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Re: How do you guys go about dating?
Well I wrote with many hundred women on dozens of sites before I met my current girlfriend.
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"Dating" is one of those imprecise terms. To me, seeing the same person more than once in a sexual/romantic/amorous capacity constitutes "dating". The alternatives to dating would be: a.) One night stands (one wrestling encounter, never repeated, or one hook-up/hang-out whatever-you-call-it b.) transactional sex (paid) pay-to-wrestle, pay for whatever. Added after 7 minutes: Quote:
You can "date" without it being monogamous, but when you date someone, your looking to make a lasting emotional connection of some sort, and there is good and bad "baggage" that goes along with that. If you want a girlfriend AND you want her to engage your unique fetish desires, you just have to sink some time in, and then open up about your wants/desires. Sometimes, its a deal-breaker and a "bust", sometimes it is not. It just comes with the territory. Your going to have a better chance of scoring some wrestling by dating a girl for a certain amount time, and then letting her know your fetish, than meeting some lady and immediately (on first date) confiding that you really want to wrestle with her. Its like anything else. There is a such thing as "too much info, too soon". But the risk you take is you sink some time into vanilla romance and then when you open up about your hidden desire, its rejected. There is also a decent chance your date/girlfriend will be open-minded to the idea. Last edited by magnate; 09-Mar-21 at 21:41. |
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Take the time to let a girl get to know you before bringing that up.The more emotionally involved a woman becomes in a relationship,the more open she will become to things like that.
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I knew from a young age that when it came to my sex life, I had wrestling and scissors, rather than sex, on my mind. I also knew that my relationships would not last if the girl I was dating was unwilling to at least try to satisfy my wrestling desires. So I have always been open in my relationships. I don't bring it up on a first date or anything like that. But I will bring it up early in a relationship. Usually within the first few months. That way I know if she is a potential keeper or not.
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At the moment I'm not interested in a relationship but I think that if someone looks for one, he should be more cautious and look for signs that point in one or the other direction. For dates, I have looked on sites and had many, many, many chats in which I was open about my interest before finding out someone who was interested. It took me a lot of time but it was worth it
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I guess with dating you just have to be yourself and then when things progress to bedroom activities and sex, then it can become obvious as what does turn you on and off. I'm pretty new into a relationship (over 3 months) and whilst I can't remember our first time having sex, the conversation quickly turned to what we both liked, any fetishes, etc. I suppose I was lucky in that my girlfriend, who I was just dating at the time, was up for it. Clearly she could've said no and it would've gone wrong from there. I don't think I had to 'sell' it as such, I just mentioned play fighting so nothing fetishy as such and I didn't open with "I'd like you to stop me breathing or make me pass out". Make it fun, make it sexy, make it inclusive, and most importantly make it consensual, even if she's the one dominating you!
3 months on from then and we wrestle all the time! It turns out that she likes being pinned down too and we both like roleplaying. She's very good at it and creative with holds even though I really haven't shown her much! I trust her, and I think it helps we don't have any mutual friends. If it was a friend of a friend or something then I do understand about trust issues as you wouldn't want it to get back to anyone close to you. She's in the next town over so even if the worst happened and we broke up in the future I wouldn't have much fear about word getting out so to speak. This should be seen in the context of my previous girlfriend being a session wrestler and studio owner in the UK so in fetish / wrestling terms, I'm very lucky that I've a) found another lady that enjoys wrestling me and b) compares well in that respect with the ex! The only times my fetish has being an obstacle is during sex as I struggle to get aroused being on top / in control. Maybe I've been lucky not having been with many 'vanilla' girls! |
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