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Old 24-Jul-13, 14:40
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Default New couple needs advice on leveling playing field

Hi all,

We are new to the forum and are very excited to find it. We were thinking of giving this a shot but are unsure how to go about it. She isn't in as good a shape as he is and neither have any real wrestling knowledge. For us, the end goal is that it's a turn on, but both are very competitive so who knows what will happen.

What would be a good starting point? Are there any good "mixed wrestling for dummies" type videos out there? Any advice would be so greatly appreciated!

A & J
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Old 24-Jul-13, 14:53
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Welcome to the forum! There are several members here who wrestle as couples so hopefully you'll get some good ideas as to how to enjoy the activity.

It wasn't too long ago that my wife and I were in a similar situation. I was the primary one interested in wrestling. Having been a big fan of mixed matches and catfights for years, I wanted to enjoy the activity with my wife.

We started out not by actually wrestling, but by putting each other in various holds and seeing how long we could maintain control. At first, I didn't try very hard to escape b/c I wanted the wife to get the feel of how to apply and maintain the holds. There are tons of pictures on the internet to help you with ideas for different holds. Pick the ones that look interesting and try them out. Later, after you're both comfortable with a few basic holds, you can try out some actual wrestling. The fun for us is the physical contact as a prelude to other, even more enjoyable activities!

We still do the "hold game" as we call it. Just last night we played "headscissors". In this game, she applies head scissors of various types and I try to escape. If I do, I'm (ahem..) rewarded. If not, she gets to maintain the hold and squeeze me until she's ready to move on to the next position. Really fun and works for us.

Good luck, be safe and, most importantly, have fun!
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Old 24-Jul-13, 14:56
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Like your headscissors game

Have to try that lol
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Old 24-Jul-13, 14:59
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Definitely a favorite of mine! She usually wins which is just fine with me LOL!
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Old 24-Jul-13, 17:48
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Default Re: New couple needs advice on leveling playing field

Wow! Thanks for all the great feedback. We appreciate the help. And we love the idea of a game. We'd love to try this stuff out in a game form! Scissoring seems like a fun idea, do other people in the forum play other games or is it strictly wrestling? Thanks again!

A & J
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Old 24-Jul-13, 19:16
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Welcome JC...you mentioned that she's not in as good a shape as you are. What are the physical differences between you two..ie height, weight and body type. Conditioning plays a tremendous role in the outcome of most mixed matches. It even trumps strength. Having big muscles is no good if their oxygen deprived and fatigued. Women usually have a natural strength advantage in their legs. You may want to try leg wrestling first to help build her confidence for more advanced activities. Like head and body scissors,then gradually move on from their. Either way Good Luck and have fun!!
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Old 24-Jul-13, 19:24
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Handicap your matches: You must wrestle Greco Roman -- you can't use your legs. She can wrestle freestyle -- she is free to use her legs, a big advantage.
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Old 24-Jul-13, 19:39
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Other handicaps you can use:
Start from referee position (par terre), she on top.
Let her apply her favorite hold and see if you can get out.
etc.
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Old 25-Jul-13, 17:40
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So I've found some videos with couples "wrestling" (often seeming very staged) where they appear to gain points from doing sexual things like rubbing certain areas or getting clothes off. I may be wrong but that's just the appearance.

I've searched to find the rules/scoring system to these matches and can't seem to find anything. This is definitely something we'd be interested in but would like a place to start as we are new to all of this.

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A & J
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Old 25-Jul-13, 21:18
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..throw him in the camel clutch! That will level the paying field haha!

Here's a thread so you get the "picture".. [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]
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