run, but this girl must have anticipated it, because she tripped me up and I remember my face hitting the ground. I was then dragged up, head-locked and frog-marched over to where the other girl had my whimpering friend in what is now described as an SGP. The girl who had hold of me rolled me into position alongside the other pair and sat on my chest. There was constant verbal abuse. As to what happened physically, I'm not sure whether it's appropriate to continue, or may violate the rules of the forum, due to the ages of all involved. I can state categorically, that there was absolutely no thrill in it from my point of view. Panic, fear and being subjected to half an hour or so of physical torture, was all I came away with.
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Wow...it should be fine to recount how your interest developed regardless of how old you were at the time - I had a very similar experience if you read through my posts you will see it. Like you I was genuinely terrified at the time and it is only in retrospect that I view it as an amazing, life changing moment... i'll message you later...

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