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Old 22-Jan-17, 03:52
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Has anyone ever had a random event or occurrence that could have led to an opportunity to have some fetish fun play (for lack of another term) down the road?
For many years three of my buddies and I have been taking a spring trip to Florida. We always stay at the same hotel. There is a nice pool side bar that we always hang out for happy hour every day before heading out for a night on the town. We've gotten to know a cute red head tattooed bartender named Jenn over the years. One of my buddies is that kind of guy that will embarass you at some point by turning the conversation kind of raunchy. He did it early on with Jenn. In fact within ten minutes of meeting her he asks, "so shaved or unshaved?" Now usually were met by the girl rolling her eyes but it was almost like Jenn was expecting the question as she quickly responded,"definitely unshaven." Let's just say we all had like a fifteen minute very candid conversation before my buddies headed up to freshen up before our ride got there.(I'm not convinced it was just freshening up that got done based on the conversation we had just had). Lol. So this left just Jenn and I. Hell I was having to much fun to leave just yet. There's like fifteen people at the bar and Jenn is just totally focusing on our conversation as the other bartender is doing all the work. So then Jenn drops the bombshell. She tells me that lately she has been into kink. So I bite and ask her what she means. Like domination and bondage she says. She says she's getting into tying her bf up and torturing him. Was she reading my mind? So of course I spilled my guts. I told her how I see session wrestlers and dominatrix and love to be tied up and then choked and hand smothered. I swore her to secrecy in regards to my buddies. So after the trip was over I'm thinking of Jenn all the time in the year leading up to our next trip. The first day of the trip were heading back to the room from the pool and as we pass the bar there's Jenn. We say hi and tell her we will be down in a bit for happy hour. I'm the first one down to the bar as my buddies are still showering. As I approach the bar I see there is no one there and Jenn is no where in sight. I sit at the bar and begin to browse the menu. Suddenly from behind two hands cover my mouth. It was heaven. Soft hands, smelled great and super tight so I couldn't get a single breath. I knew right away it was Jenn. She had it on so tight she was tilting my chair back. I was hoping she would keep it on forever. After around five seconds she let go and I guess she could see the appreciation in my eyes as she said, I knew you'd like that and gave me a kiss on the cheek. We saw Jenn a few more times for the next couple years. Though I'm by far the least attractive of our groups Jenn always favored me. My buddies would always ask me why she likes me so much. I never told them our little secret. Sadly our last trip Jenn is no longer working there. I thought about texting or calling her to see if we could set a "session" up when I go down there. I even thought of making a special trip myself to see her for it. I have her number in my contacts as the one time she was going to meet us for drinks later that night but it never worked out. But I knew that was a pipe dream. The fact that I know she would be so good at it and would have just as much fun as I did makes me think about it all the time.
So anyone else out there have what they would consider a lost opportunity?
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Old 22-Jan-17, 04:16
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1.a distinct section of a piece of writing, usually dealing with a single theme and indicated by a new line, indentation, or numbering.
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Old 22-Jan-17, 05:22
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Cool story, and yes, paragraphs are preferred, but still readable. I enjoyed that.

One time when I was very young, not a virgin but a virgin still in the world of S&M, I was in a focus group at a week long seminar and I told group I was in about my fetish, considering it a semi-safe place and we were supposd to share secrets and bond and all that good stuff.

So, at one point a lady in the group, and I was in my 20s, still horny as guys get and she was in her 30s and married and not ugly but not pretty a solid 5, maybe a 4.5, short, maybe 10 lbs overweight . . . kinda looked like the wife of the bald guy in calcification but a little more plain.

So, she gets this idea in her head that I need some confrontation, and keep in mind, I'd had the occasional GF, but they were lousy with domination, so it was like I'd never tried it but always wanted to. So she throws her scarf over my head from behind me and starts pulling on it, and I'm sitting in a chair and I get my hand up so I'm holding the scarf but if I let go, she could choke me for real. And it was a room with a number of people in it, not just my group but like 30 others and by now, she has a lot of people's attention, watching with interest, so I have to (or I think I have to) make a show that I don't want to be choked. But, secretly, I really wanted to know what it would have felt like to let her pull her scarf into my neck and possibly choke me, even though I wasn't attracted to her, I found what she was doing very attractive. I really wanted to let go, but I was too shy, in a room full of people.

That, in a different way, happened to me another time, that I might share later, but the same situation, in public where I wasn't comfortable letting it just happen, but I really wanted to let the ladies just have their way with me. I just didn't have the guts to go through with it in public.
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par·a·graph

1.a distinct section of a piece of writing, usually dealing with a single theme and indicated by a new line, indentation, or numbering.

Pedant - a person who is excessively concerned with minor details and rules or with displaying academic learning.

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Has anyone ever had a random event or occurrence that could have led to an opportunity to have some fetish fun play (for lack of another term) down the road?
For many years three of my buddies and I have been taking a spring trip to Florida. We always stay at the same hotel. There is a nice pool side bar that we always hang out for happy hour every day before heading out for a night on the town. We've gotten to know a cute red head tattooed bartender named Jenn over the years. One of my buddies is that kind of guy that will embarass you at some point by turning the conversation kind of raunchy. He did it early on with Jenn. In fact within ten minutes of meeting her he asks, "so shaved or unshaved?" Now usually were met by the girl rolling her eyes but it was almost like Jenn was expecting the question as she quickly responded,"definitely unshaven." Let's just say we all had like a fifteen minute very candid conversation before my buddies headed up to freshen up before our ride got there.(I'm not convinced it was just freshening up that got done based on the conversation we had just had). Lol. So this left just Jenn and I. Hell I was having to much fun to leave just yet. There's like fifteen people at the bar and Jenn is just totally focusing on our conversation as the other bartender is doing all the work. So then Jenn drops the bombshell. She tells me that lately she has been into kink. So I bite and ask her what she means. Like domination and bondage she says. She says she's getting into tying her bf up and torturing him. Was she reading my mind? So of course I spilled my guts. I told her how I see session wrestlers and dominatrix and love to be tied up and then choked and hand smothered. I swore her to secrecy in regards to my buddies. So after the trip was over I'm thinking of Jenn all the time in the year leading up to our next trip. The first day of the trip were heading back to the room from the pool and as we pass the bar there's Jenn. We say hi and tell her we will be down in a bit for happy hour. I'm the first one down to the bar as my buddies are still showering. As I approach the bar I see there is no one there and Jenn is no where in sight. I sit at the bar and begin to browse the menu. Suddenly from behind two hands cover my mouth. It was heaven. Soft hands, smelled great and super tight so I couldn't get a single breath. I knew right away it was Jenn. She had it on so tight she was tilting my chair back. I was hoping she would keep it on forever. After around five seconds she let go and I guess she could see the appreciation in my eyes as she said, I knew you'd like that and gave me a kiss on the cheek. We saw Jenn a few more times for the next couple years. Though I'm by far the least attractive of our groups Jenn always favored me. My buddies would always ask me why she likes me so much. I never told them our little secret. Sadly our last trip Jenn is no longer working there. I thought about texting or calling her to see if we could set a "session" up when I go down there. I even thought of making a special trip myself to see her for it. I have her number in my contacts as the one time she was going to meet us for drinks later that night but it never worked out. But I knew that was a pipe dream. The fact that I know she would be so good at it and would have just as much fun as I did makes me think about it all the time.
So anyone else out there have what they would consider a lost opportunity?
Cool story, and enjoyed reading. Ignore cubs fan's cretinous and unnecessary comment. Thanks for sharing.
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Old 22-Jan-17, 14:12
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It's not enjoyable reading when there aren't breaks in the story, so the concern over paragraphs is hardly pedantic.
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It's not enjoyable reading when there aren't breaks in the story, so the concern over paragraphs is hardly pedantic.
Well I guess the good thing is you don't have to read it if you don't want to. That's the beauty of this group.
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Mine is very sad. VeVe Lane's friend wanted me to wrestle her in like 2007 or so. She wanted to see how good VeVe was. It would have been free, but in front of a crowd. I said no bc of the crowd.

I would have won. But 10 years later? Not so sure. (I'm strong but I have no BJJ experience)
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Mine is very sad. VeVe Lane's friend wanted me to wrestle her in like 2007 or so. She wanted to see how good VeVe was. It would have been free, but in front of a crowd. I said no bc of the crowd.

I would have won. But 10 years later? Not so sure. (I'm strong but I have no BJJ experience)
I probably would have passed also.

Though the thought of being humiliated in front of a crowd is somewhat exciting.

It's one of those things that I wouldn't have had the nerve to do but would have later regretted.

Look four paragraphs that are also sentences. Can't wait to get my grade.
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Interesting, I have missed many opportunities but also taken advantage of many. I remember when I was 16, a girl I worked with on a summer job told me she wanted to tie me up and sit on my face (coincidentally exactly my fetish). Unfortunately it didn't happen. On another occasion when a teen & still a virgin, I was attacked by two even younger girls, they both sat on me, one tried very hard to get my cock out, unfortunately I was scared of it all. However, they did spend 2 hours taking it in turns to sit on my face while the other sat astride my crotch.
I have been lucky too - once on a business trip in New York where a girl picked me up in a bank at 11.00am & took me back to her place.
Many stories, but maybe another time.
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Cool story, and enjoyed reading. Ignore cubs fan's cretinous and unnecessary comment. Thanks for sharing.
Absolutely necessary. If it wasn't, the comment wouldn't have made in the first place. I'm not sure why some people seem to have such a dislike of paragraphs.
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